The importance of the name to the child is self-evident, it not only accompanies the child throughout his life, but also pins on the parents' expectations of the child. A good-sounding, smooth name can bring self-confidence to the child, and the name is not taken well, it is likely to make the child laugh at by others, make the child feel inferior, and even cause a certain blow to the child's psychology.
Therefore, parents name their children, not only pay attention to learning, but also very test IQ, it seems that there is a lot of room for play, in fact, there are many hidden rules and regulations that cannot be broken, otherwise it will become a laughing stock. And whether the child's name is good or not, it is not only to see every word in the name, but also to see if it can stand the test of time.
However, some surnames are not very good for children to give names, such as "bear", "shi" and other surnames, if there is no good name, it is difficult to control this surname.
The father named his daughter "Winter Creek", but was scolded by Bao Mom
Last winter, Ms. Li was overjoyed, and in addition to the joy, the whole family began to worry about the child's name. Dad had seen a lot of knowledge about naming on the Internet before, and he also had a certain understanding, so he had a sudden idea, he had the idea of using the child's birth season as a name, and first determined a "winter" word.
Later, he saw a very beautiful creek in front of his house, thinking that the girls were all made of water, and could make some articles in this regard, and suddenly felt poetic, and came up with a "creek" word, and the two words in the name were put together "Winter Creek".
The father, who came up with a name, was triumphant, thinking that he had given his daughter a nice and elegant name, so he hurried to show off with his wife. Unexpectedly, after the wife listened, instead of agreeing, she broke out and scolded: "I don't look at your surname, my own surname plus such a name, aren't you scolding my daughter?" Are you still happy? ”
Listening to his wife's words, his father reacted, thinking that his surname was "Gou", plus the name "Winter Creek", did not sound like a curse, fortunately, his wife found out in time, otherwise he would make a joke. Dad had to bow his head sadly and listen to his wife's "lessons.".
In fact, some careless parents in life have an indifferent attitude when naming their children, thinking that the name is just a "code name" and can be taken any way. As everyone knows, the current social environment is very different from the past, and if the child's name is not taken well, it is likely to have a bad impact on the child.
If the name is not taken well, what impact will it have on the child?
1) It is easy to be "nicknamed" by classmates
Today's children are very smart, often using names as "funny" material. If the child's name is not taken well, has a harmonic sound or contains other meanings, it is likely that he will be given a "nickname" by his classmates, or even ridiculed by his classmates.
2) Affect the child's mental health
The name is not only a "code name", but also a symbol of one's identity. When we talk about someone, the first thing that comes to mind is not his image, but his name. If a person's name is not good or ambiguous, many people do not like to call his name, which will not only have a very large psychological impact on the child, but even some children will resent their parents because of the name, resulting in a disharmonious parent-child relationship.
What do I need to pay attention to when naming my child?
1) Avoid harmonics
The harmonic sound of a name is something that is easily overlooked, but easy to make jokes. Therefore, when parents name their children, they must think carefully, repeatedly deliberate, and try to avoid taking some ambiguous or harmonious names with bad meaning. After taking the name, you can read it several times to detect that there is something wrong.
2) Avoid strange words
In order to pursue the difference of the name, some parents will use some strange words as the child's name, thus ignoring the impact that the strange words may have on the child. Because some strange words are not common, not only are it difficult for classmates and teachers to recognize, but even when children go to the household registration or go through the enrollment procedures, they may bring some unnecessary trouble, and even some strange words cannot be recognized by the computer, which will affect the child's studies and future life.
3) Avoid cumbersome fonts
Some parents will deliberately choose some cumbersome words in order to make their children's names look tall, but they add a lot of burden to their children. There was once a child because the name was too cumbersome, in the examination room anxious to cry, and then the invigilator saw his name, stunned in the same place, this child is called "Xuan Xuan Zhuda", a total of 88 names, no wonder the child will be anxious to cry. Therefore, parents try to avoid giving their children too cumbersome names.
How do you give your child a good name?
Chinese culture has been passed down for thousands of years, and in the long history of these thousands of years, many beautiful poems, songs and allusions have been precipitated. When parents name their children, they can cite scriptures and refer to the beautiful words in ancient poems as their children's names. In this way, the child's name is both good and connotative, but also has a mood, and it is easy to impress when introducing the meaning of the name to others.
In short, there are many factors that parents need to consider when naming their children. If there is a family tree in the family, it can be taken according to the family tree, or according to the child's zodiac sign genus, give the child a catchy and meaningful good name.
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