Tong Tong is an only child and is pampered at home, especially the grandparents are the most fond of this little grandson, and the stars will not give the moon.
Recently, Grandma Tong Tong found that Tong Tong never gave herself and Grandpa anything good to eat, but what good things must be given to her mother to taste first, and Grandma "has quite a word" about it, feeling that she usually hurts this child in vain, what is delicious is given to her mother to eat, and her grandparents do not taste it.
In fact, Tong Tong used to be very generous to everyone, and grandparents always liked to tease Tong Tong and say, "What is delicious for your grandparents to taste." Tong Tong immediately handed over the delicious food, and they quickly smiled and said, "Grandparents don't eat, so let's eat more." "After a few times, the child was not taken seriously. When Tong Tong shares with her mother, her mother will accept Tong Tong's things and thank him, and will also taste and evaluate with him, so Tong Tong likes to share with her mother.
Children are simple and beautiful, and he will take everything adults say as true. As an adult, you should respect and protect the child's simple beauty, should not be for fun or show love to tease the child, the child is willing to share, the adult does not accept, the number of times, "sharing" in the child's heart will lose its original meaning, he will understand the meaning of sharing: I symbolically share with you, but you will not really accept, so slowly the child is not willing to share with you.
If one day, you suddenly accept the child's sharing, the child may not be able to accept such a change for a while and become sullen or cry, and in the eyes of the parents, this is the child's selfish performance, but do not know that the reason why the child has this wrong behavior is precisely because of the parent's misleading.
Some children are reluctant to share because he does not know how to share, he just subconsciously wants to protect what he likes, parents can encourage children to share, but do not keep staring at the behavior of children who do not share.
Parents can do sharing games with their children to create sharing opportunities for their children, such as going to buy things, letting children choose what their parents and grandparents like, and then let their children distribute them reasonably after they return.
At home, we usually have to develop a good habit of family members sharing food, do not give children too special preferential treatment, children want to celebrate birthdays, parents should also celebrate birthdays like children, parents prepare gifts for children, but also require children to prepare gifts for parents to express their hearts, children form the habit of sharing, in order to experience the joy of sharing.
Sharing mainly depends on the child's willingness, the child itself has the willingness to share, parents should be generous to accept not to hit the child; the child is not willing to share, parents can be moderate guidance, do not force.