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Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

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Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Yanfang performance photo

Mei Yanfang's mother, Qin Meijin, is 98 years old this year.

She has two sons and two daughters, because the family genes are suffering from cancer, both daughters died of gynecological cancer at the age of 40, and the second son died of laryngeal cancer at the age of 62.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei's mother Qin Us dollars

At present, only the 70-year-old eldest son Mei Qiming is accompanied, but the son was also diagnosed with bowel cancer 6 years ago.

Mei's mother sent away her husband and three children in her lifetime, and it is said that she is a bitter person. But she was not welcomed by the people of Hong Kong, because eighteen years after Mui Yanfang's death, she also made a fuss for eighteen years.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei's mother holds a wax figure of Mei Yanfang

When she learned that Mei Yanfang had cancer, the first thing she said to her daughter at the age of 80 was: "How will you divide your inheritance?" Don't forget to give me a pension."

Later, when she learned that Mei Yanfang entrusted the trust company and only gave herself living expenses every month, Mei's mother scolded her for being an unfilial daughter and sued her daughter who was not cold in the bones, demanding to inherit all her inheritance.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mother May looked at her daughter's photo

Mei Yanfang is a generation of divas, she has neither marriage nor children, why not leave all her inheritance to her elderly mother?

This has to start from Mei Yanfang's childhood, as the youngest daughter in the family. Since the death of her father, life has become extremely difficult, and 4-year-old Mei Yanfang and 8-year-old Mei Aifang have performed everywhere on stage.

Neighbors can't get used to saying to Mei's mother: "My daughter is only a few years old and goes out to make money, and my brothers are so old, they can also work to support their families." Qin Meijin said: "Brothers want to go to school, studying is so hard, where is the time to work?" My daughter is a money-losing commodity and does not make money, do you want me to raise it? ”
Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Yanfang and her older siblings

Later, Mei's mother remarried a man with 4 boys, she could watch her husband scold her daughter, but she could not tolerate the two sons being wronged in the slightest.

As a child, Mei Yanfang, because of her status as a singer, singing at night and studying during the day, she lacked sleep, dozed off in class, and was estranged from her teachers and classmates, her only friend was her sister Mei Aifang, Mei Yanfang once recalled:

"As a child, I was like a monster, and children and classmates didn't want to play with me."
Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Yanfang and Mei Aifang performance photos

When I was 13 years old, I didn't read any more books, so I could only concentrate on selling and singing. Until she participated in the competition at the age of 19 and became famous in one fell swoop, she also became a cash cow for the whole family, her two brothers and mother have since been out of poverty, life has become worry-free, Mei's mother is not good at financial management, spending money has become extravagant, and she has also contracted the vice of gambling.

In order to make up for the gambling debts owed, Mei's mother and her sons cheated Mei Yanfang of the hard-earned money. They seem to be like a bottomless pit, forever filled with dissatisfaction.

In their eyes, Mei Yanfang's money is her own money. When Mei Yanfang discovered that her family's greed was difficult to fill, she tightened her money bag. ′

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

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Soon after Mei Yanfang became popular, the eldest brother Mei Qiming opened a company, the guarantor is Mei's mother who has no economic ability, the result is that the investment failed, the company's funds are unknown, and Mei Qiming fled.

Later, Mei Yanfang learned that Mei Qiming's opening of the company was just a cover, just wanted to set up a name to cheat money from himself. Leave 4 million in debt to yourself. Helpless, she could not resist her mother's pleading, and had to struggle to take over the work and fill this huge hole.

Afterwards, in the face of the reporter's inquiry, Mei Qiming said unashamedly: "I didn't stop Ah Mei, it was she who owed me too much, not that I owed her too much, she owed me love, I worked hard with my aunt to bring her up, this is nothing to replace."

But Mei's mother said: "They are all relatives, why bother, you are not short of money." The favoritism towards the eldest son made Mei Yanfang chill, and since then, Mei Yanfang and her family have had an insurmountable gap.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Yanfang and sister Mei Aifang

When her beloved sister was suffering from cancer and left her in 2000, Mei Yanfang was very sad. She set up the Association of Anti-Cancer Organizations, from which Mei's mother saw the opportunity to make money, and then persuaded Mei Yanfang to participate in it and engage in management work on the grounds of doing good deeds.

The tens of millions of yuan donated by Mei Yanfang were reduced to millions of yuan, and the remaining donations flowed into their own pockets. In the name of the association, she borrowed money everywhere, until the creditor came to the door, and Mei Yanfang woke up like a dream.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

In order to preserve her hard-won reputation, Mei Yanfang issued a statement, resigned as honorary chairman, and publicly turned against her mother, but Mei's mother said that the donation given by her daughter was one million, not ten million yuan. Mei Yanfang, who was tortured to the point of near collapse, responded:

"The matter of money, I don't want to talk about it again, how much she actually donated is the most clear to her. As a daughter, I also don't want to take out the family affairs and say, although she is an old man, but this is not an excuse! There are many kinds of filial piety, and I also have my principles, and I don't want to be foolish. ”

That being said, on Mei's mother's birthday, Mei Yanfang still reconciled with her as before and went to make a birthday for her mother. But Mei's mother seemed to have taken a reassuring pill and was bent on fishing oil and water from her daughter.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Knowing that her daughter was sick, Mei's mother did not have words of concern, opened her mouth and asked for money, and every time she left or put down the phone, Mei Yanfang had to cry. She sadly said to the people around her: "My mother does not love me, she cares about money."

