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Zhang Xiaoxian once wrote: "There is a person who teaches you how to love, but he does not love you." In the future, I will never fight to love someone again, even you. I finally understood that in this life, true love is only once, and then even if there is how entangled love is, it will not hurt the bones after all ”
After I left you, I didn't dare to touch my feelings anymore, and I didn't dare to easily get involved in the homework of love, because I was afraid of the Cold War, I was afraid of quarrels, and I was even more afraid of two people going from strange to familiar and then becoming strangers.
I am more afraid that the longer the two people are together, the more perfunctory you are afraid of me, I am also afraid of you, my tears that can't stop, I am afraid of the end of the loss, between us there is no result afraid of loss.
I finally understood that some relationships, there is no choice but to say goodbye, and if I continue to get along, it will no longer be love for each other, but a living injury.
Fortunately, we were able to get to know each other, but unfortunately we stopped at just acquaintances, fate did not let us, have a longer time together, fate did not let us, have a deeper fate.
We just went from the beginning and back to the beginning, as if I didn't know you, you didn't know me, I never met you, you never met me.
From now on, I will no longer take the initiative to send you messages, not that I don't want you, maybe I am no longer qualified to think of you, maybe I don't know what else I can say, if our own ending is the end now, maybe silence is the best response.
Taking the initiative to choose to disconnect from you is the best way for me to love you in the end, rather than worrying that my self-indulgence has disturbed you, it is better to say that I am embarrassing myself.
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Lu Yao wrote in "Ordinary World": "Fate is always not as good as people wish. But it is often in countless pains, in the midst of numerous contradictions and hardships, that people mature. ”
Even love is the same, people always have to learn to grow in setbacks, and people always have to go through experience in blows.
In fact, I am also thinking, what do I really love you, love your gentleness towards me, or covet your little kindness to me.
From the beginning to the end, you didn't give me anything, maybe all I wanted was love, all I wanted was the one who loved me in love.
It's just that we have finally become people without later, your later has nothing to do with me, and my happiness is not what you are bearing.
Sanmao once wrote: "Thank you for giving me an empty joy, the good memories we had, let the tears be blurred." Occasionally I think of it, and the memory is still fresh like the beginning, I love you, there is no purpose, just love you. ”
I want to thank you for the empty joy you gave me, after I thought you had given me the whole world I loved, but now I find that when you left, everything was taken away.
Maybe feelings are like this, love that wants to love can't be, can't stay if you want to stay, can't stop if you want to stop, there will always be a mysterious force that pulls everyone forward at all costs.
You have taught me how to love you, you have taught me what love is, and when I want to love you well, you no longer love me, but you have changed your heart, and everything is ready to love others.
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It turns out that in the relationship, there will be so much time, not everyone will be waiting for you in the same place, not everyone will love you for a lifetime, some people just come to love you for a while, and do not intend to love you for a lifetime.
Don't take someone else's rush to pass by as the last destination of his life, he is just passing through your world, not the same as staying in your world.
There is a sentence in "Human Disqualification": "My pride does not allow it, I tell others about this day of collapse, only I know, but overnight, my heart becomes like two people." ”
Love or not love, always so obvious, not together, both sides will have different attitudes.
There is a man who teaches you how to love, but he does not love you anymore, so it is a pity that we love each other so much, or are doomed to be separated.
Well, it's good to go here, after all, the person who feels tired this time is actually you.
To let go is to complete oneself, to believe in the arrangement of everything, and eventually you will meet the best person.
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