Introduction: In our daily life, almost all of them are inseparable from the existence of "friends", who are important objects of our emotional feedback and daily help. Learning to make friends and maintain friendships is the content of our growing life, so when children grow up, they will gradually move from the arms of their mothers to their own social steps to make their own friends.
But we will also find that children have different personalities and different dating situations, and some children seem to be born social, and they can quickly meet a large group of friends after kindergarten. But some children are often alone, want to make friends but do not know where to start,
As parents, we need to give corresponding guidance to the social development of our children. When a child asks, "How do we make friends?", how should we answer?
When a child comes to us for help on how to make friends, it proves that the child's personal desire to make friends is very willing, but it may not be able to make friends smoothly because of personality problems or poor personal expression. As parents, of course, we have to help our children take the first step, but before that, parents need to let their children understand the two key points of dating:
First, learn to pick friends before making friends
Just as the so-called "mentor and friend", a good friend can give the child a lot of positive guidance in the growth, and the real friend is the happy feedback of both parties' emotions, the child can get happiness in the process of making friends, followed by mutual learning and progress. Therefore, when choosing friends, children must know how to choose children with good character who are suitable for their own personality.
Second, know how to share and respect others in the dating process
The acquaintance and maintenance of friendship is a very important point is the reciprocity of feelings, and in this process, children cannot only be self-centered, emotions are two-way choices. In the process of getting along with others, children need to consider each other's emotions and feelings, know how to share with each other, and know how to respect others.
A good friendship is far more important and more beneficial than countless bad friendships, so if a child wants to make friends, how can he establish a relationship with others in practice? How do you maintain a friendship when your child makes friends? Here we will briefly explain:
1, how to break the ice of dating: greeting is to let two strangers know each other, when the child wants to make friends, greeting is one of the necessary skills. Of course, the ice-breaking of the relationship also needs to have some scenes implanted, such as toy exchange, and participating in the game together are key scenes that can quickly close the relationship, in this process, greeting and exchanging names can establish a relationship.
Here children can use some of the more common words: "Hello! "Do I have a toy here that I can swap with you?" "Are you going to play games with me?" "My name is xxx, what's your name?" These are all words that are conducive to opening up communication in the process of making friends at the beginning.
2, how to maintain a child's friendship: If the child wants a long-term friendship, a fixed friend and not just an occasional "one-day friend", then it is necessary to understand that a good friendship needs to be managed and maintained. In this process, it is necessary for children to pay and share, and the relationship between them can be further and more secure.
Therefore, the friendship can continue when children have common topics, common interests and hobbies to play together, and let the other party feel that two people are relaxed together. Of course, the key is to know how to share and respect as mentioned above, and in the same way, if the child only pays in a friendship and is not respected, then the friendship will not last long.
Important: Children should learn to choose and identify good friends by themselves, and they must know how to share and respect others. In the process of making friends, children should know how to use some scenes to say hello and break the ice to establish relationships, and in the process of maintaining friendship, they need to have common topics, hobbies, etc., so that two people can play together and get happiness from it.
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