Love does not develop logically, so it is necessary to pay attention to its changes at all times. Love is not eternal, so it must be constantly pursued. - Bai Yang
Today's concept of love pays attention to loyalty and single-mindedness, love a person to be single-minded, whether in love or in marriage, the half-hearted person, is always the party that is degraded by people, but in ancient China, it is very normal to pay attention to male superiority and female inferiority, and it is very normal for men to have wives and concubines, which has always been so, and in the Republic of China period, this phenomenon was slowly changed.
At that time, people's ideological concepts changed greatly, basically monogamous, which was also recognized and approved by most people, but there was a person who was more special, not only did he take a concubine in a bright and upright manner, but Also Madame Zhengfang asked him to do so.
Qian Dajun is also a prominent figure in the Republic of China period, he is tall and handsome, his family is superior, his experience is not extraordinary, before he has been studying abroad, and then returned to China due to war reasons, after he returned to China, he worked as an instructor at the Whampoa Military Academy, to know that the Whampoa Military Academy is not anyone who can enter casually, there are basically powerful people, where Qian Dajun has a certain circle of communication among the powerful people.
Qian Dajun is full of poetry, is a cultured person, looks noble and elegant, so there are many people who have a good feeling for him, at a dance party he met Ouyang Zaoli, the two people fell in love at first sight, came together, the two people have a good relationship, it didn't take long for them to start thinking about getting married.
However, Ouyang Zaoli's father did not agree with their marriage, because he felt that Qian Dajun's family lineage, appearance, and ability, although impeccable, but his profession was related to the military, there was a certain danger, she did not want her daughter to take risks, but Ouyang Zaoli insisted on marrying Qian Dajun, he could not help his daughter, and he could not bear to see his daughter sad and sad, and finally could only agree.
After marriage, the two of them lived happily, and the husband and wife respected and loved each other. Ouyang Zaoli also gave birth to several children for him, although Ouyang Zaoli is a big miss, but not squeamish at all, she knows how to read and be polite, cares for children, cares about her husband, and keeps the family in order, Qian Dajun also feels satisfied and happy for such a virtuous wife, and the love between the two of them was also a good story at that time.
It is a pity that they did not continue to love sweetly as always, and then Ouyang Zaoli's body had problems, Qian Dajun took her everywhere to seek medical treatment, but there was no effect, many large hospitals said that her physical condition had reached the point of no return, the two people listened to it and their hearts were like a knife, Ouyang Zaoli felt that she would soon die, very unwilling and sad.
He was reluctant to his husband, even more reluctant to his most beloved children, her children are still young, can not be independent, but also need the company and care of their mother, she really can't bear to leave them, when her husband was only in his thirties, after her death, his husband will definitely continue the string, she thought about it for a long time and decided to let her sister marry Qian Dajun, so that she does not have to worry about her children, her sister will treat them well.
After that, Ouyang Zaoli told her parents and sister about her thoughts, hoping to get their consent, her sister was only seventeen years old at the time, spending the same age, young and beautiful, Qian Dajun was eighteen years older than her, but her sister Ouyang Shengli did not hesitate to agree, Qian Dajun was talented, rich and powerful, Ouyang Zhengli had always admired him.
For this matter, Qian Dajun said that he did not agree with anything at first, but Ouyang Zaoli begged him bitterly, moved by him, knew that it was reasonable, and also said that this matter was her last wish, helplessly, Qian Dajun could only agree to his wife, and then Ouyang Shengli moved into his sister's house, on the one hand, he could take care of his seriously ill sister, on the other hand, he could also have more contact with Qian Dajun.
Ouyang Shengli is beautiful as a flower, lively and cheerful, also read books, literate hyphenation, after getting along for a long time, Qian Dajun also slowly has a good feeling for her, lying on the hospital bed Ouyang Zaoli watched their feelings heat up, although the heart is not good, but there is no way, after all, this is the best, she can rest assured.
Things were all developing like Ouyang Zaoli had arranged, but a miracle had happened, and Ouyang Zaoli's body actually began to improve, and it didn't take long to heal. This made Ouyang Zaoli also fall into a dilemma, her sister and her husband have become husband and wife, the two people already have feelings, if she regrets it at this time, where will she put her sister? And her sister married, which she also begged.
After a long time of entanglement, Ouyang Zaoli chose to accept such a situation, after all, she could not do anything, otherwise she would be sorry for her sister and sorry for her husband, just like this, the two sisters served a husband and lived together.
Later, due to the pressure of the times at that time, Qian Dajun decided to take his family to settle elsewhere, but Ouyang Zaoli was already very tired at that time and did not want the three of them to continue to live together, so he stayed in his hometown. Her sister went with her husband, and it was a farewell between them, and they never saw each other again.
If Ouyang Zaoli's sister had not married Qian Dajun at that time, they might have lived happily ever since, but without if, she had no choice but to force herself to accept the final result.
Nine times out of ten, everyone has done things that make them regret, but there is no regret medicine in the world, we can't blindly regret it, but we should calm our minds, try to accept any consequences, let go of ourselves, and let go of others.