In line with the basic principle of putting the interests of the child and the child above all else, the old seventh who was about to give birth called Anjie nervously, smeared honey in his mouth and turned for half a day, before he poked out the most urgent desire in his heart. But unexpectedly, Anjie said very simply on the other end of the phone, "Okay, let's pack up and go." ”
Anjie is a serious capitalist lady with eight hundred, and Jiang Defu is an authentic peasant soldier, and their combination cannot avoid the influence of the current situation, but it cannot hide the world difference between the two people from the inside to the outside. Especially in the eyes of children, it is more intuitive and sensitive.
As the first-class commander of the island, Jiang Defu is very busy, so busy that he can only leave the children with a hurried back, but as long as he is at home, he will try to mingle with the children, correct the slingshots made by his brothers, and personally find tools to help them improve. But Anjie, who is reclusive, obviously has a pair of beautiful eyes, but she is not very impatient with her own 7 children, or the existence of the children is just an image, just as she always likes to set her eyes on a place of nothingness, lovingly fantasizing about another group of children and another family.
The elderly Jiang Defu's excellently maintained fat face has a baby-like luster, and also adds the temperament of squatting without a toilet. At the age of 45, Anjie, who can still be described as "charming", is no longer slender and white, and there are strips of blue blood vessels on it, which are slightly thick, like the hands of most housework mothers.
No one could have imagined that this marriage of "rural encirclement of the city" would end like this. Anjie, who persisted for a lifetime, twisted all his life, and resented for a lifetime, was finally transformed by Jiang Defu, she gave up the coffee cup, gave up the steak, became a little old woman wrapped in a turban, and willingly lived another Anjie.
Strictly speaking, Jiang Defu is a rough man with an ordinary appearance of a second marriage and divorce, he has a feudal marriage, whether he likes it or not, this is his past, and it will also be counted in the marriage history.
But he is not willing to accept fate, and those who can fight with the troops just after marriage and fight for fame have a fierce and determined spirit in their hearts, and they have a sense of urgency to live a good life.
In the original work, before meeting Anjie, he has successfully integrated into the city, combing the water-soaked oily middle part, wearing a straight military uniform, and always pinning the always hero brand pen on the pocket of his jacket. Represents his desire to stay in the city as well as his unwavering confidence.
Men in their 30s who have not yet established a family are either having problems with themselves or have too high a vision and look forward to introducing good land to change the genes handed down from generation to generation. That's just the way he is.
On the first side of the appointment with Anjie, his thick laughter never stopped, and his face was as colorful as the New Year, because he clearly knew that Anjie was the most ideal other half in his mind.
But his tardiness and the obvious gray and black in his fingernails also indicate that it is not so easy to marry Anjie, especially the cultural level of not knowing 100 words, which has opened up the distance with Anjie.
As he himself said, "Lao Tzu has taken down many difficult strongholds when he was fighting, and I am afraid that you, the stinky lady of the bourgeoisie with two long braids, will not succeed?" "Whether it is the peasant-style competitive spirit that does not steam steamed
When he is not convinced of "pro-class division" and the frequent entry and exit of Anjie's "capitalist" family, he is not far from success.
Moreover, his red background is like a happy event that a pie fell from the sky for the Anjie family, who cannot escape the black capital, even if Anjie is tough, he has to consider the whole family, not to mention that it can also bring rich material security. This is a fatal temptation for the vast majority of women.
The land in his mind, which had been cultivated by his father's father and his father's father, was tenaciously and deeply rooted in the few weeds planted by his ancestors for generations. And the party organization instilled in his mind many scientific advanced materialism similar to the impact of "the times are different, men and women are the same" and other historical trends.
They all wanted him to always have a point for Anjie, not only the favorable external conditions, but also his urgency for the countryside to surround the city. Like many "official generations and rich generations", they have retained the old ideas in their bones, but they also have a positive attitude of absorbing new ideas, which is a struggle between the new and the old, and it is also the product of the pouring of the new era.
As a tide maker in the new era, how could he not understand Anjie's dislike of him, and how he could not see that he and Anjie were not compatible, but this group of people was good in that they were not afraid of the waves and had the determination to ambush the waves.
