Recently, it seems that on social platforms, I often see couples or couples who were once sweet, moving towards the side of separation, how sweet they were once, and now there are many passers-by.
The separation of every relationship now is just from love to the point of no love, and on the road of life, people who love are not so firm can really not go to the white head and grow old.
Life is uncertain, in 2021 it seems that many things have happened, once enviable feelings, even if you can't escape the spell of separation.
The sweetness of the past, the indifference of the separation now, the various things in the past, and the promises made seem to be a joke, which makes people feel helpless and a little ridiculous.
History always seems to be staged in a loop, love is not allowed when going to school, but once you graduate, you are asked to find a partner to marry, time passes really fast, the scene of going to school is still in front of you, but you and I have slowly entered middle age.
When you are young, you will yearn for a love of wind and snow, but when you grow up, you will doubt whether you can really meet someone who can love you for a lifetime.
Even as I grew up, I couldn't help but wonder if I could really enter the palace of marriage! Fear that the mood of liking will disappear, fear that after marriage will divorce, lose the love that once was.
I used to have plans for my life, planning to get married at what age, but at that age, I began to accept the reality that marriage and singleness were just a choice.
There are many paths in life, and getting married may not be the best option before meeting someone you love.
The path of life is unpredictable, maybe on a sunny afternoon with a person to get a license, maybe also a person to enjoy the afternoon tea time.
In the face of all kinds of uncertainties in the future, living well in the present is the most important thing.
Marriage and singleness are only choices in life, and when encountering a person who loves each other, there is nothing wrong with choosing to get married, but choosing marriage for the sake of worldly vision is not a wise decision.
Reality proves that with a paper marriage or separation, only love will not let two people separate, everyone has the freedom of choice, as long as they are happy.
Girls work so hard, not to become anyone's wife one day, but to have more choices in future life, so that they can make their lives have unlimited possibilities.
Perhaps many people will also have an anxious mentality in the face of the people around them getting married one after another, but the marriage thing is not urgent.
When you want to understand the life you want, there are not so many entangled thoughts in marriage.
Marriage and singleness are just life's choice questions, not mandatory, I hope everyone can understand their hearts.
People with a relationship will always meet, people without a chance will eventually separate, and no one will accompany you until you die, so there is no need to be too entangled.
Although love has not reached you and me, but the future can be expected, there is always a person waiting for you in the future, want to hold hands with you, and grow old with your children.
Author: Ying Zi Dye Xia, a girl who likes words and tea, freelance writer, your emotional story I come to interpret, can consult, welcome to follow, like, collect, comment and forward ah!