"My parents can only rely on me, our family is an only child, if they don't rely on me, they are very difficult to live, then I can only let them live first." 」
This passage comes from a post-90s girl, her name is Jessie, the recent Beijing uncle scolded 20 nannies, which caused many netizens to complain, why did he do this, the nanny is incompetent or the uncle is too picky?
My parents are disabled, they gave birth to such a daughter as me, and it is very difficult to raise them with hard work, just this year they have been paralyzed in bed, Jessie said:
My father and mother were hospitalized at the same time, one in the south hospital building, one in the north hospital building, a certain distance away, and when I finished doing this breathlessly, I had to rush back to the company to go to work, looking at all this in front of me, I felt so tired, I was almost unable to hold on!
Can the post-90s still be themselves? Some netizens said that it was the "glory" of an era and the bitter history that could not be said.
Jessie works in an Internet company, there is no way to take care of her parents personally, so she asked the nanny to serve, but since her father fell ill, the nanny has invited more than 20, none of them can last long, the longest can only work for half a month, some hard scalp dry for a day, they hurried away.
What is intriguing is that these more than 20 nannies are not unable to do it themselves, but they are scolded by the uncle before leaving, what will the rural people do! Will soy milk be beaten? Isn't it a waste to wash a dish and put so much water? All day long I know to hold a mobile phone to watch, do you want to take care of people, or play with mobile phones?
Listen, this is the uncle's complaint against the nanny, the countryside will not hit soy milk, washing dishes to save water, but also can not let people take the mobile phone, now the threshold for being a nanny is so high? Is uncle too picky or is there another reason?
Uncle simply said that he had hired 100 nannies, and 100 nannies were like this, and simply gambled not to be hired.
He always felt that the nanny was not good enough, but he did not know that doing so would only add trouble to me, in addition to these nannies are not satisfied, in fact, the uncle has another layer of reasons, 6,000 yuan a month nanny fee, she is distressed that it is not easy for her daughter to earn money.
Every day during work hours, Jessie often receives calls from the nanny, "Your family is too difficult to serve, scold people at every turn, I don't do it", Jessie can only respond politely to each other after hearing it, and then called the housekeeping company, ready to hire a nanny, soldiers to block, water to cover, seems to have become accustomed to such a rhythm of life.
When I suddenly received a phone call at work, your nanny was no longer working, Jessie did not know what kind of reason to ask for leave, and each time she had to brew for a long time before opening the door to the leader.
Work, father, mother, these three she has to take into account, others may have three times the time of the day, and Jessie's one-third of the time, to be divided into three people, sometimes the father will deliberately lose his temper, the sorted medicine is confused, the takeaway order is not willing to eat, all piled up, complaining that the daughter did not personally take care of her, Jessie came home from work and silently finished doing this, when he settled his father, he hurried to catch up with the place where his mother lived.
The mother is also paralyzed and cannot take care of herself, because the two parents live together and quarrel, so Jessie can only separate them, the father lives in a low-rent house, and he and his mother live in the house left by their grandmother after her death, every day is in a hurry, I don't know when I can have my own time, maybe only in the middle of the night!
The frequent number of leavers makes it difficult for Jessie to speak, the father's pickiness about the nanny, the mother and father can't live together, if they can be together, it is convenient to take care of, the problems are where the only daughter is anxious, and even there is no way to take them.
Remember these bitter moments of helplessness.
Jessie couldn't help but cry, strong for too long, there was no place to vent, in front of her parents she never shed tears, are the positive side of the sun, always show a picture, "No matter what, I can solve, you don't have to worry" look.
Such poignant stories are actually staged every day, because they happen to only children, there is no splitting technique and no energy, worried that their parents are sick and hospitalized, and they dare not answer late-night phone calls.
Young people need to go out to work to maintain life, people are old, the heart will feel inexplicably lonely, by their illness, especially hope that their children can accompany them, "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, the child wants to raise and not to wait."
Jessie said that she has experienced so much suffering, I hope that my future life will be more sweet, work hard, and then take care of my parents and take them to travel around the world.
That conspicuous red book, ripped off the last piece of fig leaf, the pension problem has become the bitter tears of the only child, "there are parents who have not fulfilled filial piety, and there are children to raise", people reach a certain age, there is no place to hide from the rain, to learn to be their own eaves.