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3 flower girls, 4 lives: the light, shadow and dust reflected by Xiao Jingteng's wedding
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Taipei's night sky is lit up by a grand wedding
On June 27, 2023, the 45-year-old "rain god" Xiao Jingteng finally married his agent Lin Youhui (Summer), who has been with him for 17 years,
Surrounded by the chase of flashing lights and the sound of blessings, the most eye-catching are the three cute flower girls - the daughters of Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai: 18-year-old Wutong Mei, 9-year-old Bo Bo and 7-year-old Ponyo
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They are dressed in white princess dresses, holding flowers, and innocent smiles, adding a touch of innocence to this romantic wedding, but behind this fairytale sweetness, there are 3 completely different life trajectories, as well as 4 completely different educational concepts
This is not only a celebrity wedding, but also a mirror, reflecting the glitz and reality of the entertainment industry, and also causing us to think deeply about the growth of child stars, family education, and social values
1. Growth in the spotlight: the independence and courage of Wutong Sister
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The 18-year-old Wutong sister is the daughter of Jia Jingwen and her ex-husband Sun Zhihao, who grew up in a single-parent family, and realized the hardships of life and the weight of responsibility early
Instead of choosing to live under the aura of her parents, she bravely stepped out of her comfort zone and went to Shanghai to study alone, where she learned to take care of herself and get along with people from different cultural backgrounds
Inheriting her parents' artistic talents, Wutong Mei is full of enthusiasm for acting, she actively participates in school drama performances and shares her works on social media, although she is still inexperienced in acting, but her love and dedication to acting make people see the unlimited potential in her
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At Xiao Jingteng's wedding, Wutong Mei took off her usual personality lip ring and nose ring, and put on a pink dress, showing the girl's purity and sweetness
"I hope to become an excellent actor through my own efforts, rather than relying on my parents' fame," Wutong Mei once said in an interview
Her eyes were firm and clear, without a trace of confusion and hesitation
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The growth of Wutong Mei is inseparable from the educational philosophy of Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai, who respect the child's choice and encourage her to think independently and pursue her dreams bravely
"We want her to be an independent person who has her own goals in life, not to live in our expectations," Alyssa said
2. Innocent smile: Woo Woo Happiness and Genius
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9-year-old Bo Bo, the eldest daughter of Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai, has a pair of big watery eyes, smiles like a little angel, sweet and cute, and has captured the hearts of countless netizens
Different from her sister's independence, Bo Bo is more like a little princess living in a honey pot, she is innocent and carefree, enjoying the pampering of her parents and the company of her family
In the wedding photos shared by Xiu Jiekai, Boo hugged his father's neck tightly and pressed his cheek to his father's face, his eyes full of dependence and trust
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The happiness of Boo comes from the love of her parents, but also from the optimism and cheerfulness in her nature, she likes to sing and dance, likes to play with her sister, and she infects everyone around her in her own way
Although she is still young, Boo has already shown amazing language talent, she can speak fluent English, and can communicate with people in simple Chinese, in variety shows, her witty reactions and cute fairy tale words, even more fans
"Bo Bo is a very spiritual child, she is full of curiosity about the world and has a strong learning ability," Xiu Jiekai once said of his daughter
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For the future of Bo Bo, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai did not plan too much
"We want her to grow up healthy and happy and do what she loves," says Alyssa "If she is interested in acting, we will support her, but only if she really likes it and is not forced to do so"
3. Energetic figure: Ponyo's freedom and exploration
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7-year-old Ponyo is the youngest daughter of Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai, she inherited the excellent genes of her parents and has a delicate mixed-race face, different from the sweetness of her sisters, Ponyo's facial features are more three-dimensional, and her eyebrows reveal a heroic spirit
Ponyo's personality, like a tomboy, is lively and energetic, she loves sports, adventure, and explores all the unknown
At the wedding scene, Ponyo couldn't be idle for a moment, she sometimes frolicked with her sisters, sometimes ran to the corner to play by herself, and her innocent smile infected everyone around her
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"Ponyo is a very energetic child, she is full of curiosity about the world and likes to try all kinds of new things," Xiu Jiekai once described his youngest daughter
For Ponyo's future, Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai also do not have too many restrictions
"We want her to be free to grow up, to explore her own life, and to find what she is truly passionate about," said Xiu Jiekai, "whether she becomes an athlete or chooses another career, we will support her"
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Fourth, three kinds of life, four kinds of education: the thinking behind Xiao Jingteng's wedding
The three flower girls at Xiao Jingteng's wedding are like three budding buds, each with their own unique beauty and fragrance, and their future is full of infinite possibilities
Wutong Mei's independence, boo's happiness, and Ponyo's freedom are three completely different life trajectories, and they also reflect the educational philosophy of Jia Jingwen, Xiu Jiekai and Sun Zhihao, the three parents
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The divorce of Alyssa Jia and Sun Zhihao also made her more eager for independence and security, so Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai chose to let go and let her face the challenges alone and find her own direction in life
Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai's educational philosophy is to respect children's nature and let them grow up in happiness, they do not set too many rules and regulations for children, but encourage them to explore freely to discover their interests and talents
There are three different educational philosophies, there is no right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable
Every child is an individual, they have different personalities, talents and dreams, and as a parent, the most important thing is not to impose their own wishes on them, but to respect their children's choices and guide them to find their own path in life
The three flower girls at Xiao Jingteng's wedding also triggered our thinking about the growth of child stars, family education, and social values:
- What should we think of child stars? Should they be seen as a tool to make money, or should they be given more understanding and protection?
- In the era of information explosion, how should parents guide their children to maintain themselves and grow up healthily in the complex online world?
- What kind of social values should we pursue? Is money paramount, or should we focus more on spiritual pursuits?
There is no standard answer to these questions, but they are worth pondering for each of us
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