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Toys are an important partner to accompany children's growth, and a childhood without toys can be said to be incomplete.
Nowadays, with the continuous improvement of living standards, the demand for children's toy market is becoming more and more intense, and in order to win the first place in the fierce market competition, merchants are also painstakingly enriching the form of toys, including cute plush toys, educational educational toys, and humorous and funny toys...
This has also led to the mud and sand of the toy market, many bad merchants use unqualified or even toxic raw materials, and some play the "edge ball".
But the form of toys is innovative, does not mean that you can be unscrupulous!
Edge-rubbing toys are prevalent, angering parents
In our impression, Americans' ideological concepts are very open, but what is this sacred toy that American mothers can't help but complain about?
It turned out that the mother bought a cute elf for her daughter in the mall, and the toy packaging said that the elf could make different sounds, but after buying home, the mother searched for a long time and did not find where the switch was, and finally found the button between the legs of the elf.
This design makes the mother angry, obviously it is a toy suitable for children, but the designer puts the button in such a private and sensitive part, which is obviously a soft pornographic toy that rubs the edge ball.
Despite the resolute resistance of parents, there are not a few toys on the market that involve rubbing the edges.
A mother from Guangdong also shared her own experience, when she cleaned her son's room, she found that the child had secretly hidden "family planning supplies", and after repeated confirmation, a hanging heart was finally put down, these are just candies disguised as condoms, are children's whole toys.
In this regard, the majority of parents in questioning the toy review process at the same time, but also strongly demand that major shopping malls, platforms should strictly prohibit the sale of such toys, they believe that pornographic edge ball toys will promote children, very unfavorable to growth.
Wrong induced sex education is not as good as nothing
In addition, there are a small number of netizens who believe that it is not useless for children to contact such toys, at least it can help parents instill sex education in their children.
In my opinion, there is no connection between the toy of the edge ball and sex education.
For the design of the elf button, we have reason to suspect that it has the suspicion of misleading children's sensitive parts to be touched at will, but it has produced an inappropriate demonstration effect, which cannot be ignored by parents.
True sex education should be: first of all, let the child know his own body, and understand where the taboos are when getting along with people, and know how to protect their privacy.
Proper Sex Education:
First of all, parents should not avoid asking questions from their children;
The second is to educate children to protect their own private parts, resolutely not to let people touch, to refuse loudly, but also not to touch these parts of others;
Again, help your child through the sensitive period. Young children will have a period of interest in the body of the opposite sex, which is the stage of their understanding of the physical differences between men and women, during which parents should actively guide and do not scold;
Finally, parents should treat their children equally, and do not make children feel ashamed of their gender because of the wrong idea of "son preference and preference for women".
In addition, I would like to say that toys are a necessity for children's childhood, we can't give up the whole pot of porridge because of a mouse, and more careful when buying can avoid this adverse effect for children.
Parents should pay attention to the following points when choosing toys for their children
First, the toy should match the age of the child
Many toys on the market are marked with the words suitable for children of several years old, choose suitable for the age of their own children, can help children eliminate safety hazards, such as the appetite period of the baby can not choose toys containing small parts, harmful substances;
Second, choose toys that are meaningful to your child's growth
Toys are not only to bring happiness to children, but also to have an educational nature, such as cultivating children's concentration and helping children develop good living and eating habits;
Third, choose toys with regular manufacturers
In addition to the toys that wipe the edge of the ball, there are a large number of three-no toys, which use inferior materials, harmful elements exceed the standard, and pose a great threat to the safety of children's lives.
Fourth, put an end to vulgar and bad taste toys
Once parents find vulgar, edge-rubbing toys, they should actively report to the relevant departments, eliminate the children's growth environment, and use correct sex education to give their children a real lesson.
Of course, no matter how good the toy is, it is not as important as the company of parents, parents still have to participate in the growth of their children as much as possible, take their children out of the house, and feel the charm of nature.