In the TV series "Thirty Only", his wife Gu Jia finally did not forgive her cheating husband Xu Huanshan, and the two divorced. Only at that moment, I did not sympathize with these two adults, but felt pity for the only good man in the whole play, Xu Ziyan, who was only 4 years old and had to pay for the mistakes made by the adults.
Reality is sometimes more outrageous than a TV series, although it is more painful to have no script.
Extramarital affairs are never exclusive to men, and women can happen.
In a conjugal relationship, whether it is a man or a woman, cheating is a blasphemy and disrespect for marriage.
The day before yesterday, I video chatted with my mother, and my mother said that there was an aunt Wang in the community, and her son was divorced. The reason for the divorce was that the woman had cheated on her multiple times.
For the relationship between men and women, I can't bring much interest to it, after all, I have been tortured enough by the problem of livelihood, where there is still extra energy to care about whether others are loving or not.
At this time, it was just a perfunctory chat with my mother, and what she said, I replied with "um" and "got it".
The mother went on to say that the adult is divorced, and the two people can remarry each other in the future, but they are bitter about the child.
This sentence hit my nerves in an instant, and in an instant aroused the motherly love that flooded my heart, maybe this is the instinct of every mother.
Mom said that your children have also played with their children. I looked at my son who was eating watermelon next to me.
Next, I listened carefully to my mother's narration.
Their son and my son are generally only 4 years old. Let's call the man Mr. A and the woman Ms. B.
Mr. A and Ms. B met in the Hangzhou internship factory, Mr. A is our northerner, and Ms. B is a southerner. For the marriage of two people, both parents are opposed, the two finally got a marriage license, did the wedding, but on the wedding day, no one from the mother's family came.
They are only 28 years old this year, and they will definitely be able to remarry in the future, but my 4-year-old son makes me very sad, so young, I lost my original family.
The two had been working in Hangzhou, and the children were left to their parents. It may be that the world in the big city is too prosperous, or it may be a momentary confusion, and Ms. B and the male boss have something substantive.
Mr. A chose to forgive, and he advised himself: This is his wife's momentary confusion, for the sake of work, she will be bent on perfection, she is also a victim.
The second time, it was Ms. B who offered to speak to Mr. A, who said it was the last time and asked for his forgiveness, and Ms B said she had resigned.
Mr. A saw that his wife had broken up and quit his job, and once again chose to forgive.
The third time, Mr. A found that his wife, Ms. B, was still in contact with her boss, and Ms. B said that she was unwilling, she was for the sake of the child, and she had to get compensation from her boss, or she was unwilling. Ms. B showed her husband the money on his account and said that he had given 60,000 compensation.
This time they really broke off the relationship and will never interact again. And in front of Mr. A, all contact information was deleted, and they also moved.
But things are not so simple, Mr. A found that his wife Ms. B has not been working, it turns out that their relationship has not been broken.
Mr. A couldn't stand it any longer, so he yelled at Ms. B on the street, but in front of everyone, he was humiliated: You are really useless, you can't do anything, you have no money, you have no ability, why should I guard you like a jade?
Mr. A was stunned, and all his dignity as a man at that moment was gone. He didn't return the favor. I sat on the road teeth and cried.
Looking back at this relationship, I admire Ms. B's courage to resist so much pressure and choose to marry far away.
I also admire Mr. A's patience, he feels guilty about his wife in his heart, and he blames himself for not being able to give the woman he loves a better life.
I believe that the two of them have real feelings and love for each other.
However, We still have to give a clear and serious criticism of Ms. A's extramarital affair.
Marriage has uniqueness, and exclusivity. There is no room for a third party to intervene, and there is no room for a ghost fetus.
Originally a good family of three was thus torn apart by "extramarital affairs".
After all, Ms. A was blinded by the material of the flowers, and mr. B, who was honest and promiscuous, was not lightly injured;
I kept thinking about what Ms A said. She asked a boy from the countryside, a husband with no money, no background, and no resources, who was not yet 30 years old, who would have a high salary, who would hate incompetence and incompetence if he could not earn it, and who also shouted that he should keep his body like a jade?
Should society lower its requirements for young people, not to demand young people at every turn, and to become famous early...
Had she forgotten the truth that husband and wife were one and the same?
After love and reality collide, love will really shatter to the ground.
If you want to live a good life through shortcuts, you can't do it. What do you think?