Gay out, is not a good choice?

At this stage, Gay's choice to come out is not a good choice, especially for married comrades. Coming out, whether divorced or not, cannot avoid obtaining spiritual relief from some aspect of yourself, and at the same time, it increases the social pressure and mental burden on the wife's side. As a result, the harm to the woman in reality is greater and more cruel than the flesh. If it is said that becoming Gay is irresistible, it is possible to come out publicly, but it can be avoided.

The reasons for BF's betrayal or breakup are very complicated, and the most critical factor may be the criteria for choosing a mate for their own friends, that is, the neglect of the original relationship. In this sense, all kinds of mistakes that occur in BF are self-inflicted. The distance between the landlord and BF is not only mental, but also the distance of actual life is ignored, which will also cause a diaphragm and bring the risk of breaking up. It's just that there is a lack of assessment in this regard.

Gay's personal feelings are not just personal in the process of making friends and establishing BF partnerships. In reality, there is no shortage of comrades who judge people by their appearance, and there is also a phenomenon of Xi Shi in the eyes of many lovers. Jin is not barefoot, no one is perfect, but Gay's choice of BF is not like this, often look at it and feel good, it is a good hundred good, what problems, can be endured, completely regardless of whether it touches their own bottom line and principles. The relationship that continues in this way will eventually reach the day when the risk will come, and the relationship can only be maintained until that day.

Gay's mate selection criteria, in addition to the same sex, in fact, the fundamental aspects, and mainstream society are not much different. What is also needed is to stimulate feelings, maintain relationships, develop relationships, develop feelings. This is closely related to a person's world view, and people's personality and interests. These are concrete, not empty, and not something that can be seen at a glance.

Understanding these basic principles also means knowing where your bottom line is, what kind of same-sex relationship to interact with and what relationship to develop.