Every woman has the right to be a mother, and I believe that the vast majority of women will also have the dream of becoming a mother, which we must certainly respect.
However, if they suffer from some congenital diseases and are told by the hospital that they are not suitable for children, women still insist on completing their dreams of becoming mothers, then it is likely to change their lives and be irresponsible to their children.
In the past, when it came to pocket people, people always felt very curious, after all, at that time, everyone did not have any concept of pocket people.
They always feel that they look strange and different, and even some people will take the pocket people as the object of performance, with their physical defects to attract normal people to watch, so as to obtain certain benefits.
But with the development of the times, people are now strange to the pocket people, they are actually only because of congenital diseases and can not grow tall, and even the appearance is stuck in the appearance of children.
Of course, this is a bit regrettable, especially the pocket people are generally advised not to have children in medicine, which is estimated to make them even more regretful.
But there is a 90 cm pocket girl who insists on becoming a mother, and although she is 25 years old, she looks like a child.
However, the husband is very tall and powerful, and unlike the general situation in which the pocket person will marry the pocket person, the pocket girl is still relatively lucky. After marriage, she insisted on getting pregnant despite the persuasion of her family and doctors, and gave birth to a boy smoothly.
After a series of examinations, the son did not suffer from dwarfism like her, which of course made the family very happy.
But soon the problem came, the child who had been born for 7 days had more than 10 fractures, and the doctor diagnosed the child with brittle bone disease, which had a great factor with heredity, which made the whole family miserable.
What are the situations that are not suitable for having children?
1. One of the spouses suffers from congenital genetic diseases
Some serious genetic disease history is very harmful to people's bodies, so the state will recommend that every couple do a check-up before marriage, so that they can not only know their physical condition, but also know each other's physical condition.
If someone has a family genetic history, it will undoubtedly affect the next generation, which can also make people have a serious thinking about marriage, and they are responsible for their children.
2, the economic foundation is too poor
Although the elderly feel that children are poor and poor, rich and rich, in today's society, the economic foundation really plays a very important role in the development of children.
Children's food, drink, education and other aspects need to be spent, if parents choose to give birth to children, they hope that the children can live well.
However, if the husband and wife themselves have eaten the last meal and not the next meal, then rushing to have children at this time will only cause harm to the growth of the child.
3, there is no emotional basis
Some people say that children are the bond that maintains the relationship between husband and wife, but now people have a very strong sense of self and want to tie a person's heart with children.
Such an idea is clearly outdated. So if the relationship between husband and wife does not have any basis to speak of, or is obviously in a state of rupture, then of course it is not suitable to have children at this time, otherwise giving birth to a child will only make yourself and the child more painful.
What should pregnant women pay attention to after pregnancy?
1. Pay attention to your mood
Although some situations are not suitable for having children, but sometimes children will come unexpectedly, then pregnant women should maintain a peaceful state of mind, do not always have too much anxiety, but to go with the flow of nature, optimistic face life.
Because the child comes is fate, thinking too much, will only affect their mood, make themselves optimistic and cheerful, will help the development of the fetus.
2, maintain the law of life
Pregnant women must avoid staying up late, do not sleep too long during the day, you can properly carry out some exercise during the day, of course, if the work intensity is not large, you can not give up your work.
This can at least make their lives have a certain regularity, which is not only of great benefit to the body of pregnant women, but also allows the fetus to develop better.