The siblings "scribbled" on the walls, praising the mother's approach

If your child often "scribbles" on the wall, what will you do as a parent? Will you scold the child, or even beat the child, and then forbid the child to "scribble" on the wall?

"Graffiti" on the wall is not an isolated case, it is a very common thing for many families, so it is also a headache for many parents.

Beating up children is indeed unfair to children, first, because children do not know where to draw a lot of times, although parents give children brushes and paper, they do not very clearly tell children where they can draw in this environment at home, where they cannot draw; second, because children do not realize that "graffiti" on the wall is not right, it will have a certain impact on the construction of the family; third, I think the reason why many children paint works on the wall is characterized by parents as "graffiti" Largely because the children's works are indeed not appreciative, the paintings on the walls are not beautiful at all, and they will only make people who come to the home feel awkward, which is probably also an important factor in the headaches and anger of many parents.

Just like the mother in the video, the reason why she dared to support her children to "scribble" on the wall, and also said that she wanted to tear down the TV set, and the dislike of the TV set hindered the creation of the two children, not only because she respected the child's right to draw, but also because the paintings drawn by the sisters and brothers were indeed very good, adding a lot of color to the wall. This can be seen from the comments of netizens, many netizens commented under the video, saying that the unexpected harvest is a unique video wall.

In this real-life case, while praising this mother's actions, I am also thinking about what kind of thinking such a case can bring us:

The first is that as a parent, you must respect some seemingly unreasonable behaviors of your children. Just like the two brothers and sisters, they love to draw and may indeed have a talent for drawing, but without the support of their mothers, children cannot give their mother two surprises: the improvement of their drawing ability and a unique TV wall. As the old saying goes: Plant melons to get melons, plant beans to get beans. As a parent, you can naturally gain as much as you pay for your child's growth. If the sisters and brothers were scolded or even beaten up by their mothers when they were painting on the wall, would the sisters and brothers still be willing to paint?

The second is that as a parent, you must pay the investment that should be paid for the promotion of some of your children's hobbies. When parents observe that their children do have different likes from ordinary people in a certain aspect, it is not necessary to say that they must show a better state than others in this aspect, as long as the children are particularly liked, after some professional training, they will gradually achieve some results in this aspect. Of course, in this process, parents must have enough patience to wait and encourage their children.

The third is that as a parent, even if you find that your child does not have this talent but has this behavior, you should guide your child with an encouraging attitude. Take the child's "graffiti" thing, if the child does not draw well, then do not blame, provide two suggestions: First, if the family conditions are still good, you can ask the illustrator to create a secondary sublimation around the child's work, which can make the child feel the charm of painting well, but also give the child a correct guide, so that the child understands the beautiful things to show on the wall; the second is that you can buy materials, repair the wall with the child, and after the repair, solemnly tell the child" The creation of the drawing work should be on the drawing paper.".

In short, as a parent, we must look farther in the child's disorderly behavior, and guide the child to turn the disordered behavior into an orderly creation through a variety of forms and rich content.