<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > introduction</h1>
With the development of society, the nanny industry is also developing rapidly. Now that life is better, many people are not willing to do their own housework, for young people, as long as they spend some money, they can worry less about it, so why not enjoy it? In addition to doing housework, some nannies are also responsible for taking care of the elderly, because after age, the action must be somewhat inconvenient, and people cannot often leave around, so the existence of nannies can solve these problems.
Now many men are willing to become male nannies because male nannies are well paid and more competitive than female nannies. The 49-year-old Uncle Gao chose to be a male nanny for others, and Uncle Gao poured out: "My current employer is too difficult to serve, even if the salary is increased to 10,000 yuan, I am not willing to do it, because it is too undignified." "What kind of employer did Uncle Gao meet?" Let's hear his story together.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" >meme: Uncle Gao</h1>
I am 49 years old this year, my wife and I were introduced to each other, I met her twice before we got married, we both ran to live a good life, so after getting married we went out to work together. At that time, when I was working at the construction site, my wife also followed me to do small work, I was really distressed, I kept asking my wife to go back, but my wife said she wanted to share it with me.
We have two sons and a daughter in total, and the cost of studying together with three children is not small, so it is not okay not to work hard. But then I quit my job from the construction site and now I've been working as a male nanny. Working on the construction site is highly paid, but it is too hard, every day is against the sun, and often overtime. Several times I had heat stroke, and I felt that I couldn't hold on to my body after sitting for a long time, so I planned to be a male nanny.
In the past, I could earn 400 yuan a day working on the construction site, and I took two days off every month, and I could probably earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. There are fewer male nannies, but there are also seven or eight thousand, and I am satisfied. When I first started working as a male nanny, I was worried because I was worried that my employer would not want to hire a male nanny, but after contacting me, I realized that male nannies in the market were very popular.
Generally, families that hire male nannies, the family is full of elderly people with mobility problems, and specially invite male nannies to go back to take care of them. Because the female nanny's strength is not enough, there is no way to take good care of the elderly. In fact, taking care of the elderly is really tired, many old people are not very good temper, when they are not happy, they will scold me, but I can not be too calculating, can endure. Later, I also learned how to get along with my employer, and basically I would not have conflicts with my employer.
But there was an employer who really put me up and quit after a few months at his house. The employer was a 72-year-old aunt surnamed Lin, who was an elderly man living alone. Although she has children and daughters, her daughter marries farther away, because the son-in-law's family is not in good economic conditions, and her daughter does not have the money to come back to see her often. Although the son had a good life, he was a strict wife and listened to his wife.
And Aunt Lin's daughter-in-law has a very bad relationship with Aunt Lin, because when the daughter-in-law first married, Aunt Lin often bullied her daughter-in-law, so after Aunt Lin's old age, her daughter-in-law was not willing to take care of her. Every time Aunt Lin's son came back to visit her, her daughter-in-law was reluctant to come back, and aunt Lin's son was not allowed to come back too often.
Fortunately, Aunt Lin is richer, otherwise she really didn't know how to spend her old age. Aunt Lin has one leg that can't be moved, so she needs to ask a babysitter to take care of it. At the beginning, she offered me a salary of 7,000 yuan per month, in fact, I felt a little low, before I also took care of an elderly person with limited mobility, the other party offered me a salary of 8,000 yuan.
But for Aunt Lin's sake, I still agreed to be a nanny for her. I worked very hard at Aunt Lin's house and took great care of Aunt Lin, and I thought I could get Aunt Lin's gratitude, but it turned out that I was whimsical.
Aunt Lin's mouth is very poisonous, as long as someone provokes her to be unhappy, she will definitely scold others. And when she was in a bad mood, she would also scold people, and during the Dragon Boat Festival, the neighbor's children all went home to visit the neighbors, but Aunt Lin's children did not come back. Therefore, Aunt Lin was not happy, scolded her own children, and even talked about me. I was really wronged.
Because Aunt Lin's legs and feet are inconvenient, I am responsible for buying vegetables at home. Every time I have to go to the supermarket to buy vegetables, because Aunt Lin asked me to report to her, how much money everything costs, let me remember clearly, otherwise she will not reimburse me. Once there was no beef in the supermarket, so I went to the wet market and bought it. Because Aunt Lin said she wanted to eat tomato goulash, I bought a pound back.
At that time, people didn't have a receipt for me, but I felt that I paid by mobile phone, and there was a record on it, so I could just go back and show it to Aunt Lin. But Aunt Lin was reluctant to reimburse me, she said I lied to her, no matter how I explained, she was not willing to give me the money. So I lost dozens of dollars, and since then, I have never dared to go to the market to buy vegetables.
Although being a live-in nanny is a package of food and shelter, I live in Aunt Lin's house very depressed. The room I stayed in was converted from a study, so it was smaller and more critically, there were no windows. So sitting in it is very depressing, in fact, Aunt Lin still has two rooms, but she just doesn't want me to live. He also said that I would dirty her house, but when I heard her say this, my heart really hurt. But because she was my employer, I didn't say anything either.
And when eating, Aunt Lin did not allow me to eat with her, I had to wait for her to finish eating before I could eat, and I had to cook it myself, even if Aunt Lin couldn't finish those meals, she wouldn't give me food. Because she said her ingredients were expensive, I didn't deserve to eat such a good thing. So every time I waited for her to finish eating, I cooked it myself.
This year's Mid-Autumn Festival, her daughter came back to visit her, and Aunt Lin cried and complained as soon as she saw her, saying that I was not good to her, often bullied her, and said that she would let her daughter take her to live with her. When I heard it, my whole body was stunned, and I treated her with my heart and lungs, but she smeared me in front of my daughter.
Aunt Lin's daughter was also a quick temper, and after listening to Aunt Lin's words, she scolded me. The conversation was so fast that I didn't even have a chance to interject. After she vented, she made a phone call to my company to complain about me, and the company quickly contacted me after receiving the complaint, and later I had a hard time explaining it.
After this incident, I did not want to be a nanny at Aunt Lin's house, because working in their home was too undignified. Since these days, I have lived a very depressed life every day, and the salary is not very high, I really do not want to be angry with this anymore, even if I am added to ten thousand wages, I am not willing to serve her. So I resigned from Aunt Lin's house that day.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="25" > written at the end</h1>
Aunt Lin felt that she could do whatever she wanted with her money, and she did not respect Uncle Gao at all, and in the end, Uncle Gao could not bear to choose to leave. As an employer, you must respect the nanny, do not feel that you have spent money to be superior, the employer and the nanny are equal, as long as the employer respects the nanny, then the nanny will also take care of the employer carefully.