Therefore, he successfully obtained both physical and mental happiness, because satisfaction, even if Anjie was a little dissatisfied with him, he still felt happy and happy, and he also conceived 7 children with Anjie. For him personally, he has a happy married life for a lifetime, married to the woman he likes, and has achieved something in his career, which is already perfect.
Anjie laughed many times to express his dissatisfaction with Jiang Defu, and after seeing the first meeting, he slandered Jiang Defu and said, "Look at that countryman, he still has a pole and a pen." Listening to him, I'm sure he didn't recognize a hundred words, and the hero's pen was a waste in his pocket! ”
Just when Jiang Defu came in and out of her house with a thick skin, she deliberately made coffee to be difficult, looking at Jiang Defu's bitter face when he drank the first sip of coffee, and when he drank like a white wine, her heart was cheerful, how long could a person who did not even have the minimum respect hold out?
Another time was when her brother-in-law deliberately invited Jiang Defu to eat steak, looking at the knives, knives and forks on the table Jiang Defu did not understand, and even which hand held the knife and fork did not know, which was undoubtedly a naked contempt for Jiang Defu.
Anjie was originally a capitalist lady, her own cultivation, the desire for romance is carried in her bones, reading books, illustrations or quietly enjoying the sunshine is all she has in life, although she is a suppressed capitalist, but she can not suppress her disposition.
The biggest difference between urban and rural people is not in the accent, nor in the dress, but in the way and method of dealing with the world. The rural people shouted and shouted, and the urban people did not move; the rural people could calculate the effect of blushing and thick neck for a needle and a line, but the urban people would never act rashly for the gains and losses of one country and one wall. The cheapness of the world always belongs to those who can hold their breath.
She always scorned the simplicity of the rural people, even to the point of intolerability. The expression on his face was exactly the same as the virtue of a city man who was in a hurry to hurry when he was stopped by a countryman to ask for directions.
Just like her basic hygiene qualities such as slicing hands before and after eating, not eating and sniffing, gargling after meals, washing her face and feet before going to bed, washing her buttocks and washing her buttocks, for Jiang Defu, it has become a stinky problem of capitalists who is difficult to understand and even less recognized.
This is not only a matter of living habits and upbringing, but an insurmountable class gap, even if it can force people from different classes together, it cannot erase the original problems of class, which is a gap, a barrier, and something that both classes hate at the same time.
Whether it was out of the soft and hard bubble of her brother and sister-in-law, or a kind of helplessness for that era, she had to marry Jiang Defu, and she was still subtly changing each other, and in the end she became who could not be separated from whom. In fact, there were many marriages like theirs in that era, but they had absolutely nothing to do with love.
Perhaps many people will evaluate Anjie as an unsatisfied woman, she does not have the harsh rebuke of her in-laws, she has no troubles with children, but she can live a rich and decent life. She should be grateful to Jiang Defu, and she should put away her unrealistic petty bourgeois mood.
But the fact is that young and promising young officers who want to progress will not choose a young capitalist lady with a sensitive birth, and the middle-aged officers who have come out of the countryside and divorced young girls from the city may not be able to see it, and their combination has no one to covet anyone, and it is more accurate to be a make-up without choice.
If it were not for her mentality of breaking the jar and breaking the broken, and turning no amount of unwillingness and resentment into 8 live 7 children in 15 years, she may not be the most representative marital love in the context of the big era.
Just like there is a saying that if you look very beautiful, don't think too beautiful, since you have already met such a person as Jiang Defu, you can live a good life in the present, otherwise can she have a second way out?
Just as we who grew up under the red flag and were born in the era of peace, many people who have been smoothed out by marriage often put "do and cherish" on their lips?
Who doesn't want the wind and snow, who doesn't want to be in the lights, but who has absolute dominance? Don't they all have the mentality of breaking the jar and trying to let others see that they are very happy?
Love, who can say it clearly, is just an illusion, nothing can stop the various erosions of life, nothing can change the various unexpected situations of reality, and the only thing left is to compromise and step by step, and it has become the norm of life.
Mixed feelings, this is life. If you want to enjoy, you must endure, the most difficult problem in life is often chai rice oil and salt, the heaviest shackles are often trivial, saying the ghost words of cherishing the moment, holding the mentality of breaking the jar and breaking, and confusing to spend a lifetime!