Love is like a glass of fine wine, whoever drinks it will be on top.
Once some people have tasted the taste of love, they are no longer willing to put down the wine in their hands, even if it is a fine wine mixed with "poison", they do not hesitate to drink it down, taste the heart-eating pain of the liver and intestines, and then they are willing to wake up.
40-year-old Tang Qianqian (pseudonym), has experienced two twists and turns of feelings, those two feelings have brought her pain, the first husband domestic violence, the second husband is incompatible, divorced from the second husband after living alone with her daughter, ready to raise her daughter to adulthood.
3 years ago, when she was a KTV boss lady, she met her boyfriend Wang Yongfeng (pseudonym), a construction site owner, and at the beginning the two people met Wang Yongfeng in KTV, wang Yongfeng's attitude towards her was very ambiguous, and his concern for her was beyond ordinary friends.
Especially after he fell ill, Wang Yongfeng repeatedly greeted her, opened a video for an hour, and patiently taught her how to make a pear water to relieve her cough. During her illness, she felt warmth, and she had a strange feeling in her heart, and unconsciously wanted to get close to Wang Yongfeng.
The two people began to communicate, a month later, Tang Qianqian found that Wang Yongfeng is a family person, but love will be addictive, sweet words to listen to more, she can not care about the dissuasion of others, bent on living a good life with her boyfriend.
In this way, Tang Qianqian, who has experienced two marriages, still fell into the whirlpool of rhetorical love and became a "third party" who destroyed other people's families.
For women, having love is like having a stable home, not wanting to make their love invisible, and she does not want to become an "underground lover", sneaking every day, she is not willing.
She has gone to her boyfriend's house to make trouble, and she has forced her boyfriend to divorce, and every quarrel has been resolved by her boyfriend's three words and two words, and she wants to leave, but she has been recovered by her boyfriend's sweet words. Always tempting her on the grounds of divorce and dragging her back.
"Obedient, obedient, you will always be my favorite..." A few fluttering words were Wang Yongfeng's magic weapon to hold Tang Qianqian.
In this way, the two people quarreled and lived for 3 years, and during the 3 years, in order to pay for the expenses of life, they sold the 90-square-meter large house left by their ex-husband to her and her daughter, and bought a small house of 30 square meters to live in.
When selling the house at that time, Wang Yongfeng had promised that he would buy her a big house in the future and let her wait for him to return.
Tang Qianqian believed it to be true, just waiting for her boyfriend to buy a big house for herself, just in these 3 years, her boyfriend continued to borrow money from her, adding up to more than 370,000 before and after.
When her money was about spent, her boyfriend was gone.
Later, when we met again, she learned that her boyfriend had returned to the family and was a "good" husband.
When she went to theorize, her former gentle boyfriend gave her a big shot, grabbed her neckline and pushed her to the side of the bed.
Hurriedly pulled apart by the reporter of "Looking for Love", Wang Yongfeng denied the borrowed money, believing that there was no such thing, and wanted Tang Qianqian to come up with evidence.
Wang Yongfeng's wife also accused Tang Qianqian on the side, pestering her husband, for 3 years, she also went to the house to make trouble, sent text messages to herself, and forced herself to divorce.
Now that her husband has returned to the family, she does not want to pursue it, and does not want Tang Qianqian to bother again.
Tang Qianqian took a bunch of printed chat records and bills, but did not know how to be good? When the reporter gave advice and asked her to seek the law.
That night, Tang Qianqian was poisoned by gas and was rescued, she was extremely sad, and she did not have any expectations for her feelings.
I think I am most sorry for my daughter, I put all the money for my daughter into it, if I don't come back, how should they live in the future.
Tang Qianqian's relationship is to blame herself, to complain about others, knowing that the other party is a person with a family, but entangled for three years, can not see the reality, waiting for the other party to give themselves a stable life, for this time and again invested about 370,000 yuan.
The man turned and walked away, leaving only the woman to guard the empty house alone and sad, thinking that she was not only saddled with the name of "third party", but also put the money for her daughter into it, which was not worth it.
Women have experienced two marriages, and they should be more cautious about their feelings, knowing that Fanghua has passed away, leaving you little time to fall in love.
Don't think about interfering in other people's family life, you can wait for a happy and beautiful future, those are "sugar-coated shells", are all "bitter medicine" wrapped in honey.
40-year-old woman, to understand the rest of the day, you should most maintain that kind of emotion, no love can maintain family affection.
If you lose everything, your later life will be lonely and lonely.
The same is true of middle-aged men, who take on family responsibilities, don't always think about how fragrant the wildflowers are outside, and look back at the chaff wife who spent the hard days with you.
Don't wait for your wife to disperse and regret it, it's too late!