Mention Li Yinhe, it is inevitable to think of Wang Xiaobo, the marriage between them for more than 20 years lived abruptly after Wang Xiaobo's death, as if a beautiful piece of music stopped playing due to external factors.
According to Chinese's habitual understanding, many people think that Li Yinhe will have difficulty meeting love after Wang Xiaobo, but now she has not only met a new love, this love has even made the outside world judge Li Yinhe.
It is worth mentioning that the main reason why this love has such a great influence is that Li Yinhe's lover is a transgender person.
Li Yinhe, who now appears in front of the camera, and his homosexuals have re-established a family and adopted a child, and in the face of external doubts, Li Yinhe calmly responded: Even if Wang Xiaobo is alive, I may fall in love with someone else.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" >, Li Yinhe, and Wang Xiaobo</h1>
Li Yinhe was first moved by his work before meeting Wang Xiaobo.
When he first read Wang Xiaobo's book, Li Yinhe had a feeling of being arranged in the dark. She felt that she was bound to have a certain story with the author of the book, and the future direction did confirm her prediction.
Young girls are always easily confused by appearances, and when Li Yinhe first met Wang Xiaobo, it was hard to believe or even resist his original prediction.
Wang Xiaobo's unassuming appearance once dissuaded Li Yinhe from wanting to have a certain relationship with the other party, but eventually came together.
Appearance can not hide an interesting soul and enough abundant talent, extraordinary conversation and gentle and courteous communication rhythm attracted Li Yinhe, and Wang Xiaobo believed that there was love at first sight in the world when he first met Li Yinhe, one was a young and promising writer, the other was an excellent editor, and the two people were very right together.
Two people are destined to come together, and they choose to enter the marriage hall after only two years of dating, and some people around them think they are too impulsive, but some people support their decision.
At that time, most people who thought they were impulsive still felt that the two people were too fast, and they were still students of each other, so anxious about married life, afraid that they would regret it.
However, this worry seemed superfluous, at that time, both people chose to go to the United States for further study, and those days made Li Yinhe now look back on it with great intoxication.
At that time, Li Yinhe remembered that Wang Xiaobo would create at home when he was fine, while Li Yinhe would focus on his own sociological research and sexual research.
The spirit between the two men was as plump and abundant as an orchard in autumn, so they did not consider increasing the bond between the two parties by procreation.
Although there are no children, it does not affect the degree of emotional intimacy between them at all.
If it were not for the sudden death of Wang Xiaobo, I believe that the feelings between Li Yinhe and Wang Xiaobo would have been played like music, rather than suddenly stopped because of some factor.
The impact of this relationship on Li Yinhe is indeed unforgettable, and wang Xiaobo's sudden death hit her hard to describe in any word in the world.
During that time, Li Yinhe's depressed state even attracted the attention of people around her, in order to be able to let her get relief, her friends forced her to participate in the surrounding social activities.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > second and second love</h1>
Li Yinhe calls love a pie in the sky, and for her love, she thinks she is lucky, and it is true.
During the time of Wang Xiaobo's death, Li Yinhe had been in a state of depression, and the end of this state was closely linked to the second relationship.
Friends pulled her to participate in the surrounding social activities and introduced her to daxia, who is her second love, but this love is a big enough test for Li Yinhe.
After knowing Daxia, Li Yinhe's state gradually came out, but at first she was very resistant to developing another relationship with Daxia.
Daxia is a transgender person, her biological sex is female, but the psychological gender is male, and when Daxia met Li Yinhe, she was also addicted to this woman who was indulging in grief feelings like Wang Xiaobo, she did not rush to express her love, but first chose to silently accompany the poor woman in front of her.
When the feelings with the hero know each other, Li Yinhe fell into a state of contradiction, although he is a scholar, but let himself now accept gay love, but also need to cross the inner barriers, but how can a woman who can become a soul mate with Wang Xiaobo be bound by the world? It just takes time to determine your own intentions.
Although he saw Li Yinhe's confusion, the hero who was glad that he had not been directly rejected decided to use practical actions to let this woman understand her intentions.
Daxia is a person who is very good at taking care of others, and she also achieves her goal through spiritual enrichment in order to be close to Li Yinhe.
At the same time, Li Yinhe can feel the feelings of the hero for her, and she is also touched by this persistence, and the two decide to come together.
Through the ups and downs, they now appear in front of the media camera like ordinary couples, and the only constant is the smile that accompanies them to the present day.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > third, the look of love</h1>
After the two people were together, they decided to adopt a child, which is different from the soul fit when Li Yinhe and Wang Xiaobo were together, and Li Yinhe and Daxia were more like ordinary families full of fireworks when they were together.
The existence of children does not mean that the tacit understanding between the two is inferior to the former, but this life has a more family flavor.
In addition to the fact that the family with two mothers has some special eyes at certain moments in China, Li Yinhe has also been asked a very offensive question: after Wang Xiaobo, he will even encounter love.
When this question is asked, it is obvious that I feel the doubts about Li Yinhe's feelings, but for this offensive question, Li Yinhe's answer is very indifferent, but it also tells the truth: even if Wang Xiaobo is reborn, I may fall in love with someone else.
Love is a very fantastic feeling, when it exists, it does not necessarily mean eternal life, it may be only a moment, it may also be eternal life.
Because a moment of beauty is too short, so people pay great attention to the remaining time full of sadness, which is the reason why we pursue eternal life and eternal life for love, but we have to admit that love has a shelf life, not to mention that after Wang Xiaobo's death, Li Yinhe, who is left alone in the world, is lonely, and she has more right to open her heart and accept another love.
It was not only her freedom, but also her rights, and no one, including Wang Xiaobo, could stop Li Yinhe's soul from falling in love with others.