US media: Chinese guys have been "coming out" for more than ten years and have been married in the United States and blessed by their mothers

Reference news network reported on June 29 that the US media said that from ignorant teenagers to their own company development careers, from encountering "marriage" forced marriage to "husband and husband with" with the other half, "coming out" more than ten years later, Xu Long, a Chinese who has established a family and established a business, has found the belonging and happiness of "comrades" on the other side of the ocean far from his hometown in China.

The US "World Journal" website reported on June 28, he said: "Don't let the opinion of outsiders sway your pursuit of happiness in life." ”

Born and raised in Chongqing, Xu Long and his mother are dependent on each other, although it is a single-parent family, but his mother's careful care and love make him feel that he is no different from other children who have lost his father since childhood, and this is also the reason why he knew that he liked boys at the age of 14 and 15, and chose to pluck up the courage to have a showdown with his mother when he was admitted to Tsinghua University.

He laughed and said that he took advantage of the admission to the Academy of Fine Arts of Tsinghua University to confess his comradehood to his mother, in addition to not wanting to continue to hide, he also hoped to get the understanding and blessing of his "most cared relative".

In 2013, Xu Long, who went to Parsons School of Design to continue studying fashion design, met his other half through the Internet, cinematographer Chow Kuan Yew, and after more than ten months of interaction, the two had a very stable relationship.

Xu Long said that before deciding to get married, he was actually facing the problem that THE OPT was about to expire in July, and it was time-consuming and laborious to handle O1 special talents, and he did not expect that his partner would say a romantic and unexpected "Let's get married" without flowers, and finally let the two enter the palace of marriage.

Xu Long said that although his partner is a Chinese who was born and raised in the United States, the two have similar interests and like-mindedness, and there is no romance like a fiery cooking oil, but the feelings are like a trickle. "Getting my mother's blessing is the most important thing for me!"

Xu Long's mother, who is still in China, has not yet met his other half, but his mother's ear on the eve of marriage commands him to "live a good life". "Mom said let's 'live well', and I can really feel her joy and excitement about me getting married and starting a family."

Xu Long, who has been working in the United States for many years, has also gained a lot in his career, and after graduation, he started a business with friends, and established the Gude Art Commune and the education company now renamed "Youru" in August last year to build a resource docking and development platform for students and young designers who aspire to further their studies in the art field.

He and his friends, who just finished their lecture tours in Chinese universities in May, planned to set up an office in China in the future, and then set up their own clothing design brand in the future, and continue to expand their career territory with what they learned.

Xu Long (right) and Zhou Guangyao are sweet. (Image source: World Journal website)