Looking back at "The Gate of the Great Mansion" again, I have to sigh yang Jiuhong's tragic life. Yang Jiuhong is bold and careful, smart and studious, and can go out to buy medicinal herbs in disguise as a man; Li can learn Japanese to save the Hundred Grass Hall in the wind and rain. Unfortunately, he was born badly, and when he was a child, he was sold by his brother and sister-in-law into the wind street Willow Lane. It was hard to find a Bai Jingqi who thought he could rely on his life, but the result was never recognized by the Bai family. Resentful and depressed, and finally ended up with the mother and daughter duo dying of anger. It's a pity.
I often think that if I were Yang Jiuhong, I would never let things develop like this.
If I were Yang Jiuhong, I probably wouldn't be going back to Beijing. Bai Jingqi and Bai Yufen had repeatedly told her that there was no room for her origin in the door of the mansion. She does not expect the fame in the door of the mansion, and it is also very good to live in Jinan with peace of mind. Well, she is also the boss lady of Kuroshina Taki, and she also has the support of her cousin Admiral's Mansion behind her, and her life can be decent and honorable. In addition to not being able to see Bai Jingqi from time to time, you can also have children around your knees and enjoy your old age in peace.
Perhaps Yang Jiuhong's early involvement with the Viceroy's Mansion made her cousin embarrassed, and Yu Fen had to send her back to the capital.
If I were Yang Jiuhong, I wouldn't force Carrie to call out to my mother. The only way out for women in those days was marriage. Bai Jiali had a hard time reincarnating into the door of the mansion, and her mother's birth would indeed have a great impact on her future. Keeping it by the old lady's side can also make up for this very well. Since the old lady had already taken it away, she simply cut off the connection herself and let Bai Jingqi make up a clean origin for the child. After all, there is no mother, and there is also the love of her father and grandmother, and Carrie can be confident and optimistic from an early age. Even if you can't be a mother and daughter, you can try to be a friend as a strange elder.
If I were Yang Jiuhong, I would take the initiative to learn the etiquette rules of the capital. Yang Jiuhong's persistence in letting Jiali recognize herself is a common sentiment of people, but it does not conform to the rules of the big mansions in the capital. Carrie is the big miss of the White Family, but she is an outer room that the White Family does not recognize. If the old lady did not recognize Yang Jiuhong, Jiali could not recognize it first. Second, even if it is the aunt and grandmother of the family, the biological child can only call Mrs. Zhengfang's mother and call her aunt. Obviously, Yang Jiuhong did not understand these rules. Fortunately, Beijing is the place with the most rules and the most people. The old lady who came out of the palace palace was not well-informed and well-mannered. Spend a lot of money to ask one or two people to study seriously for a year and a half. It not only consumes time, but also cultivates the body and mind. In the future, when we get along, the etiquette is complete and generous, and they are not looked down upon.
If I were Yang Jiuhong, I would definitely give myself a whole career. As a woman of Bai Jingqi, Yang Jiuhong is naturally not short of money, what she lacks is a decent identity. Whether it is the former kiln sister or the outer room of the current mansion door, it is an unseemly identity. It also made other people who were with her uncomfortable. Yang Jiuhong also has the idea of being in charge of the deacon. She is smart and courageous, coupled with Bai Jingqi's dependence, it is not difficult to think of a career. Career ignites the passion of her life. The career has become, with a decent identity, and the White family will not be too far behind.
If I were Yang Jiuhong, I would definitely adopt a child. Yang Jiuhong was lonely and depressed all his life, on the one hand, the Bai family did not approve, on the other hand, he "lost" his daughter too lonely. Since the birth of a child has not regenerated, it is estimated that it will not be born. Then you should adopt another child, and you can also relieve the depression and miss your daughter. Take care of this child as a parent, and teach him carefully according to the standards of the big house. After the child became a talent, he not only confirmed that he was not underestimated by the White Family, but also had a dependency in the future.