#2021加油带头人 #
In September 2013, the divorce of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng shocked the whole country, and the network was paralyzed for a while, and then the century reunion of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse once again shocked the Chinese-speaking world.
As 2021 draws to a close, Wang Xiaofei's divorce from Big S and Li Xiang's divorce from Wang Yuelun have disappointed people who yearn for marriage again and again. In this era, does marriage still have a meaning? These talented women are not good, but also more resources and romance than ordinary people, why is the marriage journey difficult to continue?
娱乐第一榜单夫妇
王菲与李亚鹏的婚姻崩溃
1. Couples pursue different frequencies in their hearts
Faye Wong pursues inner ease and purity, and Li Yapeng pursues the achievements of the ordinary world;
Faye Wong cares about the collision and fusion of ideas of communication, and Li Yapeng cares about the recognition of husband and wife with family and society;
Faye Wong's belongings are free, and money comes and goes; Li Yapeng needs the respect of men to match women!
If you care, you are tired, you are tired if you don't care, and you are free from each other when you scatter!
2. Children's educational concepts are not frequent
From the interview, the two have different views on Li Yan's birth. Faye Wong is how to do, rabbit lips also have to want, may have worries, but seems to calmly accept the flaws of her daughter. Li Yapeng felt that he was particularly concerned about his daughter's flaws, so he also integrated a Yanran Angel Fund, and has been paying for this attention in the later stage, fluctuating in various rumors and Yanran Angel Fund projects. On the other hand, Faye Wong, as calm as the unfathomable sea, has never made a special move on this.
For Dou Jingtong, there are even more different concepts, just as the reporter interviewed Faye Wang many years ago, to find a father for Dou Jingtong? Faye Wong: She has her own companion, and I am looking for a boyfriend for myself!
Li Yapeng made all kinds of efforts for Dou Jingtong's schooling, and perhaps everyone felt sincere! This move was rewarded by Dou Jingtong's affection! Because it is true that children have their own fathers. The amount and the lack of love of the stepfather, true or false, are all personal affairs.
3. Family life pursues different frequencies
Look at the daily life of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse after the divorce, and care more about each other's feelings for each other and deliberately pursuing big houses and the like.
Perhaps it is more indicative of what faye Wong cares about as a family life. In contrast, the family life discussed in the interview between Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, children, mother-in-law, and the children of Li Yapeng's brother are often present, which means that marriage and family life involves not two people's affairs, but also the sum of a bunch of relationships. And Li Yapeng will be out of the office for a long time because of his work.
Perhaps it is also understandable why Faye Wong has been addicted to the Buddha for a long time.
In the world of rich people, there are many houses, but the intricate relationship handling, even if the emotional intelligence is high, even if there is no contradiction, no conflict, but the traditional concept of constraints on the various should, for a person who pursues inner freedom, existence is a constraint, all kinds of uncomfortable.
At this time, marriage is like a virtual shell, when love has become a thing of the past, the word should be two words for a person who has suffocated and no life in his heart, just like the shroud of the feudal society that binds women, the strong man breaks his wrist at all costs, divorce is the only chance to live!
It can be seen that for Faye Wong and Li Yapeng:
It begins with superficial attraction and ends with soul mutual repulsion
Faye Wong only does herself, and Yapeng needs recognition
Children are just children and cannot bind men and women
综艺第一榜单夫妇
Li Xiang's marriage with Wang Yuelun collapsed
1. Husband and wife acquaintance for their own "benefit"
Li Xiang pursues the happiness and consummation of marriage, and Wang Yuelun pursues the success of his career;
Li Xiang cares about the control of the big woman, while wanting to be pampered by men, the little woman and the little princess-like sense of safety and warmth, Wang Yuelun may be more concerned about the success of the cause and the recognition of society;
Li Xiang's property is free, and the mining of money is caused by the inertia of the existence of his great heroine; Wang Yuelun needs the dignity of a man to match the woman!!
When we meet each other, one needs a warm and safe harbor of love, and one needs a fast track to push the career to a new stage. When the demand matches the encounter and acquaintance, the helpless fate twists and turns, and the fastest lane cannot be pushed, the rider is suffocated, the lane owner is not comfortable, and each other needs to be updated. Change the way of life, scatter but be free from each other!
2. Children's education is its "Tao"
From the variety show, the two have different views on Wang Shiling's education.
It's just that Li Xiang is in a dominant position, and the children are almost li Xiang's single-handed control of education. The child is like a blank piece of paper, the author controls the overall situation, the bystander's dissatisfaction with the author in his heart, and the dissatisfaction with the child who treats the child like a replica will slowly penetrate out, because that is the mother's inadequacy. Love because of love, but also because of resentment!
3. Cognitive understanding is its "reason"
Looking at Wang Yuelun's Weibo speech after the divorce, he was full of resentment, which was the outbreak accumulated over the years.
Perhaps it is more illustrative of the imbalance in each other's family lives. Watching the family life of the two people's variety shows, Li Xiang is always on the side of initiative and control of the overall situation, and it seems that Wang Yuelun is really a collaborator and pander. Wang Yuelun seems to enjoy the comfort of the lively and cheerful Li Xiang taking the initiative to take care of everything, and Li Xiang also seems to enjoy the pampering of her stable and down-to-earth husband. But world change is the norm, which boy does not have the desire to conquer? What woman doesn't have the desire to be pampered and protected? Pandering too long is rebellion, and paying too long is seeing clearly!
