Title: Liaoning: Sisters and brothers "beat each other" at home, and Dad was indifferent next to him. Netizen: This father's heart is really big
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Conflicts and fights between children are common things, but fights and fights, do not joke about life.
Everyone's experience in life can not be smooth, especially in the stage of child development and growth, willfulness and rebellion are always accompanied by it, if the parents do not give the right guidance, children are more likely to make big mistakes due to lack of calm, and finally let parents blame their own education methods are not wrong.
Recently, some netizens shared a video that has been discussed by many parents. In a family in Dalian, Liaoning Province, when the father was checking the children's homework, the sisters and brothers suddenly "beat each other" in the hall, the fighting posture was relatively strong, and the grandmother and the father were watching indifferently...
On the screen, four people in this family hall, grandma stood watching the two children frolicking, the father took the homework book to check the homework, the sister was suddenly pushed by the younger brother, the sister was not convinced, pulled the brother's clothes a drag, and then hit the brother with his hand, the younger brother hid in front, the back to the sister grabbed the sister's clothes with his hands, the sister pushed away the brother's hand with his backhand, and grabbed the brother's shirt is the "popping hammer", the brother was defeated and retreated, and finally hit the father's side, the father felt a bit like the meaning of hiding too late, Afraid of accidentally slapping herself, Grandma seemed to have seen a big scene on the side.
Throughout the process of the child's frolicking, Grandma and Dad did not go to the fight, I don't know whether it is afraid of harming the innocent or that such a scene is commonplace. Later, someone interviewed this father Mr. Ren, did not expect that the father's education method is somewhat "special", Mr. Ren said that at that time, the two of them wrote homework for him to check the homework, the two of them played next to each other, I don't know why it may be fighting, the two children are their own, that thing (child fight) can not pull the side of the fight ah.
Many netizens see this scene are crying and laughing, think that this father's heart is really big, the way of education is also "special", some netizens said that it is not a problem of pulling the bias frame, at least to pull it, persuade it, in case there is any sharp weapon next to hurt people, it is not good, and the final pain is not adults, when seeing the child conflict, it is still necessary to guide correctly and resolve the child's contradiction.
The child's heart is pure, and the child's world is simple. In their young minds, there is no concept of "bullying", and their "touching and pushing" is often a "natural behavior". Children bump often, proper treatment to prevent flaring. Adults do have to use some thought in the way of educating children, especially in the growth and development stage of children, and the impact on entering society in the future is very large.
I believe that many parents have also encountered their own children when they clash and fight, so how do you deal with it?
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