Since I didn't think about whether to divorce or not, I didn't want to have a showdown with Wang Kun

The days passed quickly, more than ten years passed, Wang Kun and I both became the middle-level leaders of their respective units, we bought a big house, my son was admitted to a key high school, and I began to plan my son's leisure life after the college entrance examination.

In the longing of happiness, I found that Wang Kun had cheated.

The opportunity to discover it was a coincidence. One day, Wang Kun's mobile phone rang, and I picked it up and handed it to him, but he snatched it up. His reaction was so intense, was there any secret I didn't want to see?

I think of his frequent socializing and late return, of his lack of interest in sex in recent years, of his recent enthusiasm for life, of swimming frequently, and of running to Shanghai to see art exhibitions... These inadvertent bits and pieces, put together, are not so simple, and my intuition tells me that he may have someone.

I found a friend, her husband with Wang Kun a unit. After she knew what she meant, she hesitated and said, "How did you come to ask..." She told me that everyone knew that Wang Kun had found true love.

Wang Kun's junior is only 28 years old, his name is Lin Ling, he studied art, and he was an intern he brought. Wang Kun believes that the newspaper is about to end its way, so after the internship period ended, the trust relationship arranged her in an Internet company.

The friend also brought up a unit group photo from her husband's circle of friends and pointed out Lin Ling to me, and the girl was indeed very literary and beautiful. Moreover, I also know that whether Wang Kun goes swimming or goes to Shanghai to see a painting exhibition, he has Lin Ling to accompany him.

When I learned all this, I was very sad and indignant, and I remembered the hurtful words he said after marriage, and now he is so loud and loud to declare that he has found true love,, what am I?!

I gave so much to my family, and was mean and generous to him, he actually cheated!

Because I didn't think about whether to divorce or not, I didn't want to have a showdown with Wang Kun, and I didn't want to quarrel pointlessly. Those days, I was depressed, I didn't know hunger, my stomach was like a big balloon, and I couldn't eat anything.

But my change, Wang Kun actually did not care. I realized sadly that, indeed, he had no me in mind for a long time, and for him I no longer existed like air.

Friends know and persuade me, to be rare and confused, saying that women have reached middle age, remarriage is difficult, since they can't find a good home, it is better to make it up, Wang Kun will soon be 50 years old, and it will not be able to toss for a few years.

I asked, "What if Wang Kun wants to be right with Lin Ling and file for divorce?" "Friends say that then you will fight for as much as you can for yourself. I understood that even if it was Wang Kun who made the mistake, the initiative was still in his hands.

"Why should I live such a lowly life?" I shouted angrily at my friend. A friend asks me what I want? I said that I would like to kill Wang Kun, at least beat him half to death, and then let him kowtow like a garlic, and ask for my forgiveness.

Friends advised me to face up to reality, Lin Ling was young and beautiful, Wang Kun was warm with her again, as long as I had a showdown, it meant divorce and made me think deeply.

Do I want a divorce? Ask yourself, of course I don't want to. I have been running a family for more than ten years, such a sensible son, whether out of feelings or face, I don't want to be a marriage loser.

But, without leaving, how can I swallow this breath?

It turned out that Wang Kun felt a little uncomfortable a few days ago, so he went to my friend who was a doctor to help and did a test. However, the results showed that he had stomach cancer. My friend, out of kindness, didn't tell him the real result, but called me behind my back to tell me.

After I listened, I was stunned for a long time, when I found out that he was cheating, he had stomach cancer, was it God's retribution for him?

But what should I do? My friend thought I was sad, relieved me for half a day, and suggested that I should not tell Wang Kun first, take him to the Affiliated Hospital of the University of Medicine for re-examination, maybe it was a misdiagnosis...

On this day, I sat alone in the coffee shop for a long time.

I looked back on my marriage with Wang Kun, and the hurt and grievances I suffered during the marriage. If he had been affectionate to me before, in the face of his current infidelity and cancer, I would have opened my eyes and chosen to be in the same boat with him.

However, before the marriage life, I was already very unsatisfactory, now, why should I share happiness and suffering with him with humiliation? No, I'm going to take the opportunity to punish him, it's a godsend! If I don't take advantage of it, after many years I will definitely look down on myself and treat such a man kindly, not called kind, but mean!

Of course, I don't want people to think that I'm down and ruthless, even though I'm going to do it.

After thinking clearly, I called my doctor friend and said that Wang Kun was having an affair and that we were about to divorce, and asked her to find an opportunity to talk to Wang Kun about the review, and told her not to let Wang Kun know about the physical examination report she had told me. The friend understood in seconds, immediately made a guarantee, and waited for a while, she then notified Wang Kun for re-examination.

Then, I went home and ordered my son to call Wang Kun and ask him to go home immediately. When father and son were talking on the phone, I deliberately smashed the house into a mess and screamed for Wang Kun to come back.

That's right, I'm building momentum to make Wang Kun realize that he has a big deal!

Sure enough, Wang Kun came back worriedly, and I pounced hysterically: "Wang Kun, this Wang X egg, and Lin Ling, this dog man and woman, I can't spare you!" "The effect of the vixen was immediate.

Wang Kun was a little flustered: "I'm sorry for you, what do you want to do?" "I'm getting a divorce!" I want you to get out of the house!" Otherwise I'll make trouble in your unit!" Although Wang Kun has no establishment, he signed an indefinite contract and was promoted to a middle-level cadre by the unit, and he is very concerned about this work. You are out there happy, don't leave me a way to live, and I will make you feel bad! "I believe that my explosive performance that day was very effective.