In the world of rich people, even if the emotional intelligence is high, even if there is no big contradiction and no conflict, but the demand is unbalanced, the cognitive understanding is not in one channel, the existence is a constraint, and everything is uncomfortable.
At this time, marriage is like a virtual shell, when love has become a thing of the past, the word should be two words for people whose married life has been suffocated and lifeless, just like the shroud of feudal society that binds women, the hero breaks his wrist at all costs, divorce is the only chance to live!
It can be seen that for Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun:
It starts with love for each other and ends with nothing
The woman is alone, and the man finally feels humble
Continue to resent each other, separate and rejoice in each other
Stay until the moon is clear, or you will be happy and reunited
港台第一榜单夫妇
Big S's marriage with Wang Xiaofei collapsed
1. Husband and wife are burdened by fame and fortune
It starts with each other's demand and ends with an imbalance between supply and demand
Big S pursues to be a queen, but also pursues to be a princess, Wang Xiaofei pursues success, two people meet at each other's peak moment, and the collision is a spark of love.
When they met, it was the highlight moment of Big S's life, the peak of her actor's career, and the most beautiful moment in a woman's life, and it was also the moment when she stepped out of her relationship and hoped to start a new life, and it was also the time when she wanted to be a mother and urgently needed to be a mother! She needs a handsome, golden and statusful man who likes her, and this man happens to be the one she likes too.
It just so happened that Wang Xiaofei appeared at that time, just in time for the peak period of the beautiful Jiangnan, a good image, plus a background in Studying in France. All aspects of the demand for compound big S. For an entertainment star who debuted earlier and did not read a lot, Wang Xiaofei at that time was really a fragrant feast, coupled with the image of young handsome and elegant, the big S was not moved! So even in the girlfriend's party, for a wolf woman like Big S, it is like a hunter encountering prey, how can he let it go!
And big S Yu Wang Xiaofei, its beautiful and special independent and strong personality, déjà vu, that is another version of mother Zhang Lan; in addition, for the post-80s, familiar with the liveliness of the big S Hong Kong and Taiwan entertainment circles! Plus, he also needs a beautiful and well-known woman to match his identity. At the time, at the age of 30, for a male, a hormone outbreak occurred.
But the tide of fate, sometimes rushing ashore is a surprise, sometimes it is also a fright. Maybe when they meet each other, they are too lucky, love is too beautiful, but life is concrete. Wang Xiaofei's wealth has fallen intodifference, and big S's actor career has also fallen into a bottleneck period, and the arrival of the two children has temporarily delayed the outbreak of mutual contradictions, but it has also prompted each other to go farther and farther. How intense the love is, because the highlight is still there, and each other is the most beautiful! When fate takes a different form and the tide of love recedes, how indifferent they are to each other.
Just like the people who meet on the road of travel, the yearning for the travel scenery makes each other full of imagination and romance of the pleasure of the journey! Returning to real real life, such as the epidemic that lasted for two years, like a donkey friend on the way home, the thorns and blanks of real life are enough to fade the beauty of all the experiences of the journey.
So, to return to each other is to be separated!
2. Children's educational concepts are different
From the variety show, the two people's attitudes towards the two children have different views. Big S is the daughter and son are important, the same pampering and care. Wang Xiaofei feels special attention to her daughter, delicate love! To his son, he is the rough breeding of the northerners, and he can't stand his son's pampering! It seems that the matter is small, and what lurks is the geographical difference between each other! The contradictions in daily life are like peeping leopards in the tube!
3. There may be differences in the ownership of the home country
Wang Xiaofei's mother's tearful eyes were hazy live, and the ex-boyfriend of the violent S beat Wang Xiaofei up because of different political views, and then the mother and son apologized in various ways. It is difficult to distinguish between true and false, but it also shows from a certain angle that the relatives and friends around Big S have different ownership of Taiwan. And Wang Xiaofei, who has lived under the five-star red flag since childhood, has obvious patriotism, and contradictions must have happened. Big S's true thoughts cannot be known to outsiders, but because of Wang Xiaofei's remarks on Taiwan in the middle of the year, the quarrel between them is obvious!
In the world of rich people, when each other is no longer in love, the needs are unbalanced, and existence is bound and uncomfortable.
At this time, marriage is like a shell, when love has become a thing of the past, husband and wife friendship for each other has been suffocated and lifeless state, the hero broke his wrist at all costs, divorce is the only chance for each other to be liberated! eventually:
Big S contradiction system, Xiao Fei left and right is difficult to do
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are all strong people, but they cannot tolerate each other
The public crux of marriage in the new era
相爱容易，相处却六难：
The difficulty lies in the incompatibility of each other's inner personalities
The difficulty is that the channels of life are different from each other
The difficulty lies in poor communication with each other
The difficulty lies in the difference in each other's values
The difficulty lies in the different ways of parenting each other
The difficulty lies in the different pursuits of each other's marriages
The new era of marriage is headed
The matching of premarital needs will become more and more precise
The boundaries of rights and responsibilities within marriage will become clearer and clearer
The collapse liquidation time will be shortened
Shortening the marriage cycle will become the norm
Not in love, not married, not divorced, will be pluralistic
Hormonal imbalance periods are mostly very normal