Recently, Jia Jingwen revealed that she was pulled to the toilet by a perverted man in her childhood, which attracted the attention of many people. During the recording, Jia Jingwen and host Lu Yu walked in a playground where she often played when she was a child.
Seeing this playground, Jia Jingwen felt a lot, about 5 or 6 years old, she and her cousin were there to slide the slide, and then a man came and dragged her down and directly into the toilet, fortunately, the cousin went in and pulled her out, which was safe.
Later, I heard my mother say that the man was a pervert and would drag the child into the toilet to do bad things. At the end of the story, Lu Yu listened to the chill next to him, saying that he thought of the movie "Suyuan" about child sexual assault. Jia Jingwen also said that she was very scared, especially after having a child, she was more worried about her child.
At the age of five or six, Jia Jingwen still remembers very clearly, and you can imagine how deep the shadow of her childhood was. Jia Jingwen's childhood encounter has also resonated with many netizens, some netizens have the same frightening experience, and some netizens even have bad things. As a result, the discussion about children's gender safety awareness has been hot on the Internet for a while.
As a star, Jia Jingwen's experience has been magnified, and everyone is indignant. But for some stars, Jia Jingwen is lucky. Whether it is childhood life or this thrilling encounter of childhood, the result is considered lucky.
When it comes to the miserable life of childhood, such stars abound. I still remember the most tragic one, or the melancholy prince who was popular on his debut and sang "damn gentle", Ma Tianyu.
Born in rural Shandong, Ma Tianyu lived in the most dilapidated stone house when he was a child, and the only thing that stood out was the jujube tree in front of the door. Poverty is inevitable.
It's more miserable than being poor. During the Mid-Autumn Festival when he was 5 years old, his bedridden mother asked Ma Tianyu to go out to buy medicine, and when he returned, he found that his mother was "asleep".
Little Ma Tianyu didn't know what was going on, and he also fell asleep next to his mother.
It's just that he woke up, but his mother didn't. The next day, someone came to deliver mooncakes, only to find that her mother's body was already cold.
Immediately after his father left his hometown because of debt, the youngest brother was forced to give away, and he and his two older sisters lived with their grandparents. Later, because of the tuition and miscellaneous fees of 3 yuan, Ma Tianyu did not study in junior high school and could only enter the society.
Entering the society is another scene, three cents to live for two months he still remembers...
Even after becoming famous, Ma Tianyu still can't let go of his childhood encounters, "I don't know why all the (bad) things happened to me."
Similar to Jia Jingwen's encounter, but not her lucky, there are also film emperor Huang Qiusheng and singer He Yaoshan.
Huang Qiusheng's childhood was also miserable, reorganizing the family, and his mother once fed him washing powder as milk powder, almost "poisoning" him to death.
When he was 16 years old, Huang Qiusheng was helping people on the street, and was grabbed by a man and touched his hand.
Huang Qiusheng also realized something, so he led the person to the police post and caught him.
Ho Yiu-shan is a well-known pastor singer in the Chinese music scene. She was called a priest singer because she was plagued by depression, and then after enlightenment, she stepped out of the psychological shadow and chose to become a priest.
Depression and psychological shadow originated from He Yaoshan's childhood experience of being sexually assaulted.
About 6 years old, He Yaoshan's family has a neighbor uncle next door, the uncle and her parents are good friends, often carry her on the lap ... Later, He Yaoshan was sexually assaulted by that uncle, and she still remembers the pain.
After 5 years, He Yaoshan moved with her parents and stayed away from the "right and wrong" place.
When He Yaoshan grew up, she knew the difference between men and women, and also knew what her neighbor's uncle had done to her, so she suffered from depression for a long time, and she also self-harmed many times, and her psychological shadow was extremely heavy.
When she came out of her arms and became a mother again, she felt that parents should really communicate with their children more, teach their children the concept of protecting themselves from an early age, and educate their children to have the courage to speak out no matter what difficulties they encounter.
Like He Yaoshan, after Jia Jingwen said this childhood experience, she thought more about children.
What I have experienced, I must not let my children experience, become a mother, and feel that some things really need to be educated from an early age.