Zhang Ailing said:
"I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but it is love that creates more regrets."
Yes, I thought that sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, and with the person I like, life will be complete.
But where is life so simple, love is so simple.
Many people stumble in love, from the initial expectation of love, to the final dare not love again.
Therefore, even if I later met the person who felt good, I did not dare to be unreserved, unscrupulous, and enthusiastic.
Fear of repeating the same mistakes, afraid of being abandoned again, can only test their place in the other person's heart over and over again.
Actually, to know if a man is serious about you, you don't have to bother like this.
Just look at whether he can put you first in the daily life with him.
The following 3 times, men will put you first, is really love you.
When you quarrel, it will put you first
Emotion expert Wenger once wrote such a sentence in the book:
"Even in a good marriage, there will be 200 thoughts of divorce in a lifetime, and 50 urges to strangle each other."
After every couple is together, it is inevitable to experience quarrels.
Sweet words can be said by anyone, but if a person, when arguing with you, can still take into account your feelings and put you first, then, there is no doubt that he must really love you.
I've seen a little video like this:
The girl and her boyfriend had an argument on the way home because of some things, and neither of them would give in, and the two sides quarreled red-faced.
The girl was very angry and shouted that she wanted to get out of the car.
The boy did not force him to stay, and directly parked the car on the side of the road.
I thought that after the girl got out of the car, the boy would drive away directly because he was angry.
But the boy in the video did not leave, but slowly followed the girl.
After the girl had walked for a while, he drove up, lowered the window and asked, "Girl, do you want to take a taxi?" ”
The girl was angry and got out of the car, but after walking for a while, she found that the boyfriend did not really abandon himself and drove away alone, at this time, the gas had been mostly dissipated;
When the boy took the initiative to ask himself whether he could take a taxi, the girl's "qi" had long been thrown out of the cloud of nine clouds and disappeared.
In the end, naturally, I got into the car happily.
You see, the boy who really loves you is willing to bow his head to you, even if he is angry again, he will not leave you alone.
When partying with friends, put you first
Zhang Guorong said:
"Feelings that are announced are the most secure."
Many people ask if they want to officially announce it after being with their boyfriends.
My answer is yes.
If a person really loves you, then naturally he will not hide the relationship between you.
He will announce your relationship to the people around you and let you fully integrate into his life, his circle.
I know a guy who is very good in birth, appearance, and knowledge, but his girlfriend is more ordinary;
But the boy does not think so, whether it is a friend party, a colleague party, as long as he can bring his family, he will take her;
Generously introduce her to the people around her, when she is shy and embarrassed to express, he will help her break the siege;
In his own way, he will silently let her integrate into his friends and make her feel relaxed and comfortable.
With the help of the boys, the girls quickly adapted to the boys' circle.
Many times, even if the boy is not with her, she does not have the initial embarrassment and the idea of escaping.
She can face it calmly and talk and laugh with them.
There is no concealment, this is not OK, that is not OK, it will not embarrass you, he will use his words and deeds to let everyone know that he cares about you with satisfaction.
Even playing games will put you first
Compared with girls, boys are more nervous, and their minds are not as delicate as girls.
Many times, a casual sentence and a move can make girls aggrieved for a long time.
Take games, for example, many boys like to play games, whether in love or not, as long as they have time, they will want to play one or two.
When you are single, you will be alone anyway, and you can play as much as you like.
But if you have a girlfriend in love, if you will do whatever you want, then it is naturally easy to lose the person you love.
I have an example of this around me.
When boys are fine, they always like to find their brothers to open the black, and even, many times, they will delay playing games with their girlfriends;
The girlfriend not only complained once that he regarded the game as more important than her, but the boy did not think so.
In the end, the girl saved enough disappointment, so she quickly chose to leave.
After the boy lost, he knew that he regretted it, and he may have gone to the empty building and could not go back.
A boy who really puts you in his heart to love must be reluctant to do this to you.
He loves you more than games.
So, even if you have a good time playing games with your brother, when he receives you saying that you are bored;
He will run to chat with you regardless of it;
No matter how his friends scold him, he is not moved, and he is single-mindedly accompanying you who is bored at this moment.
Perhaps, this is the detail, see true love.
The rest of his life is long, and his lover is immortal.
May you be accompanied by good people, and love will always be with you.