Human feelings are cold and warm, the world is hot and cold, but a "profit" word; People, in the final analysis, are actually mercenary.
You can accept unrelated people as the richest man in the world, with great wealth, but cannot tolerate your neighbors living better than you, which is human nature and the truest "evil" in human nature.
Recently, the afterword of a doctor's thesis of Peking University exploded on the Internet, which made countless netizens moved.
Perhaps people in this article, see the courage of people poor and strong, perhaps some people in this article, feel the thinness and reality of human feelings.
What I saw was the latter, a naked real world unfolding before us.
When you are poor, a random person can stomp you under your feet; When you're rich, anyone wants to get closer to you.
Huang Bo once mentioned a similar point of view in an interview, before Huang Bo became famous, he participated in a small supporting role, and the assistant director will "teach" you a few words.
However, now that you are famous, you will find that you are surrounded by good people, "Teacher Huang, you have worked hard", "Teacher Huang, you are not tired", "Teacher Huang, you take a break" and so on.
This is the naked reality, when the host asked Huang Bo if this kind of life would be more conducive to his creation.
Huang Bo replied that in fact, it is not, because we are not closer to the real life, but farther away, we can't feel the true appearance of human nature, because everyone always has a smile on their faces.
Human nature is like this, when you have fame, you are always exposed to a face full of smiles, when you lose your reputation, anyone will want to come and step on you to show their status.
The darkness of human nature is not at all what we can speculate on.
Xiao Qinghe mentioned two things in the acknowledgment section of his doctoral dissertation:
The first thing happened when he was a child, when the family was very poor and could not even pay the tuition fees for his schooling, and a neighboring woman got into an argument with his mother over trivial matters, and as a result, the neighboring woman put a dung spoon on Xiao Qinghe's head.
This is a vicious curse in the countryside, a very taboo, but they can't do it, because the family is too poor, and this kind of thing can only be done in the end.
The second thing was that after he was admitted to Peking University, he was the last of the 23 liberal arts students recruited by Peking University in Anhui Province, and the first college student in their small mountain village to enter the world's famous university.
This incident caused a great sensation at the time, and the villagers saw the wind and the rudder, began to walk around with Xiao Qinghe and the family, even gave gifts, and invited him to eat at their own home, and before this, he had never had a meal at anyone else's house.
Although these two things are very small, they let Xiao Qinghe see the truest human nature, and also strengthened his determination to step out of a broader road of life.
When we suffer from exclusion, scorn and ridicule in our own lives, the only thing we can do is change.
Only by arming yourself can you truly protect others by changing yourself and making yourself strong.
Sometimes life is not what we see, what kind of class we are in, we will see what kind of humanity.
Sometimes, although human nature is thin and cool, it is good that people's hearts are still hot.
In Xiao Qinghe's postscript, we can actually see several key figures, such as the uncle who has been quietly taking care of him, helping his mentor Professor Sun Shangyang, and the mother who is still trying to promote his studies after remarrying.
Of course, in Xiao Qinghe's long road to study, there are many people who support him, the chemistry teacher who secretly stuffed money for him, the new president who often sponsored him, and the fellow villagers who supported him free of charge after going to college.
In these more than 20 years of study, Xiao Qinghe saw clearly the human feelings, but also gained warmth and touch, I think the reason why the afterword of this paper is more influential than the paper, the key is that it is simple and true.
Some people say: Where there is shadow, there must be light.
Although human nature is evil, human nature is also good.
I used to hear my parents talk about some new things in the neighborhood of the village:
In the next village, there is a family, perennial business outside, I heard that made a lot of money, that year a family of four returned to their hometown, both want to meet their relatives, but also want to show their identity.
Unexpectedly, the next night after returning home, the couple was killed with their ten-year-old child, the family was in a mess, the valuable things they brought back were looted, and the family of four, only the infants who were still in their infancy survived.
Later, I heard that the murderer was actually a single stick in the same village, because there were some festivals in the early years, plus the family of three went home to show off, which made him have evil thoughts in his heart.
Later, the baby was adopted by his uncle, but after all, he was not biological, and he grew up eating a hundred meals from a young age, but the child was very contentious, until the college entrance examination a few years ago, the child was admitted to a key university, and was gradually mentioned again.
The evil of human nature makes people think of it, and their hearts are itching with hatred;
The goodness of human nature makes people feel warm in their hearts when they think of it;
Many times, strangers bring us more emotions than paying in return.
Maybe this is really a kind of irony of family affection, those who usually look familiar, when you are down or when you are developed, in fact, there are a few who are really true to you.
On the contrary, those strangers will not care who you are, their help is from the heart, although everyone does not know each other, but this care is real.
Yesterday on a bus in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, a woman was extremely depressed because of things at home, and when the bus arrived at the terminal, she was still sitting alone in her seat.
After the car captain Ma Juan saw it, she took the initiative to ask about the situation, and the woman cried silently, telling her grievances in her heart.
Ma Juan comforted her and said: We are all adults, there are some things we must face, after the wind and rain will always see a rainbow.
Maybe Ma Juan's persuasion played a role, or maybe the woman felt Ma Juan's concern and concern, she eased her emotions, and said: Can I hug you?
Then Ma Juan gave the woman a hug and gently patted her as a sign of comfort.
Such a scene is recorded, which makes people feel warm.
There will always be so many people in this world silently guarding us, although we don't know each other, and we won't even see each other again, but when we encounter difficulties, we will feel warm.
Whether human nature is good or evil, in fact, no one can say clearly, but it is certain that no matter how we spend our lives, we must accept the darkness and sunshine of life.
Seeing the truth of this world, we can go better.