Speaking of Yingda, I think everyone is no stranger, his "I Love My Home" is the first sitcom in China, which was widely acclaimed after broadcasting, and has since created a precedent for domestic sitcoms.
Yingda also became famous with this drama, and then participated in the movies "Farewell to the Overlord" and "The Sound of the Wind", and directed works such as "Northeast Family" and "Idle Centaur Sister". He can be called an all-round talent in the entertainment industry.
In addition to Yingda's works, the most widely known is probably his marriage to Song Dandan, as well as his "loving father" image.
In 1987, Yingda and Song Dandan met, and the two gradually came together. In 1989, the two fell in love and married, and a year later gave birth to a son, Batuu.
That year, Song Dandan appeared on the Spring Festival Gala and was well known to audiences across the country with his sketch "Lazy Man Blind Date".
She gradually became the new queen of sketches in the hearts of the audience.
Over time, the marriage status of strong women and weak men has made the two people contradictory, one is at the peak of career development, and the other is depressed in career. The marriage between the two has finally reached an irreparable point.
In 1997, Song Dandan, who has always been bold, called directly to tell Yingda that I was in love with someone else, let's divorce.
Indah also happily agreed, because he had already fallen in love with someone else.
That person is Liang Huan, one of the screenwriters of "I Love My Home". During the shooting, the two admired each other's talents and developed feelings for each other.
After the divorce, Yingda soon married Liang Huan and later gave birth to a son, Yingrudi (Bayan).
Son Batuu lives with his mother, and Song Dandan, who has walked out of the shadow of divorce, also married Zhao Yuji, who has known him for 28 days, and started a new life.
I thought that this relationship was a good gathering and dispersion, but within a few years, Song Dandan angrily scolded Yingda on Weibo.
It is reasonable to say that the two have been divorced for many years without incident, why Song Dandan tore his face and shelled her ex-husband, there is only one reason, that is, - Yingda's father is too eccentric!
In 2011, Song Dandan took his son Batu to participate in a certain program, and not long after, Yingda also took his son Yingrudi to the same program, calling himself "the driver, nanny, chef, and coach of the younger son" in the program, unabashedly showing full of fatherly love.
After the program was broadcast, Song Dandan angrily denounced Yingda on Weibo as "not a person".
The amount of information in this passage is really rich.
It turned out that the loving father Indah did not ask the eldest son Batuu after the divorce, and even the son did not ask for a phone number.
Song Dandan also blew himself up for 14 years and did not dare to change his mobile phone number, hoping that Yingda could still call Batuu to care about his son.
But Batuu never waited for his father's call.
In the face of Song Dandan's accusation, Yingda only said lightly: "I thought that I had a lifetime of time, even if I knew that I would spend so long with him, although we are father and son, the fate in life is so long." ”
One side is blind to Batuu, and the other side is a favor for Yingrudi.
When Ying Rudi was a child, she saw a group of children skating in the mall and became interested in ice sports.
Yingda saw that his son was full of interest, so he hired a coach for him to teach his son figure skating.
By chance, Ying Rudi's ice hockey talent was tapped by a coach, and Ying RuDi has since embarked on the road of ice hockey training.
Practicing ice hockey is not an ordinary interest class expense, and the annual training fee, equipment fee, participation fee, etc. are not affordable by ordinary house families.
For the sake of his son's dream, Yingda also began to take on many TV programs and variety interviews to provide sufficient material protection for his son's ice hockey dream.
9-year-old Ying Rudi won the MVP at the North American Hockey Junior World Championships.
Yingda was furious and sent Yingrudi to Chicago for more professional ice hockey training.
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Today, the 23-year-old Ying Rudi is already the captain of the Chinese men's ice hockey team and is preparing for the Winter Olympics.
On the "Big Name Birthday Party" program, Indah proudly said, "This is YingruDi's father, and I think I am honored." ”
He also said in an interview that if he could only take three things with him on the moon, he would bring a CD of Mozart, a book, and a photo of his son Yingrudi.
As Yingrudi's father, Yingda is undoubtedly qualified and competent, and his father's love is unreservedly given to his most beloved young son.
But in the face of Batu, Indah did not want to give more "alms" without even a trace of fatherly love.
Indah was asked by the host on the show, why did Batuu come to you, and you refused again and again?
Indah replied: Don't come to me again after the divorce, I still care about him, I still have contact with him, but I can't play the role of father in this situation...
This statement is too suffocating to watch. Every sentence reveals: I don't want to be responsible anymore and stop disturbing my new life.
Don't forget to make excuses for myself that I can't let my child become dependent on me, which is unfair to my stepfather.
The so-called "I still care about him" is manifested in the fact that after the death of his grandfather, Batu was turned away by Indah.
On the one hand, it is to be born without raising and try to break off the relationship, and on the other hand, it is to pamper boundlessly.
In Indah's mouth, blood relations can be broken, as long as I don't admit it, I can do it when you don't exist.
Did Batuu do anything wrong? He didn't.
Perhaps the only explanation is that Indah wants to draw a line between mediocrity and mediocrity, and wants to draw a line between failure.
Yingda's family is prominent, and his ancestors are all yellow flags, and he is a real famous nobleman.
Great-grandfather Ying Zhizhi was the founder of the Ta Kung Pao and was good friends with Liang Qichao.
After his grandfather, Inchiri, graduated from the University of London, he assisted his father Inchiyuki in founding Fu Jen University.
His father, YingRuocheng, graduated from the Department of Foreign Chinese Language and Literature of Tsinghua University, translated a large number of classic works, and was a translator. In addition, his father also acted in classic works such as "The Last Emperor" and "I Love My Family", and was an artist with both moral and artistic qualities, and also served as vice minister of culture.
In such a prominent family background, what Yingda wants to do is not only to get ahead of himself, but more importantly, to make his son a talent.
He said on an interview show that getting ahead is not a success because you have to get your kids ahead.
This is the proper "chicken baby" parent.
Indah was reluctant to admit to his failed marriage to Song Dandan, nor to Batuu's mediocrity.
So he put all his hopes on Yingrudi.
Set off by the captain of the Ying rudi ice hockey team, Batuu looks very ordinary.
Batuu's acting career is tepid, and he only made a splash after playing prince Qin in "The Legend of Mi Yue", and then participated in several variety shows with his mother.
Batuu, who was not recognized by his father since childhood, never complained in public.
For Batuu, his stepfather Zhao Yuji is the one who gave him the love of his father.
As Song Dandan mentioned in the show, her only requirements for her son are: must be honest, must be kind.
Perhaps in Indah's view, Batuu's life today is considered mediocre and a failure.
But looking at Batu's vibrato, you can find that Batuu has a family and a career, and has grown up safely to become a sunny and self-motivated person.
After experiencing the incompatibility of parents' feelings, step by step from the shadow of neglect of his biological father, he healed himself and his mother. Isn't that a good thing?
It is gratifying enough that Yingrudi did not live up to the resources he had to realize his dreams step by step, and Batuu did not stay in the shadow of his original family, enjoying everything given by his mother, and having his own career and family.
As Long Yingtai said: I can accept that my children are "mediocre", and the important thing is that they find meaning in life.
For children, the love of parents is undoubtedly the most important.
And Indah can say things like "don't come to me after divorce", which is no different from other parents who are "born without support".
He only briefly accompanied the child for a while and then walked away without hesitation.
He regarded the legal relationship between husband and wife as a connection of affection, and once the relationship broke down, it could be regarded as the non-existence of blood affection.
Being a parent in this way is also the highest level of not having a face.