<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > introduction</h1>
Now many young people are very busy at work, and many elderly people are not willing to trouble their children, they will solve the pension matters by themselves. If the health is getting worse and worse, the elderly will choose to ask a nanny for the elderly. By taking care of their own lives, the elderly can better enjoy their old age.
Most of the nannies in the market are female nannies, and many men are reluctant to be nannies, because in the eyes of most men, it is still very humiliating for men to be nannies. But there are some jobs that have to be done by men, and it is precisely because of this situation that male nannies are paid very high in the market. Many people can afford to hire a babysitter, but they can't find a male babysitter.
The 76-year-old Uncle Shao had a hard time getting a male nanny, and it wasn't long before Uncle Shao angrily drove the male nanny away. What's going on here? Next, let's take a look at uncle Shao's story.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" >meme: Uncle Shao</h1>
I am 76 years old, A technician before I retired, and now I can get more than 5,000 pensions every month. My wife and I raised a son and a daughter, and when they were born, my wife and I paid special attention to the education of our children.
We often lead by example and set a good example for our children, after all, parents are the first teachers of their children, and if they want their children to be excellent, then parents must give their children good guidance. Thanks to the efforts of our husband and wife, both children are particularly sensible, and they know how to understand their parents at a young age.
And both of them had good academic performance, and both were admitted to college. At that time, it was very difficult to get into college, so children have always been my pride. Now the daughter is a university professor, and the son-in-law is also from the same unit, and their life is harmonious and beautiful. Because the son-in-law's parents died in the early years, so they bought the house near my house after they got married, and usually came back to eat when they had time, although the daughter was married, but it was the same as before marriage, and I could still see her when I wanted to see her.
When my son first graduated, he worked in a public institution, which was a very good job at that time, and there was still room for development. I often show off to others that my son is very successful, but my son, who has not been a few years old, secretly resigned and went to do business, and if my wife had not stopped me, I might have beaten him up. After all, his job at that time was the iron rice bowl in our mouth, as long as there is no mistake, then the days after that will not be bad, and there will be pensions after retirement.
And doing business has no guarantee at all, and if it fails one day, it is likely that even the place where you live will be compensated. But it was useless for me to get angry again, because my sons had already resigned, and I couldn't change anything at all. Because of his inexperience, his son lost a lot of money at the beginning, and his daughter-in-law wanted to divorce him at that time.
I couldn't help but die, and in the end I lent my son a sum of money. My son also used that money to make a career, and now his company is doing well, with a lot of income every year, and he has bought several apartments in our local city. I also completely let go of my original prejudices.
My wife and I didn't have anything to do after we retired, and we were idle at home every day. The two of us were going to see our children, but they both had a nanny at home, so they didn't need either of us. So our old couple had to give up on this idea, but it was boring to stay at home. We joined an old people's club and life was finally not boring anymore.
Two years ago, my wife left because of an accident, I was not in good health, and I suffered a stroke after being stimulated by this. But after the treatment, I wasn't paralyzed. However, the doctor told me to take good care of my body in the future, to maintain a good mood at all times, and if I had a stroke again, it was likely that I would really be paralyzed.
I was so scared to hear the doctor say this, I couldn't imagine the days when I had to lie in bed every day. I have been paying close attention to my body since I went back, but after half a year I still had another stroke, and this stroke caused me to be paralyzed in the lower half of my body, and I could not take care of myself anymore.
After learning this news, I cried on the spot, and I really couldn't lift my spirits in those days, and I felt very uncomfortable at the thought of having to be taken care of by someone to eat and drink Lasa. I feel that it is too sinful to live like this, and it is better to leave this world early. Maybe the children also saw my thoughts, and every day they would go home to live with me and have been persuading me.
Later I also slowly accepted the fact that I didn't want to be a coward. Because I couldn't take care of myself, my son hired a female nanny to take care of me, the nanny was very good, and the work was particularly responsible. But the strength is too small, and I am tall and not light, so the nanny is particularly difficult to take care of.
