Extramarital affairs in the current society can not be prevented, the high divorce rate is also caused by extramarital affairs, of course, not all of them, so how to find extramarital affairs, how to face after the occurrence of extramarital affairs??
Once the extramarital affair is discovered, it is like a malignant tumor has entered an advanced stage, and it is difficult to find it in the early stage, because this underground affair is very well covered, and the reason why it is called an underground affair is this reason.
Not only that, after the occurrence of an extramarital affair, it is the people around them, that is, the husband or wife of the other party, who are angry and corrupt in the face of the confirmed extramarital affairs, and even get angry and do more extreme things.
First, I think we must first study how to detect an extramarital affair early, just like early detection of a cancer and malignant tumor.
1 Pay attention to his/her schedule, such as weekends and Friday nights when she must go out, then who will she meet?
Suppose there is no extramarital affair, your arrangement will be very ordinary, it is possible to bring your family on a tour or call a friend, assuming you have an extramarital affair, you think about it, who will you go to meet??
2 Often call the mysterious god, deliberately avoid you, this situation is not bad, after all, it has not been discovered, it is still in the underground part, and it has not been blatant.
However, some people seem to have normal interpersonal interactions, and there are too many cats, such as "Where have you been??" Answer: "I'm still on the bridge...", "Have you eaten??" Answer: "No." Too many cases, the underground situation can not be prevented.
3 Often not coming home on time, having fewer intercourse between couples, or starting to deliberately pick eggs and find stubble, these are all signals that you know and track him, and you need to know him well.
Second, how to face after discovering an extramarital affair, how to deal with yourself, how to solve the dilemma.
Once found is diagnosed, the diagnosis is basically advanced, because it is difficult to find the underground situation, and there is not enough evidence to defend yourself when you find catty.
1 Confirmed extramarital affair, look at the other party's attitude of admitting mistakes and future plans, if the other party has decided not to divorce with you, you are still struggling to stay, you are punching yourself in the face, no principle and no bottom line.
2 The other party still wants to continue to live, then depending on your attitude, can you still accept this woman? Do you still want to continue your life step by step?
I don't deny that some men and women are passive and weak in their relationships, so your consideration is clear about whether you can bear it when he is second and third and innumerable times.
Of course, you can give him a chance, but when there are countless phenomena in the future, you should think rationally for your own sake rather than being weak, and let others trample on you.
3 What should I do with my child? If you divorce, you want to make a lot of clear about such as property division and child support, divorce is a conflict of interests, people will use less and less emotional considerations, they will only stand in their own position more for their own welfare.
At this moment, there are still some fools in the relationship, repeatedly giving in to the sake of others, and as a result, the other party just divorced and started a new life with the house he was assigned.
4 Quarrels and physical conflicts are the lowest form of performance and struggle, and I changed him to the dual considerations of intelligence, emotional intelligence and iq.
Try not to solve everything by hand.