Knowing that there is such a question on the hot list: Zhuangzi is afraid of Keiko every day, why can they still be good friends?
Here's an answer that touched me deeply.
It is recorded in the "Zhuangzi Xu Wu Ghost":
Zhuangzi sent a funeral, passing through the tomb of Huizi, Gu said to the followers: "The chalk of the Yin people spreads the end of their noses, and if the wings of the fly, make the craftsman stone." Craftsman stone transport into the wind, listen to it, do their best and the nose does not hurt, and the yin people do not lose their face. "When Song Yuanjun heard this, he summoned the craftsman Shi Yue: 'Try to do it for the widow.'" The craftsman said: 'The subject can taste it.' Although, the hostage of the subject died for a long time. 'Since Keiko's death, I can't be held hostage!' I have nothing to say. ”
The translation is:
When Zhuangzi gave Keiko a funeral, he told a story to others. It is said that a man named YingDu smeared a piece of white powder the size of a fly's wing on the tip of his nose and asked a craftsman named Shi to cut it down with an axe. The craftsman picked up the axe and cut it down with the sound of the wind, and the result was that the white powder was completely removed, but the nose was not hurt in the slightest. Not only did Yin Ren's face not change, but he didn't even blink his eyes.
After Song Yuanjun listened, he asked the craftsman to perform again. The craftsman replied, "I did do it, but the person who could cooperate with me has been dead for a long time."
When I saw this, I was a little tearful, and I originally thought that the two people who liked to fight were very interesting, but suddenly I felt a little desolate. Although Zhuangzi fears Keiko every day, he is also a unique "favorite".
Many times, we feel that we have many friends, and even call them confidants. Knowing oneself and knowing oneself is not knowing oneself, and it is precisely because I know you that I know the measure of getting along with you.
People come to the world alone, even with the company of family or lovers, they often feel empty, they represent a kind of bondage, and even overwhelm us. If someone can communicate without interest, only by interest, that is the purest relationship, and perhaps all we really want is an understanding. Therefore, it is enough to have a confidant in life.
The relationship between Zhuangzi and Keiko reminds me of a famous pair of partners in the cross-talk industry, "Qizhi Dabing".
It can be said that I began to like crosstalk because of this combination. As we all know, the form of cross-talk is a talk, a praise, the person who says it should be vivid and interesting, and the person who praises it must have eyesight.
The funny soldier is slippery, and the qizhi who holds the praise is thick and honest, and he can use his acting skills to perfectly take over the burden of the soldier every time. Speaking of which, although the age difference between the two is 16 years old, their performance on the stage makes people feel tacit understanding, but the ending of the two is lamentable.
The 14-year-old soldier met Kishi, who was rehearsing, in the park, so he ran over to him and said, "Teacher, I like crosstalk, can you teach me?" Qi Zhi saw that the boy was so bold and talented, so he took him as an apprentice.
Later, the two debuted as the "Qizhi Soldier" group, from the beginning of running the field in the Changsha Song Hall, to later becoming famous throughout the country. At that time, there was also the slogan "There are Qizhi soldiers in the south and Feng Gong in the north".
At that time, the soldiers were young and interesting, more popular, and always had commercial offers. In contrast, Qi Zhi, who was silently helping on the side, seemed to be indifferent, and a gap began to appear between the two. Because fame became too quick to make the soldiers become proud and complacent, he felt that he bore most of the jokes, but it was unfair to have to share the account with the master.
Although when asked by the media why they parted ways, the two said that their creative ideas were not compatible. But the answer to this question is tacitly accepted by everyone. Later, Qi Zhi also publicly exposed that the soldiers were not authentic and drove themselves out of Changsha.
Later, everyone knows the ending, although the soldiers were banned for ridiculing the deceased. But this kind of ending was already doomed as early as the time when the "Qizhi Soldier" group broke up.
People are always easily blinded by desire and forget their original intentions. Two thousand gold is easy to get; a confidant is the hardest to find. Don't overestimate yourself, don't despise others, sometimes your success is just because someone silently gives you a stepping stone.
I thought I had a lot of friends until I read this story:
Once upon a time, there was a very righteous warrior who was very good at the world. When he was dying, he said to his son: "Don't look at me since I was a child in the rivers and lakes, the people I have made are like carps across the river, in fact, I have made a half of friends in my life." ”
The son wondered. His father approached his ear and said to him, "You go and see this half-friend of mine as I say, and you will naturally understand the essence of your friend." ”
The son first went to the "one friend" identified by his father. He said to him: "I am the son of so-and-so, and now I am being hunted down and killed by the imperial court, and I am in a hurry to join you, hoping to rescue you!" When this man heard this, he could not think about it, and hurriedly summoned his son, and ordered his son to quickly change his clothes and put them on this "court criminal" who did not know him, and let his son wear the clothes of "court criminals.".
The son understands: when your life and death are at stake, the person who can take care of you and even sacrifice his own flesh and blood to rescue you can be called a friend of yours.
The son went to what his father called "half a friend", pleaded with his fist, and said the same thing again. This "half friend" listened and said to the "court criminal" who was asking for help: "Child, I can't save you in such a big matter." I've got enough coils for you here, you're going to run away high and fast, and I promise I won't report you..."
The son understands: in your time of suffering, the person who can protect yourself and not fall into the well to harm you can be called half of your friend.
Pu Songling said: "There are many friends and friends who feast and laugh, and there are widows in tribulation."
Don't be complacent about knowing a lot of people, only know how many hearts you have when you're in trouble. I've seen the saying, "If you want to have friends, you have to be friends first."
It is easy to make friends, it is difficult to be able to hand over the true heart, and it is even more difficult to become a confidant. True confidants are people who trust more than themselves, and it is no wonder that the ancients said, "Soldiers die for confidants."