Lin Huiyin once said:
"The biggest regret in life is not that you miss the best person, but that you miss the person who wants to be good to you." 」
The person who wants to be good to you may not be good, may have flaws, but he is the person who really, really wants to be good to you.
Because a wrong choice hurts three people at the same time, this may be the biggest regret in life.
In Sichuan, there is a 51-year-old single stick who has never married in his life, but suddenly a daughter wants to recognize his relatives, and the key is still his own. What's going on here?
01. Suddenly a daughter appears to recognize her
His name is Liu Mingxing (pseudonym), 51 years old, his family lives in Mabian, Sichuan, he has a disability, he has an eye that cannot be seen, in Sichuan dialect is "one-eyed".
Liu Mingxing, 51, who has never been married in his life and has played a single stick for half a lifetime, suddenly made a strange phone call to tell Liu Mingxing that he has a daughter and is 26 years old this year. Liu Mingxing, who received this call, was completely confused, how could he have a daughter? His first reaction was, fake, deceitful.
But when he heard a name, Liu Mingxing fell into contemplation, and this name was a secret that was pressed deep inside him.
The story began 26 years ago, when Liu Mingxing, who was in his twenties, fell in love with a woman, and when he was about to get married, the woman ran away, and he knew that this woman was pregnant.
This woman's name is Li Hongying (pseudonym), all these years, Liu Mingxing has not been married, and this woman has a certain relationship, hidden in the heart can not erase the pain, how can he not understand, why would this woman suddenly leave? Let him beat the bare stick for half a lifetime.
Liu Mingxing couldn't believe that after Li Hongying left, he must have shed his child, why did Li Hongying, who had not heard from him for so many years, suddenly appear again? And suddenly a daughter appeared.
Although Li Hongying was indeed pregnant when she left, after so many years, the child was not necessarily his. But when Liu Mingxing saw the girl's picture, he was silent, and he dared to be sure that this girl was his daughter, because he looked too similar to his fifth sister when he was young, and he could be sure at a glance.
Then Liu Mingxing and the girl did a paternity test, and the final identification result was that the girl was his own daughter, which was a happiness that fell from the sky, which made Liu Mingxing feel very pleased, and he did not dream that he had a daughter.
02. Twenty-six years of misery for the daughter
Liu Mingxing's daughter is named Liu Wenjing, she has been an unloved child from birth, in order to prove that she is not a wild child, she tried her best to find her own biological parents.
26 years ago, Li Hongying, who was pregnant, sneaked away from Liu Mingxing's home, in Li Hongying's words: "I hate Liu Mingxing, I hate her."
At the beginning, Li Hongying and Liu Mingxing fell in love through Li Hongying's third sister, because Liu Mingxing was a one-eyed, Li Hongying was unwilling, but her third sister forced her to be with Liu Mingxing, and also said to Li Hongying that if she was not with Liu Mingxing, she would not recognize his sister and cut off contact from then on.
Under the persecution of the third sister, Li Hongying and Liu Mingxing talked about love, because of the discussion of people around them and their own unwillingness, when they were about to get married, she ran away with others when she was pregnant. But what she did not expect was that she was sold to Jiangsu by human traffickers for three months, because she was managed by human traffickers, and she originally wanted to shed the child in her belly, but there was no chance, and she could only give birth to this child.
Soon after Li Hongying was abducted and sold to Jiangsu, Liu Wenjing was born, and this unloved child was sent to the home of relatives and aunts by Li Hongying's husband shortly after birth. Although she did not feel maternal love, her aunt and grandmother were still good to her, making up for his missing maternal love. But the good times did not last long, when she was three or four years old, the national census, in order not to be fined, sent Liu Wenjing to her aunt's house, and from then on it was the beginning of her nightmare.
Liu Wenjing recalled that her aunt often beat her and scolded her, and the pain in her body was better, but the pain in her heart could not be forgotten for a lifetime. The aunt beat her at every turn, was beaten covered in blood, and called her a dog, a wild that no one wanted. This wild girl that no one wants is a thorn in Liu Wenjing's heart.