In addition, I revealed the wind to Lin Ling through friends, and I asked for a divorce, but Wang Kun refused to leave. Sure enough, Lin Ling went crazy and forced Wang Kun to divorce and marry her.

Half a month later, I went through the divorce procedures with Wang Kun, the son belonged to me, he paid 2,000 yuan per month for maintenance, and the son's tuition fee was half of our own; the house was shared by me and my son, and Wang Kun only took a small part of the deposit and left home.

When Wang Kun encountered amnesty, he immediately openly went out with Lin Ling and invited everyone to dinner to celebrate the regaining of freedom. If, at the beginning of the divorce, I was still a little uneasy, but judging from his reaction, I really did it right!

Soon, the news came that Wang Kun was diagnosed with stomach cancer and began a long and costly treatment. My friend told me that this was retribution, and instead of showing schadenfreude, I said that each had a destiny and hoped that he would cherish himself.

Everyone praised me for my generosity and was glad that I divorced in time, otherwise, I would have been dragged down by him. I was calm and silent about this.

Half a year later, Wang Kun was heavily indebted, no longer hospitalized, moved to the house rented with Lin Ling for conservative treatment, drank some Chinese herbs, and hoped to save his life.

Fortunately, there is Lin Ling who does not abandon it. My revenge became the touchstone of their love.

My son and I went to visit Wang Kun, and I left him 30,000 yuan, and Lin Ling took my hand and thanked me one after another, saying sorry for me. I said calmly that Wang Kun finally found love, thank you for fulfilling his dream.

It is said that this incident was rumored to be a good story by friends. At this time, I have no love or hatred for Wang Kun, I said that our marriage, each has its own gains, I got the property and the son, and he got love.

Occasionally, I feel a little cruel, but never regret it. I am not a virgin, and since you can wantonly hurt my feelings and self-esteem, why should I "repay my grievances with virtue" to aggrieved my heart.

Since you have found true love, I believe that you can finally smile at the Nine Springs. As for Lin Ling, since she truly loved Wang Kun, it was also sweet after hard work and pain... The first is to repay grievances with virtue, endure humiliation and burden, and no matter how much the husband is an asshole, as long as he has a job, he must stand up at the first time and be in the same boat with him.

The media often sees such a great and kind woman, burning herself, touching the world, and winning a good reputation. But apart from appearances, what is their situation and heart? Let's take it apart.

With the existing medical conditions in China, one person suffers from cancer, the whole family is poor, if you do not want to increase the burden of society and ask for love and donations, you are bound to sell the house; moreover, whether you are in the hospital with the bed, or at home to serve the patient, it is very hard.

The wife will ruin her original life, lose the economic foundation of half a life's hard work, and most of her life will be poor and bitter, physically and mentally exhausted. The cheating husband may cut off with the lover, and the sweet extramarital affair will be chewed and reminisced after countless times, and the slag will become the love of his life, and he will never forget it until death.

What if you continue to break the connection with your lover? Once the wife finds that her husband is still distraught, the pain is unbearable.

At this time, the wife has been riding a tiger. Because, people naturally sympathize with the weak, and in the face of a terminally ill person, people will ignore his faults and morally kidnap his wife. Once his wife abandons him, he will be criticized by public opinion.

The most paradoxical part of morality is that it seems to punish evil and promote good, but in fact it "punishes good and protects evil", and there are all kinds of strict requirements for good people, but there are all kinds of tolerance for bad people. Good people can only be lenient toward bad people, otherwise, it is not enough to show "nobility".

Therefore, there are too many wives, even if they do not want to suffer with their cheating husbands, but they have to succumb to the pressure of the world and consume their lives in the pain of entanglement.

Ten thousand steps back, even if the man's conscience finds out and takes the initiative to break off the extramarital affair, can the wife really ignore the previous suspicions? Women are naturally delicate and sensitive, it is really difficult to be so generous, I am afraid that I will still remember from time to time that he and his lover's ear are grinding, like a fish in the throat, can not swallow, can not pull out, by the pain of torture haggard. However, she has to pee for him again, turn over and wipe the bath, can her life be better? If Yuan Yi did this, he would be noble, but he would definitely endure internal injuries!

Therefore, Yuan Yi adopted the second approach: stop loss in time and be quick to take revenge.

She quietly swept her cheating husband out of the house to preserve her property and let her life no longer be disturbed. Of course, this kind of retaliation is not morally approved, but there is no doubt that she has the right to make such a choice.

However, she does this on premise, and not everyone is suitable.

First of all, you have to be very scheming, be able to grasp the timing, and keep the water from dew. Like the heroine, "both when and standing", otherwise it may be pointed out by thousands of people and criticized.

Second, you have to be hardworking and not feel uneasy about your conscience. If, without such an iron heart, you choose revenge, you will fall into self-condemnation. Well, life is still not good.

Some women, who are very kind in their bones, want to retaliate against their cheating husbands, even if the revenge is successful, and finally they can't withstand the torture of conscience and confess, or show their feet, resulting in the other party's crazy counterattack, so that they fall into the whirlpool of public opinion, inside and outside are not people.

Therefore, people who are truly kind should not have a heart for revenge. If you can't stand the other party's cheating, and don't want to be dragged by it, divorce can be, there is no need to play tricks to let the other party out of the house, into a desperate situation.

Finally, judging from Wang Kun's ending, in the face of illness, true love can certainly allow him to get hospice care, but it seems that it cannot save his life. I believe that at this time, he will regret that he did not treat his wife and marriage well...