Some people live to be 90 years old, and some people live to make every day wonderful

1, people are always good at leaving their own way back,

I thought about it in class, and I read the textbook after class, and I would do it. Textbooks didn't even look at how to do the problem.

After class, what is the use of reading textbooks, brushing questions,

After brushing for a while, it will not be ah, now review is useless ah. Let's play.

People who can't calm down and do things, are destined to go far, and those who are impetuous can achieve great things?

2, when you say someone else behind your back, whether it is good or bad, you will vaguely feel that the person knows that you are talking about him behind your back.

This is to be a thief with a weak heart, talking about people behind it, one or two sentences at most, saying more is suspect, whether it is good or bad, you will be weak-minded.

3, every day qq to punch the card, to like, brush space, brush Baidu, brush vibrato. Anyway, I can read everything in class, except for textbooks. Also watch the news. Tired is not tired.

Life also has an end, and the mobile phone has no end, with an end, there is no end, it is gone. Human life is so precious that time cannot be wasted on boring things.

4, "The more you want to forget some things, the more you will remember them." When there are things you can't have anymore, the only thing you can do is not forget. ——" East Evil west poison"

That's a good thing to say, but most of the material in this world is consumables, and even the house is only a consumable with a long shelf life. Further, memories are also consumables, and maybe when you just broke up, the more you want to forget, the more you remember. Then tell yourself that I just can't forget, can't put it down, I can't help it. However, leave it all to time, although time is a pig killing knife and pig feed, but at the same time it is the best medicine to heal the soul. Memories are consumables, you think about the past over and over again, and in the end, it must not be more and more remembered, but can't remember clearly, vaguely, just remember that there is probably such a person. As for what it looks like, it doesn't look like it at all.

5, Christianity: You were born evil and doomed to hell, but you just need to worship me religiously and let you go to heaven, otherwise I will let you die without a place to die. Buddhism: I don't care if you are good or evil, worship me well If you are safe and rich in your life, this is the blessing of my Buddha, you have to be grateful, you suffer all your life, you are destined to have these calamities, otherwise you will be even more miserable, you will also thank me Buddha for his compassion. Taoism: Taoism is natural, believe it, believe it, don't delay my practice.

Modern people, do everything to pursue efficiency, the pursuit of usefulness. So there is no time to go to church to listen to the baptism of the priest, no time to chant mantras every day, burn incense and worship the Buddha. Learn the difficult Buddhist principles. Taoists know even more about very few people. The most suitable for modern people to cultivate should be Wang Yangming's mind study, which teaches people how to do a good job and how to have a non-entangled outlook on life. How to live transparently. Wang Yangming's psychology is very similar to some books that study the efficiency of doing things, such as "Flow". It's just saying the same thing in different words.

6, I am really afraid of my reality in the future, not worthy of my little ideal

Ordinary people's ideals are very small, have a warm nest, have a stable job, and have a happy family. The ideal is not big, but they have done their best. Therefore, it is really naïve in school, and no matter how small the ideal is, it is also an ideal. It needs to be continuously accumulated and struggled. There is no time to stop, and there is no time to fear the future.

7, when you are particularly irritable, you have to calm down first, go to the woods, go to the streets, have a cup of tea, or go crazy and exercise, but don't find someone to talk to, friends are people who share happiness with you, but they are not obliged to bear your pain, don't be a talker who emits negative energy, from now on, learn to bear it yourself.

When you are irritable, be sure to shut your mouth, don't let irritability spread, and don't let irritability super double.

8, whenever I see her happily taking photos with her family on WeChat, I understand that in fact, there are reasons for breaking up, and I should not regret it. If you reluctantly continue, you should regret it.

Everyone should not regret their ex, and everyone will not regret it for their ex.

At most, it is just a sigh for the unsatisfactory present, or nostalgia for the youth and innocence of that year. ------------------------

There must be a reason for the breakup, and the reason must be both. If one party feels that the fault is all in themselves, and the breakup is all because of my own badness, it is also a kind of narcissism. So, don't be so mentally burdened. When people are alive, they must look forward, the past will pass, and deleting all the past is a good attitude to look forward completely.

9, feel that what you did before is wrong, and feel that you did it right

The first sentence is guilt, and the second sentence is inferiority.

10. When do you change? Decide for yourself.

What will change?

Just the big truths that everybody knows.

Only Wang Yangming's mind can solve this problem. Let people not be afraid of difficulties, can bravely take the first step, make difficult things simple, and make it easy to persist for a long time.

11, people's hearts for people's hearts, eight two for one pound

Swap, swap? It is not a material exchange for another, but an accumulation of trust, so it is not enough, this exchange is too abstract, need to be carefully experienced in life. This old saying, people's hearts for hearts, eight two is four hundred grams, one pound is five hundred grams, if you want to calculate the profit margin is, 25%, but the old saying is to facilitate dissemination. In real reality, if a person can change his heart with others, then the yield of all aspects is difficult to estimate. If a company can change its heart with customers, then the profit margin is not only this 25%, visible, invisible, all aspects will be very smooth.