Later, Liu Wenjing was suddenly picked up by Li Hongying at the age of 12, and he always thought that she was her biological father, but he treated her unequally and lukewarm attitude, so that this teenage child could not feel any warmth. Later, she learned that she was not born to her father, that her father did not love, that her mother did not hurt, and that was her childhood.
When Liu Wenjing was 15 years old, she learned about her father from her mother's mouth, and at that moment, she just wanted to find her father quickly and prove that she was not a wild child that no one wanted.
Finally, in September 2020, Liu Wenjing found her biological father, and through paternity testing, she determined that the person she had never met was her father.
03. Belated love – the one who wants to be nice to you
Liu Wenjing got on the train to Sichuan, Liu Mingxing waited anxiously at the gate of the railway station, he kept staring at the exit, when Li Hongying and Liu Wenjing came out of the train station, Liu Mingxing recognized them at the first sight.
They finally met, Liu Mingxing and Liu Wenjing hugged each other tightly, and at this moment they both waited for a long time, a long time, a long time.
Li Hongying on the side let Liu Wenjing and her nephew go home, Li Hongying never said a word to Liu Mingxing, until now, Li Hongying still hates Liu Mingxing, in her opinion, all her misfortunes are caused by Liu Mingxing.
This wild child, whom no one wanted, finally had a home
Under the introduction of her father Liu Mingxing, Liu Wenjing saw many relatives in the family, and when she returned here, Liu Wenjing knew how warm and happy it was to have a family.
Liu Mingxing listened to his daughter's tragic past, he couldn't cry, he blamed himself for not protecting his daughter well, and he couldn't understand why Li Hongying, a mother, didn't take good care of her children? He even blamed Li Hongying, if it were not for her selfishness, he would not have been separated from the child for 26 years.
Liu Mingxing suddenly had a daughter, and that unimaginable surprise and joy made him find the meaning of life again and start a new life.
This is the story of Liu Mingxing's sudden emergence of a daughter, wishing Liu Wenjing to find a home.
Write at the end:
Now that Liu Wenjing has chosen her father's family to live in Sichuan, she wants Li Hongying to live with her in Sichuan, away from the days without dignity, but Li Hongying finally chose to return to Jiangsu because there was her son there. The traffickers who abducted Li Hongying have not yet been found, and it is hoped that they can be found and caught as soon as possible.
From beginning to end, Li Hongying believed that Liu Mingxing had harmed her, and she still had hatred for Liu Mingxing, but how much did Li Hongying's life have to do with Liu Mingxing? In my opinion, the adult world can be said directly, do not like to break up peacefully, there is no need to choose an extreme way to kill three people, not to mention that Liu Mingxing is the one who wants to be good to her. Part of the reason for today's results is self-inflicted, and partly because of human traffickers.
Liu Mingxing said that even now he still feels like a dream, Liu Mingxing said that he will spend more time with Liu Wenjing in the next time to make up for her lack of fatherly love for 26 years and let her no longer be hurt.
In the end, it ended with Lin Huiyin's words, and the biggest regret in life is not that you missed the best person, but that you missed the person who wanted to be good to you. Fortunately, some people missed it, but Liu Wenjing found it again and sincerely wished them health and happiness forever.
Article digression:
I have an aunt who was also trafficked more than 30 years ago, and before she was trafficked, she had a husband, a son and a daughter, but it was the traffickers who destroyed her home. Since then, her two children have no mother, and her husband is depressed, and finally died young, leaving two poor children.
Later, the aunt finally returned, but she was already married and had children, and wanted to leave there to return to her hometown, but she was reluctant to have the child, and for the sake of the child, she stayed in that unhappy place.
This is the true story that happened around me, how many people's sorrows are caused by human traffickers, so they hate human traffickers.
Thanks for reading, this article ends!