Everyone comes into this world with the weakness of human nature. Some people are greedy, some people are jealous, some people are lazy, they all say that fate is destined to be good, this sentence can be said to be right, it can also be said wrong.
When we have been allowing our weaknesses to change and let their weaknesses slowly become our stumbling blocks, then fate will move forward along the established track. But if we're willing to make up our minds, put ourselves in the center of the stage of destiny, and ask ourselves, "What am I going to do to change my life against the odds?" "Then we have the initiative of fate, and we are getting closer and closer to success."
By overcoming the three weaknesses of human nature, you are one step further on the road to self-achievement:
The difficulty of the world lies in overcoming inertia. Persistent negative inertia becomes inertia.
Momentary inertia does not seem terrible, lazy to exercise today, lazy to cook tomorrow, lazy to get up the day after tomorrow, when laziness becomes a person's talisman, lazy inertia begins to build.
A person is used to lying down every day, and if he is asked to play ball one day, he will find it difficult.
And when a person is used to being busy every day and let him take a break, he is uncomfortable all over his body.
If you want to succeed, you must overcome the laziness of human nature and get used to doing the corresponding things at a fixed time.
"Don't want to go", "too lazy to go" is just a feeling, an excuse for yourself. Establishing a new inertia is like pedaling a bicycle, the first few strokes always require a lot of force to move forward, and then after pedaling a few times, the bicycle begins to glide without spending too much energy.
Jealousy of others in relationships not only traps us in negative emotions, but also hinders our opportunities to learn from each other.
Jealousy of others, on the surface, is not good for others, but in fact hides complaints about their own fate. This mindset hinders our opportunities to learn from others, and we only see each other's results, but not the other person's success process.
In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun was snatched away by Ling Ling and was puzzled. Ling Ling is a divorced woman with a child, no posture, not young, but she beat her beautiful self. At this time, He Han took Ling Ling's work report and told Zijun that this was a weapon. From a lowly educated clerk to a department head, excellent work ability is required. Zijun did not accept this statement at first, until Zijun became a professional woman, she began to look at the report with an appreciative eye, let go of her previous grievances, and worked hard to improve her work, so that she had later independence.
Let go of stereotypes, see more of the other party's worth learning, and fill in their own loopholes, so that they can go farther and farther and stronger.
On the surface, the days may be calm and calm, but a day is counted as a day. But hidden beneath the surface, there is a whirlpool inside. In your subconscious, you want to break free from your existing life, break down barriers, and expect different landscapes.
Yes, your life has multiple reboots, not a one-off journey. You are eager to grow, you are eager to become different, that is to say, you realize that you are not suitable for the current environment, do not want to stay in the status quo, and look for a different way out.
But you will feel uneasy, and the fear of facing the unknown environment will make you feel overwhelmed. We can find the direction of change in three ways:
The first is a trial-and-error method, using the minimal model to try out new ideas. For example, if you want to make a living by writing, you can start by submitting articles or starting from self-media as a part-time job until your side income can support yourself and then start working full-time.
The second is the contrast method, which compares different kinds of work and brings you feelings. For example, you like to organize data, which will bring you an inner sense of order; for example, you like to communicate with people, it will bring you the nourishment of intimate relationships, and any kind of work that makes you feel comfortable is an opportunity for you to change in the future.
The third is the dream method, asking the heart, which thing can make you pour enthusiasm, behind this thing is the projection of your values in real life, when doing this, you can find the true self.
When there is direction in the heart, there will be the courage to change.
Overcoming the weaknesses of human nature is difficult.
But it is quite easy to become fat and ugly in life, and it takes hard work to become beautiful and slim.
And whether you want to or not, you decide.