In life, every day from the beginning of the eyes, we are getting along with the world and with the people around us. We are all trying to enter the world of others, trying to gain the approval of others, but very few people learn to get along with themselves. It is precisely because of this that we are more likely to lose ourselves. In fact, each of us should be honest with our hearts and talk to ourselves, that is, open up our own world and live the way we like, so that we can live freely.
To do this, we have to keep the following points in mind.
Only by being alone and talking to our hearts often can we see our true thoughts, find our truest selves, and finally understand ourselves and most importantly, what we really want to open up our own world.
Most people have this experience: When they go to school, their parents always point to the child next door and say, "Look at the people, how good the grades are, you have to look up to him." After graduating from college, my parents and elders said, "If you still want to be a teacher or take the exam for a civil servant, this is the iron bowl of rice, and everything else is not a legitimate job." At work, your boss always tells you that this is not right, that is not right. At the beginning of our lives, we seem to be satisfying other people, and never satisfying ourselves. In fact, we need to understand the truth: you don't need to please all people, only what you like is the most important.
What is happiness in life? In fact, happiness is very simple, is to do what you like, if we care too much about the eyes of others, in the process unconsciously take ourselves as the focus, it will only make ourselves physically and mentally exhausted. So learn to do what you love and enjoy your world, and no one will care what you do.
A white-collar worker in the company said: "Recently, I feel more and more unhappy at work, my temper is getting bigger and bigger, I always want to get angry, especially when I go home every day to take the subway, it is very crowded, and every time I will clash with the people standing around, I don't want to do this, but I just can't be happy." Although the work pressure is very high, we still have options, because more often, the real pressure is given by ourselves. And pressure is like an executioner, it kills all the factors of happiness.
Some people always like to put the pressure of others on themselves, and everything is more real. For example, when you see a colleague promoted and a friend get rich, you will always be indignant: Why is this happening? Why not yourself? In fact, anything, as long as you try your best, anything is not urgent, rather than let yourself be unnecessarily annoyed, it is better to face it with a positive attitude, strive to adjust emotions, release inner pressure, and make your life more colorful.
In short, if a person always lives according to the standards of others, then the smoothest road will make him physically and mentally exhausted, and eventually, he will go to the road of no return because of the pressure of life. In fact, what we should do most is to open up our own world, live according to the way we like, live our own wonderful, and eventually become ourselves.