I am stopping, analyzing and interpreting various emotional stories.
The woman Wang Moumou and her husband have been married for 10 years and have 2 children. At the beginning, the union of the two people was opposed by the parents of both sides, but Wang Moumou wanted to marry her husband, forced to die, and finally walked together.
The two people have formed a family together and have 2 lovely children, which is supposed to cherish this hard-won marriage. However, after 10 years, the marriage has changed.
Wang Moumou has some abnormal behavior, her attitude towards her husband is becoming more and more bored, more and more indifferent, and refuses to make love to her husband. Such a change made the husband suspicious, and in order to find out the reason for the change in his wife, the husband began to pay attention to his wife's whereabouts.
After a period of investigation, the husband did find a problem, and Wang Moumou cheated. The wife's infidelity makes the husband both angry and heartbroken, but considering the feelings of 10 years together, considering the 2 children, the husband still intends to give his wife a chance. As long as she changes her mind and cuts off contact with her lover, her husband can not blame the past.
When her husband showed off with Wang, Wang was very panicked, she did not expect to be discovered by her husband, and she did not expect that her husband would be so calm. But when she learned that her husband was willing to forgive her and not pursue it any further, she was relieved. He swore to confess his mistake to her husband and promised never to contact her lover again.
Seeing Wang Moumou's sincere attitude, her husband thought that she was truly repentant, thought that she was only confused for a while to make mistakes, and now turned back to the shore. But what her husband did not expect was that Wang Moumou only admitted his mistake on the surface, and she did not intend to break off with her lover in her heart. Wang Moumou only temporarily less to meet with his lover, and to do more covert, in order to dispel her husband's suspicions.
After a period of time, the husband saw Wang Moumou's performance and thought that she really returned to the family, and the hanging heart was gradually put down. But just when her husband just wanted to live a down-to-earth life, Wang Moumou felt that he had gained her husband's trust, so he began to be arrogant with his lover again.
But if no one knows, unless he does nothing. Sure enough, Wang Moumou's behavior, after all, could not hide from her husband, and was once again discovered by her husband. This made her husband furious, and he couldn't believe that Wang Moumou would be ashamed to this extent.
Once again, it was found that Wang was cheating, and a fierce quarrel broke out between her husband and Wang. The first time it was discovered, Wang Moumou superficially admitted his mistake, but this time his attitude was fusion, not only did not admit his mistake, but instead put on an attitude of indifference, and proposed a divorce with her husband. What pained her husband the most was that Wang Moumou actually claimed in front of her husband that he only had a lover in his heart and did not love his husband at all.
Seeing Wang Moumou's attitude, her husband was disheartened and completely dead to her. In the end, the husband agreed to divorce Wang. After the divorce, Wang Moumou thought that he could live with his lover without scruples. But in fact, her lover was also married and had a family. Soon after Wang Moumou's divorce, the lover's wife discovered the matter between them.
The lover's wife is very strong and makes a particularly fierce noise, and the lover decisively severes the relationship with Wang Moumou in order to save his family. Wang Moumou was not willing to end up with such a result, and wanted to pestering his lover, but he did not expect that the lover turned his face and was ruthless, and even helped his wife to humiliate Wang Moumou together.
Only then did Wang begin to regret what she had done, but she had lost everything she had and could no longer get it.
When Wang Moumou first married her husband, she chose it herself, and it was she who overcame many obstacles and forced her to die to win. However, she did not cherish the marriage she had won so hard, and did not cherish the family she had worked so hard to run for ten years. In fact, after the cheating was discovered, she could still get forgiveness from her husband, who was willing to give her the opportunity to return to the family, which was a blessing for her. However, she did not appreciate her husband's good intentions at all, and did not seize this rare opportunity.
As Wang Moumou herself said, she said that she only had a lover in her heart, and she no longer loved her husband. Once she was forced to marry her husband with death, she no longer loved. When she said these words, her heart should have no longer had the word "responsibility", no responsibility for the family, no responsibility for marriage, no responsibility for children. Perhaps all she had in mind was the "love" she was after. For the sake of what she called love, she abandoned responsibility, she abandoned her fidelity to marriage, and she abandoned the moral bottom line.
But in reality, what she pursues is not love. She pursues disillusionment, freshness and excitement. She felt that this impulse of the fluctuating heart was love, but this impulse was frivolous, casual, and could not stand the test. So, she ended up being easily abandoned by her lover, just as she abandoned her husband and children. Such a result is very cruel to her, but it is difficult for outsiders to sympathize with her.