Later, the nanny felt that she was not up to the job and proposed to me to leave. I also felt that she really wasn't that suitable, so I agreed. My son wants to hire me a male nanny, because the male nanny has a great advantage over the female nanny, the strength will be greater, and there will be no problem in taking care of me. However, the male nanny is very difficult to find, and the son and daughter have not found it for several days. Later, there was no way but to continue to choose to hire a female nanny, the newly hired female nanny was called Xiaoli, the strength was a little bigger, in order to let her sit longer, I also let my son give her a relatively high salary.
Once I fell out of bed because of her, when Xiaoli tried to help me up, but in the end she did not grasp it, so I fell down, fortunately there was a carpet on the floor, otherwise my old bones would be broken. After this incident, the son really did not dare to hire a female nanny again.
He dismissed Xiaoli and spent a lot of money to find a male nanny. Later, the son offered a salary of 10,000 a month to the male nanny, which was indeed quite a lot, and the previous female nannies were about seven or eight thousand. But after all, I can't move, and the female nanny can't take care of me well, so she can only pay this money.
The male nanny was named Xiao He, a 48-year-old man with my son a meter eight, but he stood next to my son, half a head taller than my son. And the man is very strong, looks very strong, I have a lot of confidence in Xiao He, I think he can definitely take care of me. At first, Xiao He's performance was also particularly good, and he took good care of me.
However, since Xiao He knew that I had hired two female nannies before to take good care of my affairs, Xiao He's attitude towards me had changed, and he felt that I could not lack him at home, so I had no fear. In the past, he would make me three meals a day on time every day, but now it is always a long time before I can eat.
I have to lie in bed every day, plus the old man's body will have some bad smell, so I will take a bath once a day, and xiao He will help every time. Later, Xiao He always asked me to wash it every few days, and he said that I was not dirty in bed all day, and there was no need to wash so much.
I never told my son about these things, because he had a hard time getting me a male nanny, and I didn't want to cause trouble for my son. After Xiao He saw that I didn't care, it became more and more excessive. Often steal my things, my son and daughter often buy me a lot of food, I can't eat alone, Xiao He secretly took it back to his own home, which I found out later.
One night I woke up from thirst, and I tried to reach for water from the bedside table, but I accidentally fell down again. At that time, I immediately called out to Xiao He and wanted him to come and help me. After calling for a long time, Xiao He did not respond, but at that time I obviously heard music coming from his room.
I lay on the floor that night, fortunately it wasn't cold yet, and suddenly I didn't really know what was going on. I thought xiao he would come over after dawn, but I waited for a long time and didn't see anyone. Later, my daughter came to see me, which helped me up. The daughter knew the ins and outs of the matter and was so angry that she called her son over.
I lay on the floor for so long and was in a bad mood, I really couldn't bear it anymore, Xiao He was simply too much. A few of us waited for more than half an hour, and Xiao He came back from outside slowly bringing breakfast. Seeing that my children were all at home, he immediately changed into a different person. All the while booing and asking for warmth to them, I directly interrupted Xiao He.
Tell him that I am going to dismiss him, Xiao He panicked when he heard it. He kept begging me not to dismiss him, and said that he would behave well in the future, and he knelt down as he spoke. Seeing Xiao He like this, I said angrily: "Why did I know this in the first place, I used to be so good to you, but you didn't know how to cherish it, and now it's too late to know your mistakes." Saying that I will not let you serve again, I have lived too much in these days. ”
Later, I asked my children to drive Xiao He away, and I also complained to his housekeeping company, after all, he was too irresponsible, if he just let him go, it would definitely hurt the next employer.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > written at the end</h1>
As a nanny, we must do our job well, we take the employer's money, we should serve the employer well. It is our honor to meet a well-meaning employer, and we should cherish it and not take the employer's kindness to us for granted, otherwise we will definitely lose our job.