Liu Fei, deputy director of the Mental Health Education and Counseling Center for College Students of Chang'an University and a national second-level psychological counselor, said that a crush on a person, in layman's terms, has a heart-warming feeling when meeting each other, and there is a stimulating experience when getting along with each other. The psychological experience of a crush on a person is often beautiful and sweet, and this emotional experience may even cause physical and physiological reactions, such as red face, hot ears, shortness of breath, incoherent speech, and disordered movements. So, what does a crush need to confess to the other person? Or have you always had a crush?
She analyzed that some people choose to enjoy this happiness alone in a silent crush. Maybe it's because of a lack of self-confidence, maybe it's because of the gap with the other party, maybe it's the fear of losing and the fear of expression, or maybe it's looking for the right time to express.
Most of them have a sensitive, depressive personality and a relatively quiet, introverted, clingy personality. Crushing a person can have both positive and negative effects; in order to successfully attract the other person's attention, this love will translate into a motivation that motivates them to overcome difficulties, overcome difficulties, and achieve impressive results in a certain field. And when you express love at this time, it is easier to succeed. However, sometimes there will be emotional uncontrollable, emotional instability, which will have an impact on both academics and careers. @Today's Headlines
A crush on someone can be a temporary passion or a long-term love; some people choose to tell each other, eager to develop this passion into love. Such people are often straightforward, concise and clear, and most of them have a bloody and irritable personality. In general, they can accept rejection and build relationships further. Their attitude towards things is often positive and optimistic.
Liu Fei said that the theory of love proposed by American psychologist Sternberg believes that love is composed of three basic components: passion, intimacy and commitment. Have a passion for liking each other, have the ability to develop passion into an intimate relationship? Can you make a lifelong emotional commitment with the other person? Passion begins, through the running-in of the relationship between the sexes, the establishment of emotional patterns suitable for both parties, and finally the commitment is reached, giving life nourishment, and guarding belonging. #Emotion#Emotion#Emotion Office