Ma Yili once said: The value of women is not just to have children.
The mission of the egg is not to become a fertilized egg. It can be just an egg.
The value of women living in society is not to become a mother, but to be themselves.
Huang Lei, Zhou Xun, Qin Hailu, Tu Songyan and other starring in the TV series "Xiao MinJia" also has such a successful career and fertility problems, she is Li Ping.
Live in a large villa to drive 1 million cars
Li Ping (played by Qin Hailu) is a golden phoenix that flew out of a small county town. Of course, she didn't suddenly fly up the branches one day and become a phoenix.
Li Ping had a marriage and divorced after 7 years of marriage with her ex-husband Chen Zhuo (played by Huang Lei). The reason for the divorce is simple, Chen Zhuo is an affordable man with no great fighting spirit. The values of the two people are very different.
After the divorce, Li Ping met her current husband Hong Wei. Their values were very consistent, and Hong Wei was only an entrepreneur at that time, and did not have the current wealth and status.
After years of struggle and hard work, Li Ping and Hong Wei's career map has become larger and larger, and their tentacles have reached abroad.
Today's Life for Li Ping is almost like a queen. She lives in a large villa in Beijing, and has a nanny at home to serve her three meals a day.
From the villa's living room, dining table and dishes, every detail is full of money.
In addition to living in a large villa, Li Ping's usual car is a white nanny car, don't look at it low-key, the price is not cheap, the price is about 1 million.
Rich, has a house, has a car, has a stable career, and her husband loves her, especially her husband loves Li Ping and her ex-husband's daughter.
Insert one, although compared to the economy of Hong Wei and Chen Zhuo, the same as sending a necklace, who is more attentive at a glance.
But from Hong Wei's standpoint, he personally hosted a birthday party for his stepdaughter, and also bought a necklace to bring to his stepdaughter in public. This is also enough to give the wife face.
What else is Li Ping missing?
The test tube took 3 years to succeed
If the career is successful, the family must naturally be complete. Li Ping wants to give birth to a son and a half daughter for her current husband.
When you're young, it's effortless to do anything. Having a baby is as simple as laying an egg.
Unexpectedly, at the age of 40+, Li Ping's health was getting worse and worse. Having a baby has become a matter of first-class anxiety.
Li Ping had three years of ovulation injections before the test tube was successful and she was pregnant with her second child. In her words, this child is not ordinary, he is the ancestor.
Husband Hong Wei is particularly precious to this child, not only let the assistant follow closely for 24 hours, but also let his wife eat organic chicken soup every day.
After Li Ping became pregnant, she became the treatment of the queen. For lunch, a person eats 8 dishes and a soup, from organic greens to organic chicken soup.
Li Ping overestimated her husband's loyalty
For the second marriage, Li Ping attaches great importance to it.
Compared with her disdain for her ex-husband Chen Zhuo, she is full of compliments and praise for her current husband Hong Wei.
In Li Ping's eyes, this marriage is definitely the most glorious stroke of her life. Relying on the struggle of his two sons, he became a giant.
Her life was complete. Now she is pregnant with her second child. If it is a son, then her mother is expensive.
She has always been confident in herself, which can be said to be the confidence of fans. Just like she said: Even if she doesn't have children, Hong Wei won't divorce her.
Li Ping, in fact, misestimated her husband Hong Wei's loyalty to her.
Hong Wei mentioned at the dinner table that he was going to go abroad, and his expression and expression could be seen that he had a little lack of heart. He is definitely not as simple as going abroad to talk about projects.
Hong Wei's loyalty to Li Ping has yet to be verified. From the current appearance, it can at least be seen that Hong Wei is definitely not a good man who is truly loyal and single-minded.
He valued the child in Li Ping's belly more. His concern, from beginning to end, never left the child in the belly. Successful men want a son to inherit the family business, which is actually understandable.
Imagine if Li Ping really couldn't have children. Is Hong Wei really not going to divorce her? The answer is not necessarily, a rich man like Hong Wei really won't look for it?
In this marriage, Li Ping actually has an inferiority complex. She was well aware of her worth. First, she was a divorced woman with a daughter of advanced age. Secondly, in terms of age and appearance, naturally there is no advantage for young women.
Li Ping believes that Hong Wei now has money and status, and will definitely want a child of his own. Li Ping is also very clear about her positioning, and she also recognizes that even if Hong Wei wants to have ten eight children, it is still a common sentiment of people.
This sentence also shows that Li Ping is very traditional and inferior in her bones. That's why she desperately tried to get a needle at an advanced age and also wanted to conceive a second child.
Don't look at her living in a big villa, driving a million cars, eating and wearing, she actually has a deep sense of insecurity. She also wants to hold some chips.
She is also worried that men will become bad if they have money, and she will use the child in her belly as a chip. In this way, her marriage will be more unbreakable.
Inequality pervades their marriages. In this marriage, Hong Wei's sense of superiority is significantly higher than that of Li Ping. When he reaches middle age, he has money and status, so why worry that no one has given birth to children for him?
Just imagine, in case Hong Wei and Li Ping divorced, Li Ping could only return to the original point. And Hong Wei can still remarry, and he can also marry a young and beautiful wife.
When a woman reaches the age of 40+ and is divorced twice, her pride and self-confidence will all collapse. The spiritual world collapses, and this is the most terrible thing.
At that time, her life is really only estimated to be her daughter Chen Jiajia.
Li Ping, is such a woman happy? Her happiness is like a bubble, it seems to be very beautiful, but it is actually easy to burst.
From a material point of view, Li Ping is absolutely happy. Eating and wearing without worry has been better than too many women.
She was unhappy again when it came to fertility and marriage. If a woman wants to use her children as a chip to keep her marriage, then she lives on the clouds all the time.
Her heart will never be solid.
In marriage, her substitution is too strong. Any young woman may replace her.
This is the feeling of inferiority that she cannot express in her heart.
This is why Li Ping has always been jealous of Liu Xiaomin (played by Zhou Xun). In the view of her daughter Chen Jiajia, her mother now has a mansion and a luxury car, so why should she compare herself with Liu Xiaomin.
Chen Jiajia she did not understand, her mother's bones are inferiority complex.
Yishu once said: A truly happy woman never shows off everything she has, she does not tell others what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority.