When they got married, many people expressed envy, men envied him, women envied her. After marriage, they often show their love on various occasions and are known as a model couple in the entertainment industry. 7 years later, their sudden divorce announcement stunned everyone, saying good love?
Two people who come together for love, even if the love fades with the passage of time, the affection should still be there, and there is no third party, what is the irreconcilable contradiction that causes them to have to divorce?
Heidi Krum, famous supermodel, the first Victoria's Secret Angel from Germany, one of the judges of "American Got Talent", actor, host. In 2011, she was ranked second on Forbes Magazine's list of the world's highest paid models.
Sil (stage name, meaning "seal" in English), a famous British singer, Nigerian and Brazilian mixed-race, all-round musical talent, lyrics and composition, singing excellent, global record sales of more than 20 million copies, the most widely recognized work is the movie "Batman Forever" episode "Kiss From a Rose".
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > love at first sight</h1>
In 2004, Heidi and Schill met in the lobby of a new York hotel when Sil was wearing cycling shorts and seemed to have just come out of the gym. At the first meeting, Heidi was attracted to Sil's masculin charm, "He was very handsome, he looked like a glorious statue, I was immediately attracted to him, and then we talked, and I thought, 'Wow, he's such a warm and charming man.'" ’”
He was equally impressed with her, "I was taken aback when I met her, she was one of the most beautiful women I've ever met. I thought, 'Wow! Whoever can fall in love with that girl is the lucky one! ”
"We are like two magnets (attracting each other)".
After a month of dating, Heidi told Schill that she had just broken up with her ex-boyfriend, who had cheated on her, and that she was pregnant with his child and was four months pregnant.
Sil told Heidi not to worry, he would take care of their mother and son. A few months later, Heidi's daughter Lenny was born, and Heidi was touched by the fact that Sil was as conscientious as a father and husband.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > romantic proposal</h1>
On December 23, 2004, Shill prepared a marriage proposal for Heidi. He built a makeshift igloo on a snow-capped mountain in Whistler, Canada's famous ski resort, and arrived on site with Heidi by helicopter. Heidi later said, "There are beds in the igloo, rose petals everywhere, and candles, very, very romantic!" There was also food and champagne and then the helicopter flew away, which was also a bit scary and you felt completely isolated. No trees, nothing. But I was ecstatic. ”
In May of the following year, Heidi, 32, and Schill, 42, were married on a beach in Mexico. Heidi wears a wedding dress designed by Vivi Wang and carries her and Siel's first child in her belly.
After marriage, Heidi changed to Sil's surname. In the 2005 Victoria's Secret show, the sweet duet and kiss between the two became one of the classic moments of the Victoria's Secret show.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > show love</h1>
In public, they go in pairs and grab the chance to sprinkle sugar at every interview.
Shill said he sees Heidi as best friend first and then as his wife, "There are things in your spouse that you take for granted, but in your best friend, you don't really take anything for granted." You never want to disappoint your best friend and always give respect to your best friend. That's why I see her as my best friend in the first place... Then there's my wife. ”
Heidi said Shill made her more stylish, "I've become more fashionable since I was with my husband." I always make fun of him for having so many leather coats, jackets and shoes, but he does look sexy. I wanted him to have face, so I raised my (fashion) standard a bit. ”
"When we were first married we would sing together, and I didn't sing very well, and he would stare at me when I sang wrong. I know he's laughing at me, but who cares? I'm not a singer and not everyone is Shill! ”
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > married once a year</h1>
During the seven years of marriage, they held a declaration of love ceremony every year to reaffirm the vows they took when they were married. Each year the oath ceremony has a different theme, one year the theme is white garbage, one year the theme is retro, and in the last year they have everyone dressed as bride and groom.
Heidi loved the ceremony, "It was a wonderful family time, a moment for us to deepen our love for each other, it was so special for us. Kids love it too, they see Mom and Dad in love and get married once a year! ’”
Sil agreed, saying, "Heidi and I get married once a year, it's a great party, and after an hour , we'll take the kids to a private beach where everyone sits together at sunset and she and I recite vows to each other." It was a very special moment for us. ”
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > a perfect marriage? </h1>
From a public perspective, Heidi and Shill's marriage was perfect. She has an angelic face and a devil figure, and is the dream lover in the minds of men. He was romantically thoughtful, and the women fell into his love songs. His appearance may not conform to the public aesthetic, but the lover's eyes are out of the west, and she looks handsome and charming. They also have four lively and lovely children.
