Now there is a strange theory, that is, science students must be dull and wooden, and they can't say those pleasant love words! However, this is not the case, it is just an illusion of people nowadays! Science students can also talk about love, and they can also be said to be envied, and Mr. Qian Xuesen is one of them!
Qian Xuesen is a famous physicist in China, the founder of China's manned space technology, and his wife Jiang Ying, who is also a world-renowned singer. Jiang Ying was famous as early as the 1940s because of the "soprano", she has a wide vocal range, deep singing skills, and is also a gorgeous and beautiful woman, looking like zhao Yazhi, a popular star in the 1990s.
Anyone who has seen her photo will feel strange: a great scientist like Qian Xuesen does not look like a person who can speak sweet words at all. So, how did he pursue Jiang Ying? It's not always because of eloquence! However, the fact is exactly the opposite of ordinary people's cognition, Qian Xuesen is not only very good at love talk, but also very funny and humorous.
In 1991, at the "National Outstanding Contribution Scientist Award" ceremony, Qian Xuesen took his wife Jiang Ying's hand and said the famous love sentence - "Money belongs to you, and the prize (Jiang) belongs to me!" When I heard his words, everyone found out: It turns out that science students can also talk about love! However, Qian Xuesen's love words are often "affectionate, stop at 'reason'", and are spoken in a humorous tone, naturally, without a trace, and will not make the "light bulbs" on the side feel too embarrassed!
I. Qian Xuesen's "Child Daughter-in-Law"
Qian Xuesen was born in 1911 in Lin'an, Zhejiang Province, his father was the director of the Zhejiang Provincial Department of Education at that time, and he was a close friend of the military educator Mr. Jiang Baili. When Qian Xuesen was 12 years old, Mr. Jiang Baili took 5-year-old Jiang Ying to Qian's house as a guest. Qian Xuesen's mother, Zhang Lanjuan, fell in love with the smart and beautiful little Jiang Ying at a glance.
Therefore, Qian Mu said to Jiang Baili: You have five daughters, I don't have a daughter, you give Jiang Ying to me as a daughter! Jiang Baili considered that the two families were thick friends, and the Qian family had been well-read for generations, the family was well off, and would never treat his daughter badly, so he agreed. Qian's mother and qian's father were overjoyed, and they also held a feast to celebrate. Since then, Jiang Ying has changed his name to "Qian Xueying" and lived in Qian Xuesen's home.
However, the good times did not last long, and after only four months, Xiao Jiang Ying was crying and arguing, and had to return to Jiang's house. Her reason was that this brother (Qian Xuesen) had a lot of harmonica, organ and leather balls, but he always took it out to tease her, but he wouldn't let her play. Xiao Jiang Ying expressed anger at Xiao Qian Xuesen's "selfishness", she was still too young to understand that when a boy deliberately made a girl angry, she was actually expressing her liking for her.
Qian's mother, Zhang Lanjuan, saw through the careful thinking of her twelve-year-old son, so she half-jokingly and half-seriously said to Jiang Ying's father, Jiang Baili: Your daughter can take her back, but when she grows up, she will have to be the daughter-in-law of our Qian family. Because of this incident, Qian Xuesen, who grew up, often joked to others: She (Jiang Ying) is our family's "child bridesmaid". The sweetness and happiness behind that joke is self-evident.
Second, the love that I did not understand in my youth
After the Qian and Jiang families had the aforementioned relationship, the relationship became even closer. Therefore, in 1935, when Qian Xuesen wanted to study in the United States, Jiang Baili specially took his daughter Jiang Ying to practice for him. At that time, Jiang Ying was at the age of sixteen and grew into a beautiful girl. Twenty-four-year-old Qian Xuesen saw it, and was suddenly moved, and couldn't help but say to her: Your laughter is particularly beautiful, can you keep it all the time?
