People living in this world will have weaknesses, and they will be troubled by the seven passions and six desires. Even the Tang Dynasty Saint Monk who was reincarnated by the Golden Cicada, when he saw the king of the daughter country with all kinds of charms, trembled his heartstrings and leached out hot beads of sweat. How can we get rid of the intrusion of the world?
We all want to succeed, but because of the weaknesses of human nature, the road to success is full of thorns.
Discovering my own weaknesses was also the original intention of my choice to read the book "The Weaknesses of Human Nature". But in fact, this book is more about some of the guidelines for communication and interaction between people. Through vivid stories, we should face up to some of the "weaknesses" in the nature that everyone has. With enthusiastic praise, understanding and communication, to adapt to the "weaknesses" of others, let yourself effectively solve the misunderstandings and estrangements of people-to-people interactions. Get family and career support. Because everyone has defects of one kind or another, only by being able to tolerate can we identify with each other.
This book tells us how to deal with interpersonal relationships in three major ways: how to make others like themselves, how to persuade others skillfully, and how to successfully lead others.
？ Carnegie said that "if you want others to like you, you have to be a friendly person" is simply put: smile + praise. Smile is the language of the whole world, and smile is a messenger of goodwill. So even if you are a cool beauty who is cold as frost, please try to leak out your white teeth, and you will find that it is not so difficult to get the likes of others. In addition to smiling, we should not skimp on our own praise. Although you may inadvertently forget a compliment for a while, the other person may still be savoring your language over and over again. It will also impress him with you.
。 In our daily lives, we often encounter scenes that need to convince others. To subtly persuade others, we must first make the other party feel that we are right or right, and then pass on our point of view. Remember not to argue too fiercely with the other party during the period, even if you win the argument in the end, the other party may not have a chance with you out of face or resistance to you. It's like being a virgin with us. Don't try to reason with your girlfriend, when you win the argument, she may also say goodbye to you. We have to take a step back and let go of our guard against you by letting go of our guard against you, and then we throw out our own opinions. Probably the effect will be much better. Be careful to put forward your own point of view, you are giving advice to the other person. Never make a decision for him.
？ Carnegie gave one such tip in "The Weakness of Human Nature": first show appreciation, then give advice. First of all, you must first affirm the good work of the other party, and then propose the places that the other party can correct, which will make it easier to accept. If you want to change the attitude and behavior of others, you must know how to appreciate others, give them praise and encouragement, and then let them do what you want them to do. Failure to do so may create resistance, which is counterproductive.
Overall, the book "The Weakness of Human Nature" is full of dry goods. The most important thing is that we dare to implement it in our daily lives. I believe that sooner or later we will achieve some kind of success.
Encourage with the King!