At about 10 p.m. on April 17, a 17-year-old high school boy in Shanghai snatched the door from his mother's white car parked in the middle of the road and jumped off the Lupu Bridge in Shanghai.
120 confirmed to have died on the spot.
The mother failed to catch up with her son.
After the tragedy, she sat on the side of the road and pounded the ground and cried.
Many people noticed that before the son rushed out, the mother stood outside the car and talked to the son in the car.
Exactly what they said, we have no way of knowing.
But what is certain is that this is not worth a teenager protesting to the world at the cost of his life.
The video was exposed and sparked a wide range of discussions.
Some blame today's children for being too fragile, and some blame the parent-child relationship for going wrong.
More people, think of themselves.
Just like Mika Nakajima has a song called "Once I Thought About It A Hundred Times Too".
Growing up to this day, many people have had the idea of "dying" because of some big and small things.
Want to die
Not alive anymore
Can't stand it
……
It's hard to tell which one is a momentary complaint and which one is the last cry for help before despair.
What's more, everyone always habitually uses "it's all over", "it's good to get through", "This is not a thing" perfunctory past.
The "mental health" that can't be spied on from the outside, really, is too unappreciated.
At this time, Tangerine Zijun thought of the 19-year-old teenager Yang Fei.
Yang Fei has a violent tendency, everything can be moved never moved, after another conflict, classmates called the police, Yang Fei was sent to the hospital psychiatric department for treatment.
Doctors diagnosed him with strong behavioral problems and were likely to be under too much psychological stress.
Father Yang smiled indifferently after hearing it:
Who didn't grow up that way? The real grandfathers are all aggrieved.
The grievances in Father Yang's mouth are not a groundbreaking matter.
It is just that the father forced his son to learn piano, and the son did not take the exam and was beaten several times;
But I slept late the day before, almost missed the English test the next day, and was locked in the basement;
However, I can't go out at home and can only play games, and because of "game addiction", I was sent to the Internet addiction center...
What's wrong with that? Who hasn't been beaten up when they were kids?
Children do not fight or obey, hate or hate does not matter.
As long as the child has a future appearance, it will be OK...
What are the consequences of Father Yang's idea?
Yang Fei's temper exploded at one point, he had zero communication with his father, and the hope of living was to grow up and stay away from the family.
He felt that his appearance was a mistake.
Adler said: Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured of childhood all their lives.
We don't know if 19-year-old Yang Fei will be able to reconcile with his father in the future.
But Wang Linglong, who is in her 30s, has become a "madman" in everyone's eyes because of bipolar disorder.
Wang Linglong, who returned from studying abroad, started a business as a shared bicycle.
Now what kind of shared bicycles parked all over the city are, everyone knows, Wang Linglong's company is yellow, she is crazy.
In the eyes of outsiders, Wang Linglong's mother delivers food to her daughter every day and is a good mother.
In Wang Linglong's view, all her tragedies stem from her strong mother.
From childhood to adulthood, Wang Linglong lived in fear of her mother.
Her mother put too much pressure on her: from elementary school, her rest days were replaced by tutoring classes and interest classes, and corporal punishment was used for mistakes.
Wang Linglong wants to succeed in her dreams, so that her mother knows: You are wrong, if you don't follow your plan, I can live well.
Who knows, even when she was most successful in starting her business, her mother still poured cold water on her.
Wang Linglong's entrepreneurship failed.
Is this proof that the mother is right?
The breath that Wang Linglong had been holding in her heart suddenly dispersed, and her soul also dispersed.
Her husband is Wen Juan, a well-known entrepreneur, and in the eyes of outsiders, she is a happy mrs. Kuo.
Until one day, she was taken to the hospital for "falling down the stairs", and the bruises on her face showed that she was abused by the family.
Why not call the police? Why not get a divorce?
Because this society always says that "a slap does not make a sound".
Because her family advised her: You haven't come out to work in ten years, a woman, you can't survive.
What should Yang Fei, Wang Linglong, and Wen Juan do?
The new drama "Love You Heal Me" starring Dou Xiao and Miao Miao provides them with a solution.
It is recommended that Yang Fei and Yang Father carry out family therapy (a group psychotherapy model implemented for families), so that Yang Father can learn to listen and communicate, rather than unilateral preaching.
Telling Wang Linglong that even if she fails, it is nothing, which only proves that she is brave enough to try the life she wants.
Let Wen Juan understand that domestic violence is not the victim's fault, she deserves to be respected, and a person can live a good life.
In the past, everyone always complained that the theme of domestic dramas was limited.
When the Taiwan drama made a profound high-scoring drama "The Distance Between Us and Evil".
We are still in the domineering president and Xiao Baihua's "Yan is Justice".
Therefore, when Tangerine Zijun saw this tv series adapted from a real case and the first urban psychological healing theme in China, he couldn't wait to introduce it to everyone.
Even if it is not perfect, it is enough to make people happy about its appearance.
Scars on the flesh can be removed surgically.
Scars on the heart, but it is difficult to heal automatically over time.
At this moment, Tangerine Jun hopes that you can give this gentle story a chance.
Valuing mental health, being cured, and learning to heal others.
Last sentence
In the drama of reality, 100 episodes we are not too much.
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