The young girl who had just opened her love sinus asked him mischievously: Why? Full of thought that Qian Xuesen would say the sentence "I like you", I didn't expect the other party to just say with a little numbness: Because you are pure and lively, it is too precious! Only those who have seen Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen will understand that Qian Xuesen did not deliberately say meaty words to please Jiang Ying. Because Jiang Ying is indeed beautiful and incomprehensible, people can't take their eyes off it at first sight.
At that time, Jiang Ying already had secret feelings for Qian Xuesen, and he was looking forward to the other party's preemptive opening. However, Qian Xuesen was obsessed with going to the United States to study. Good boys are determined to be in all directions, and when they are young, they are angry and strong, and they cannot be bound by the private feelings of their children. Therefore, even if Qian Xuesen has fallen in love with Jiang Ying, he has not thought about the direction of engagement. Jiang Ying sent him off with a little disappointment, and when he waited for the next goodbye, it was already eleven years later, and they each had a love object.
Three or eleven years of continuous lovesickness, a lover eventually became a family
Jiang Ying's cousin Jin Yong later wrote "The Divine Eagle Hero", and Xiaolongnü left a book to deceive Yang Guo before falling off a cliff in the "Valley of Absolute Love", saying that she would return after sixteen years. Yang guo waited for the little dragon girl for sixteen years, but he couldn't wait for her, and finally jumped off the cliff, but unexpectedly reunited with her.
In reality, the life of studying abroad is the "valley of absolute love" between Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen, and Yang Guo has replaced it with Jiang Ying. Jiang and Qian went their separate ways and waited for each other for eleven years. Later, although they each had a nominal love object, but everyone dragged on and did not get married. Because in their hearts for each other, they have always lived in each other.
Qian Xuesen praised Jiang Ying's sweet laughter, and then Jiang Ying has been working hard in vocal music. He eventually rose to fame at the 1943 World Opera, becoming a world-renowned "soprano" singer. When Qian Xuesen saw her again, it was after a concert. At that time, Qian Xuesen was already a full professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, he was 36 years old, and Jiang Ying was also 28 years old.
Qian Mu still did not forget the agreement of that year, and immediately took the initiative to ask the Jiang family: "Does she (Jiang Ying) have an object now?" After getting a positive answer, Qian Xuesen was silent. Before returning to the United States, Qian Xuesen suddenly said to Jiang Ying: Is it okay to go back to the United States with me? Jiang Ying said: But I have a boyfriend. Qian Xuesen said: "I also have a girlfriend." But from now on, your boyfriend, my girlfriend don't count, let's be friends again! ”
Jiang Ying was shocked by Qian Xuesen's determination, and she waited for eleven years for this sentence before he spoke it. Fortunately, the man and the woman are not married, and everything is not too late. As a result, Jiang Ying quickly agreed to Qian Xuesen's marriage proposal. In 1947, Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying were happily married in Shanghai, and then at qian Xuesen's insistence, Jiang Ying and he went to the United States to live together. Jiang Ying could not speak English fluently at first, and Qian Xuesen had to teach her carefully in addition to his scientific research work!
In 1950, Qian Xuesen prepared to return to China, but was persecuted by the U.S. government and placed under house arrest for five years along with his wife, Jiang Ying. When she was imprisoned, Jiang Ying taught her husband to learn to play the bamboo flute, while Jiang Ying herself played the guitar to accompany her husband. The duo are harmonious, just like Ling Huchong and Ren Yingying in "Smiling Proud of the Jianghu".
Later, Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying went through several twists and turns and finally returned to the motherland. Qian Xuesen became the father of China's aerospace industry, and Jiang Ying has been struggling on the front line of vocal music education in China.
epilogue
Judging from Mr. Qian Xuesen's emotional experience, he is actually quite good at telling love. It's just that the object of his love words is Jiang Ying, coupled with his humorous tone, so even if he says more praise, others will not feel that he is talking about love, only think that he is "telling the truth", and his sentence "Money belongs to you, the award (Jiang) belongs to me", which is even more deadly, envious of many couples!