<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > introduction</h1>
When everyone is a nanny, they hope that they can meet a good employer, because only when they meet a good employer, the nanny will work hard and pay, and can do it for a long time.
But sometimes, not everyone is so lucky, some not only meet some harsh employers but also some faceless employers, whenever they meet these employers, they feel very painful, and they do not do it for a long time, because those employers feel that the nanny has to do things for themselves with money, but they do not know how much humiliation this behavior brings to the nanny.
Therefore, I hope that every employer will not go too far, although the nanny is not rich, but it should also respect others and give dignity to others, so that they can also enjoy the careful care of the nanny.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="30" mr. Yang >/49 years old</h1>
I'm 49 years old, my name is Yang, and when I was in junior high school, my mother died of cancer, and my father got sick because he couldn't accept the fact, and he was sick for decades.
At that time, I didn't know how to be good, because I was not yet an adult, and I couldn't go out to work, so at that time I was particularly troubled every day, and then in order to earn money to treat my father's illness, I dropped out of school and followed the people in the village to move bricks in the construction site, because I was not yet 18 years old at the time, and I was small, so I could only earn more than a hundred yuan a day, but I was also satisfied, and when I first got the money, I was particularly happy, because this was my first income since I was born, so I was very excited.
At that time, I did not use up the more than a hundred yuan, but saved it, because I knew that my father still needed a lot of money for medical treatment, so I did not dare to spend money, usually when I ate, I went to buy a dollar of steamed bread, basically did not eat any big fish and meat meals, so my life was particularly bitter, and the villagers who went with me felt that I was very sensible, and sometimes they looked at me pitifully, and they would invite me to dinner, so my villagers were very good to me.
Later, after turning 18, I changed jobs and went to work in a factory, although I had to work the night shift, but I didn't complain at all, I felt that as long as I could earn money, money would let me do anything, and when I worked on the construction site before, I also did a lot of hard work, so this work was nothing to me.
Although I could only earn more than a thousand at that time, it was enough for me, after all, I had no experience and no culture, and I was already very satisfied to be able to give me such a high salary, and at that time, when my father took medicine, it was not very expensive, so 1,000 yuan was completely enough to treat the disease.
But then as time went on, everything went up in price, but my salary didn't go up, and the salary of more than a thousand yuan a month was simply not enough to treat my father, and then I chose to work part-time after work, because only in this way could I earn more money.
But no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't make any money, because I had no culture, and I also regretted that I didn't read more books, and at that time I was forced to stop reading, if it wasn't for my father's illness, I wouldn't be so bitter.
At that time, my father also felt very guilty about me, thinking that he was bothering me, but I never said my father, because I have always been a very filial son, no matter what my father becomes, I will not abandon it, and I will find a way to give him a good life.
In the blink of an eye, I also reached the age of marriage, when my father kept arranging blind dates for me in order to let me find a partner, but after those women learned of my family conditions, they were unwilling to marry me, and they all felt that marrying me would suffer and raise a medicine jar.
When I heard them say this, I was very angry, but I had no right to blame them, because I was really poor, I couldn't give them a good life, they were looking for a partner originally to live a good life, if they married someone like me, it would definitely be very miserable, so they didn't want to marry me, and they understood, but when I heard them say this, I was not happy.
Later, after the blind date failed many times, I did not continue to go on a blind date, because I felt that no one would marry me, so I did not want to waste that time on the blind date, and with that time, I might as well earn money and treat my father.'
At that time, my father kept persuading me to let me think more about myself, but I didn't listen, I think a person is very good, looking for a partner may not be able to live happily, and even wronged my dad, because no woman can do it, take care of my dad every day, after a long time will definitely blame my dad, or scold my dad, I don't want to see this scene, so I think I can not look for it, anyway, I have been single for so many years, and I am used to it.
Gradually, I also got older, and also missed the best age to get married, and my father's health became worse and worse, every three to five to go to the hospital, the disease that was treated for so many years was not cured, and it led to more and more serious, and then the doctor asked for surgery, but the operation fee I could not afford at all, but did not do the operation for long, heard the doctor say so, I was particularly afraid, and then had to choose to go to the loan, after borrowing money, my father also successfully did the operation.
After my father recovered from his illness, I also returned to work, working hard every day to pay off my debts as soon as possible.
But just by relying on that little salary, it is not enough to the Year of the Monkey, but also to live expenses, in order to earn more money, I chose to resign to be a nanny, I heard a few years ago that the nanny salary is very high, so I also want to try it, although I am a man to do nanny is not very appropriate, but in my place, there is no inappropriate these three words, so no matter what, I have to do this job, even if I am ridiculed by the people around me, I don't care, because my main thing is to make money, It doesn't matter if the reputation is or not.
Later, I was hired by a 78-year-old lady, and when I learned that the object I was going to take care of was an old lady, I was a little reluctant in my heart, but I couldn't bear to refuse at the thought that this old lady had no beautiful women.
Then I chose to stay and take care of this old lady for a while, I found that this old lady was very easy to get along with, and he looked a bit like my mother, and every time I stayed with her, I felt that I was living with my mother, and that feeling made me feel particularly warm.
She is usually very kind to me, never treats me as an outsider, treats me as a son, respects me in everything she does, and does not make excessive demands like other employers, so this old lady is very nice and I am happy to take care of her.
Although I am her live-in nanny, only 7,000 yuan a month salary, but I did not say anything, because I know that this employer does not have much money, can give 7,000 yuan a month, it is already good, and he is usually good to me, from childhood lack of maternal love to me, whenever this old lady cares about me, greeting me, I am very happy in my heart, always feel that I am also a person with a mother.
So taking care of her, I don't regret it at all, but I feel that I am taking care of my mother, and she never defaults on my salary every month, and will send it to me on time.
Just because she usually knows how to consider my feelings, knows how to respect me, and is good to me, I will always stay, otherwise I would not take care of an old lady who is so low-paid every day.
Although I was often ridiculed by others after I became a nanny, I never minded and would not leave my employer's house so easily, and I would take care of her until she was old, so that I could complete my task.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > concluding remarks</h1>
Therefore, I hope that every employer will treat the nanny like this, so that the nanny will take care of the employer without abandonment, and the employer will no longer have to worry about the future days will be lonely, let alone worry about no one to take care of it carefully, so it is really important to compare the heart to the heart.