Mei Yanfang knew that if she gave money to her mother at one time, she would spend money without moderation, and she would spend it all, so she thought about it again and again, and only established a widow 27 days before her death.

Donated 1.7 million yuan in education funds to his second brother and sister's children, and donated two properties to his friend Liu Peiji. HK$70,000 is used as living expenses until the death of the mother, and all assets will be donated after deducting expenses.

Her bitter heart made Mei's mother unable to accept it, and even said the cruel words that "I knew that my daughter gave her inheritance to outsiders, and I should have sold her in the first place".

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mama May

When Mei Yanfang made her will, she was certainly mentally abnormal and suspected of being controlled, and she also sued the trust company, the executor of the will, the attending physician, the beneficiary of the estate, Liu Peiji and others in court.

Compared with her mother's dissatisfaction with herself, Mei Yanfang's good popularity in the circle has allowed her friends to accompany her during her illness.

At the time of her death, there were more than two hundred stars, crowding the corridors of the hospital, because everyone knew that she loved to be lively. She waved her hand to the crowd to say a final goodbye, and then squeezed Jacky Cheung's hand, sighed and stopped breathing, and the scene was full of crying.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

A generation of diva Mei Yanfang

All walks of life in Hong Kong are immersed in grief because of the death of Mei Yanfang, and after only 4 days of death after a generation of songs, Mei's mother did not shed a tear, led her family, broke into her former residence, and stole everything.

Regarding her daughter's arrangement, Mei's mother said: "70,000 yuan a month is enough to do, eat pig food every day, similar to a beggar."

She even said, "I want to write a book to expose Mei Yanfang's privacy." The trust company had no choice but to slowly increase her living expenses, which has now risen to 200,000 Hong Kong dollars.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

For many people, such a large amount of money is enough to live a very rich life. But Mei's mother has been selling misery, crying that the money is not enough to spend, and angrily accusing Mei Yanfang of being a white-eyed wolf and being too cruel to her mother.

The inheritance lawsuit lasted for ten years until the final judgment ruled that she lost the case. She applied to the court to take 71 million Hong Kong dollars in inheritance at a time, and she did not have to worry about her spending money indiscriminately, even if she spent all her money on the street.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mama May and eldest son

In fact, everyone knows that she not only squanders herself, but also has to raise a family of her eldest son, and every year on Mei Yanfang's birthday, Mei's mother and eldest son will hold a commemorative party to attract fans to participate.

For money, they did not hesitate to sell Mei Yanfang's relics, from the furniture she used, the award-winning trophies, down to her underwear, all of which were exhibited and sold, as if there was nothing that could not be sold.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

The Hong Kong Artists Association, worried that the trophy would fall into the hands of others, had to spend more money to buy back the trophy awarded to Mui Yanfang.

Mei's mother repeatedly applied to the court for money to hold a birthday banquet, but the court refused, she insisted on endless noise, and finally in 2019, applied for 250,000 to hold a luxurious birthday banquet, she ignored the advanced age of more than 90 years old, danced on the spot, and was very happy.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Birthday party dancing Mama May

In May last year, Mei's mother was hospitalized with stomach cramps, and when the reporter asked about her condition, she said: "I have a birthday in March, wait until I am 100 years old, and I will ask you for a big birthday." ”

After all, Mei's mother is old, often sick and hospitalized, and every time she is accompanied by a nanny Zhao girl. The beloved eldest son was gone. Even so, Mei's mother was still worried that if she kicked her legs, her eldest son would have no one to rely on.

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mama May is sick

Compared with her cruel heart to her daughter, Mei's mother is really quite warm to her eldest son Mei Qiming, who has always been an unemployed vagrant, living on her sister's inheritance, and counting on her mother for a lifetime.

Last year, Mei Qiming, who was nearly seventy years old, was actually photographed cheating on a beautiful woman who was 30 years old. Pressed by reporters, he admitted bluntly: "Yes, is there any question?" What an age it is now."

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Qiming derailed

Mui Yanfang's original family made her live a very hard life, but her artistic achievements are worthy of the reputation of "Daughter of Hong Kong". Unfortunately, her family's eighteen years of unlimited folding made her ashamed and regretful.

Although the legend has come to an end, fortunately, there will always be people who remember "Mei Yanfang".

Qin Meijin, Mei's mother who complains about her unfilial piety: Mei Yanfang's days of leaving really do not stop

Mei Yanhua stage photo

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