Everyone's family economic conditions are different, some children are born, the family conditions are favorable, eating and drinking are not worried, all kinds of interest training courses are said to be on the top, and they do not care about investing in money; while some children, the family conditions are still on the subsistence line, it is not easy to earn enough of the necessary expenses of the family, and it is almost impossible to invest in large consumption.
The difference in family conditions has a greater impact on the child's personality temperament and the way of doing things for people, we can not decide our own family situation, according to the child's performance, we can guess how the child's family situation is.
Whether the child's family conditions are good or not, it can be easily seen from these points:
1. Be proactive and take the initiative
In the school class collective activities, children actively participate, not afraid to learn, well-informed, involved in a wide range of things, work is also very crisp and clean, do not drag mud and water, is the teacher's small helper.
Because of his confident and generous personality, he is not afraid to do things, he is also very willing to show himself, looks forward to and enjoys everyone's praise and encouragement, and is not shy about his love for teachers and friends, and he takes the initiative to express himself, which is a bold performanceist.
2. Dress up
From the appearance, the direct performance is to dress up, the child grows fast, the family conditions are general, when buying clothes for the child will be one or two sizes older, can wear more time; there are more brothers and sisters in the family, and some also wear brothers and sisters, which is very common.
Children with good family conditions wear clothes of appropriate size and better fabric styles. Girls dress like little princesses, delicate and pretty; boys are like little gentlemen, and children are also very confident.
3. Cheerful and lively and outgoing personality
Children from a young age life is very rich, not only materially rich, spiritual food is not lacking, surrounded by love, the child's inner security is full, the eyes are firm and not hesitant, nor stingy to express love for others, strong social skills.
Children with good family conditions have a cheerful personality, lively and outgoing, more atmospheric, not calculating, no lack of this and that at home, like to share with others, and enjoy joy together.
4, the temperament is extraordinary
Don't look at the child's small, has shown a difference in temperament. Children with good family conditions talk well, inadvertently bring their own knowledge allusions between behaviors and speeches, and they do not read less at a glance, and the family education received by children is good.
Parents not only cultivate children's hobbies of reading, but also pay attention to aesthetic education and artistic temperament cultivation, give children a variety of training classes, piano, chess, calligraphy, sports dance, etc., the child's comprehensive quality is relatively high.
Children with good family conditions give children a superior educational environment, but we must also pay attention to children not to show off, avoid spending money and spending money, grow up to become "old people", or rely on their own ability to eat, surpassing their parents is the success of education.
On the other hand, we should not discriminate against students with poor family conditions. In fact, it is still fair in school, no matter what the family conditions are, as long as the child studies hard, has excellent grades, and has a good personality, he will be respected by everyone.
Students with general family conditions should not have a psychological burden, relying on their own diligence and hard work, they will also fight to create their own new world; do not fall into the strange circle of inferiority, believe that "those who have lofty ideals can achieve things", "my fate is up to me", and fate depends on myself.
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