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Watched too many bad things, so today I want to share two heart-warming little stories, a foreign mother shared; the daughter came to menstrual leave for the first time, that day, the child drove home normally, did not know that he had come to the menstrual holiday, when he wanted to get off the car, a boy chased out, he looked slightly older than his daughter, after getting out of the car, he pulled his daughter aside and quietly told the child; your pants were dirty, and after saying that, he tied his sweater to his daughter's waist and said; so that you can walk home with peace of mind. The daughter was embarrassed at first and told the boy directly; no, but the boy insisted on doing so, and said to her; I also have a sister, and it doesn't matter. After the girl's mother knew about this, she sent it to the Internet for the first time, whether the boy's mother could see it or not, the mother wanted to say a word to the boy's mother; thank you, you educated her son very well.
And many people have left messages when they see this; I hope that my daughter can meet such a kind child.
On a certain subway, the child chewed snacks in his mouth, snuggled up to his mother, and tilted his head to listen to his mother tell a story, and the mother said slowly; child, there were three lambs on the subway, and later a big bad wolf came up, and now there are several sheep. When the child heard this, he lifted his small head and said confidently; none of them were eaten by the big bad wolf, and he said that he also dressed up a big bad wolf to eat sheep for his mother, no, there are still three sheep in the subway, because the subway does not allow food. When the son heard this, he silently put the snack in his hand into his backpack.
So although it is just an ordinary dress, a simple little story, it avoids the ugliness of a child, teaches the child to abide by the rules, thinks about others, and warms the hearts of this girl and many people who do not know each other.
Why teach children to be kind?
1. What you give back to the world, the world is what it is.
Many people will retort about kindness that the world is so cruel, kindness will only make you bruised, the so-called goodness of people is deceived, but the real kindness is not cowardice, not blind accommodation, not without principles and conditions to help others, but brave and sharp, selective, from the heart to care for others, so when you have warmth in your heart, the world will also be warm, what you give back to the world, the world will become what it becomes.
2. Kindness will make children discover the beauty of the world
Cultivating children's kindness is a course that every parent can not be absent, kind children can empathize, know how to share, love to help others, this is the quality that no matter which industry the child is engaged in in in the future, and good people get along, you can feel the warmth of the world at any time and be taken care of, not only the child will see a better world, people around will also feel the beauty of the world.
3, although kindness can not let the child go too fast, but can make the child go further.
The daughter ran to my side crying and crying, I asked the child what was wrong, the child said that the child in the same community snatched her toys to see if they liked it and lent them to play for a while, did not expect the child to directly not pay back, the daughter cried and asked me; Mom, why am I kind to others, others still bully me. I hugged my daughter who was crying red with her eyes and said; knowing how to share and to refuse are not the same thing, knowing how to share is that you are willing to share toys with others, rejection is that as long as you do not want to share, you can completely refuse legitimately, and kindness is from the heart, should not be forced by other thoughts to share, so follow the heart, your kindness is also conditional.
What is true kindness?
First, will be compassionate, know respect
Good people will be more likely to perceive the needs of others, when helping others, not only to feel the situation of others, know how to consider for others, but also pay attention to respect others. Don't give others the illusion that they can get something for nothing, but don't use the guise of help for your own benefit.
Second, it is always better to have good intentions than to have malicious intentions
Learning to listen and be appropriately silent is a compulsory course for everyone, because you can't empathize, so don't use the idea of "what you think" to easily evaluate others, do not maliciously speculate on others, do not manipulate right and wrong, do not wantonly insult, is the best kindness. 、
Third, we must not only think about others, but also learn to refuse to blindly give
Good people should learn to think about others, but it does not mean that because of kindness, they can blindly be asked, refuse all meaningless payments, and nothing will always be taken for granted, so kindness is not cowardice, but also have their own opinions and departures, but also to consider themselves.
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