In this fast-paced society, everyone is struggling to move forward, and sometimes we are a little tired by the waves of life. Recently, the words of Luo Xiang, a legal scholar, are like a beacon that illuminates our spiritual path in confusion: "If you don't mix well, it's often not because you don't have enough ability, but because your mind is immature." This is a simple but profound statement, as if to tell us that those who often feel anxious and pessimistic may just not have learned process thinking.
Imagine that when a child is learning to walk, he falls and cries because he only sees the result - the pain of the fall, and ignores the trial and growth in the process. Similarly, when you encounter setbacks in life, if you only focus on the goal and don't see the efforts along the way, it will naturally breed endless anxiety. Luo Xiang said: "Life is like a marathon, not about the speed of reaching the finish line, but about enjoying the scenery at every step. ”
"Mentality determines height, pattern determines depth." This is the words of another philosopher who reminds us to learn to let go of the excessive pursuit of results and look at problems with process thinking. When you shift your focus from short-term success or failure to long-term growth, you will find that every failure is an opportunity to learn, and every setback is a stepping stone to success.
We might as well learn from the mentality of an old naughty boy and laugh at the ups and downs of life. Remember the sentence "Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon", look at life optimistically, even if you are occasionally lost, you can find a new starting point under the sun. Remember, success is not something that happens overnight, it takes time to accumulate and requires us to be like children, to take every step bravely, even if we fall, to get up and keep going.
In the comment section, let's share your process thinking story together. Perhaps, it is those seemingly small advances that make up the rich colors of our lives. No matter where you are, no matter how old you are, as long as you have light in your heart, you can dispel anxiety and embrace optimism. Let's become the wise man who is no longer easily defeated by life and knows how to appreciate the process.
Don't forget, like, retweet, and let this wisdom be passed on to more people. Because we know that everyone has the possibility to find their own piece of blue sky at some point, because of a mature heart. Life is a journey, the destination is not important, what matters is the scenery along the way and the joy of continuous growth.
Finally, I ended with the words of Mr. Luo Xiang: "Life is not a competition, but a practice. It doesn't matter if it's not mixed up, we all grew up slowly in the process. ”