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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > introduction</h1>
People with good living conditions usually do not treat themselves badly, and the elderly ask a nanny to take care of themselves and enjoy life when they are old. 50-year-old brother Li is a male nanny, who expected that the female employer actually had a good feeling for himself, the principled and bottom line of the big brother Li rejected the female employer's confession: you don't make yourself sentimental, I am a serious person.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" >meme: Big Brother Li</h1>
I have been working as a live-in nanny for five years, and now most of the people who do nannies are women, few men are willing to be nannies, if men do nannies, they will be looked at differently by others, even my family does not understand me, think I humiliate them. I don't think there is a distinction between high and low in work, as long as I can earn money, I will do my duty.
However, my recent employer has caused me a lot of grievances in this job. I used to take care of an uncle, and after my uncle died, I went to work at my new employer's house. The new employer is Aunt Wen, a 60-year-old man. Her son was busy at work and didn't have time to take care of her, so he found her a babysitter. I saw that Aunt Wen lived alone, and it was quite pitiful that her family was not around, so I treated her as good as family.
I often listen to Aunt Wen talk about how lonely she can't be with her son, and her wife is gone again, leaving her very desolate. I can understand Aunt Wen's feelings, my wife has passed away, and I miss her very much. Every time I see Aunt Wen in a low mood, I will enlighten her. Her mood also slowly improved, and she talked to me about everything.
Aunt Wen has old cold legs and needs to use Chinese herbs to soak her feet, and I will help her soak her feet before she goes to bed. Aunt Wen likes to go square dancing, but she is afraid of the dark when she goes out at night, so I will go with her, just go out to breathe. As we went, our relationship wasn't as rusty as it had been in the beginning. I didn't think too much about it, I just thought she was my employer, and it was right to have a good relationship, and to be able to get a raise if she behaved better.
I just didn't expect that Aunt Wen thought of my kindness to her as my liking for her. She asked me to be with her, and if I wanted to, I would only give me a lot more money in the future. When I listened, I always felt that something was weird. She wanted to use the money to let me be with her, and I instantly felt insulted and immediately rejected her, "Don't be sentimental, I'm a serious person." ”
Aunt Wen was annoyed by my refusal, and said that I was a fake, that time it was just on the way home from the dance, we quarreled and broke up, I ran outside to drink some beer. When I got home, I found that the door couldn't be opened. This must have been a good thing that Aunt Wen did, that is, to leave me with no place to sleep. In desperation, I had to pay for a night in the hotel.
The next day I went back, Aunt Wen's son had arrived, and he scolded me indiscriminately. It turned out that Aunt Wen told him that I liked Aunt Wen, and after her refusal, I still wanted to take advantage of her. I really didn't expect that Aunt Wen would actually beat a rake upside down, her kung fu of lying was really high, and her son believed in her and wronged me.
There is such an employer, I don't want to continue to work anymore, I offered to resign, but then Aunt Wen came forward to keep it, saying that this matter is negotiable, as long as I apologize she can forgive me. A woman like her, who has a deep heart, I am afraid that I will be planted in her hands sooner or later, so I still leave.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > conclusion</h1>
Netizens, do you think that Brother Li's resignation is a clear choice?