Who says there is no real love in the entertainment industry?
On January 20, 2012, Shill sent a mysterious tweet with only one word — "end." Two days later, they issued a joint statement: "We have the deepest respect for each other, we continue to love each other very much, but we have been separated." ”
In April of the same year, Heidi filed for divorce, seeking primary custody of her children. The divorce procedure was finalized in October 2014.
Apparently, Heidi and Shill have been hiding problems in their marriage from the outside world, and the "seven-year itch" has also happened to them.
When the breakup was just announced, the two remained largely silent about the reason for the breakup. In an interview in March 2012, Heidi said she felt like she was in the "eye of a tornado" and that "I don't want to talk positively or negatively about the highs and lows of our relationship, where every couple goes through something." Unfortunately, our relationship is put in front of the public and people see the climax. For the sake of our children, I don't think it's necessary to publish the troughs for discussion. ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the root cause of divorce</h1>
People began to analyze the various signs before the two broke up, speculating about when their relationship began to break up.
Heidi later said there were two main reasons for divorce.
The first is to separate the two places for a long time. Sil often travels, performs, promotes, or attends parties, and Heidi takes care of the children alone, becoming a single mother in disguise. Heidi's career is on the rise, the work is also very busy, and she often needs to travel, and over time, their contradictions accumulate more and more.
The second reason is that Heidi was fed up with Shill's violent temper. People familiar with Sil knew he had a "volcanic temper" that was quite frightening once it erupted. Heidi said it affected the children. Shill's ex-girlfriend, Jana Pattitz, also broke the news that the reason she broke up with Sil in the first place was that he was irritable and irritable, "He's not a good person... Definitely not someone I would miss. ”
Sil doesn't admit to having a bad temper, he thinks the divorce was due to personality discord, Heidi is outgoing, and he's the opposite.
For the matter of getting married once a year, After the divorce, Sil revealed his true thoughts, "This is Heidi's idea, I think it's a bit like a circus (performance), I don't like it, especially the publicity that comes with it." I'm a very introvert and agree to do this just to make the kids happy. ”
Shortly after the breakup announcement, Heidi began dating her family bodyguard, Martin Christen. When Sil found out, he angrily complained to the media about Heidi's infidelity, "I don't expect [the bodyguards] to perform well... But I thought Heidi would behave more noblely, at least until the divorce was completed before fornicating with someone else. ”
Heidi responded: "I cherish all the great memories that Sil and I have created together over the years. The breakup was due to a problem between the two of us. Shill has left (the relationship) and I have left. My priority is always to protect and take care of the children. ”
Like ordinary divorced couples, they have their own reasons, and the beautiful love is consumed by the trivialities of life.
However, some media believe that the fundamental reason for Heidi and Shiller's divorce is the difference in ideology and ideology.
In October 2011, Sil performed at the birthday party of Ramzan Kadyrov, president of the Chechen Republic of Russia, and was paid $500,000. Because Ramzan is a controversial figure, Shill has been criticized by human rights groups and asked to apologize to fans and the people of the world. Schell declined to apologize, tweeting, "Don't tie me to politics. ”
Sources said the incident led to a heated argument between Sil and Heidi, and the Chechen performance became the trigger for the rupture of their relationship.
The root cause of Heidi and Shill's divorce, I tend to agree with the media. If a couple does not have three views, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. For cross-racial marriage, how to deal with differences in outlook on life, worldview and values is really no small challenge.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > later</h1>
After the divorce, Heidi's love life is still wonderful, after changing boyfriends, in 2019, she re-dressed in her wedding dress and married Tom Collets, who was 16 years younger than her. Tom Collitz is also German and plays guitarist for the band "Tokyo Hotel". His twin brother Bill Collitz is the lead singer of the band "Tokyo Hotel".
Heidi seemed satisfied with Tom, telling people, "I've finally found my partner." ”
Sil, who was single again, also had brief new relationships. He said he wasn't good at dealing with relationships, not just romantic ones but also with kids, "Dealing with relationships is a difficult thing to do, but I'm learning." ”
Shill learned about Heidi's remarriage from a journalist who asked him how he felt about it, and he said, "I don't know, I really don't have any comments." I'm not too interested in this topic. After a while, he added, "What am I going to say, what exactly do you want me to say?" I'm just as confused as you are. ”
There is no need to love someone, but there are a thousand reasons for not loving, and whether Shill is still unwilling or not, the page between him and Heidi has turned.
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