preface:
Nowadays, the aging of the mainland population is becoming more and more serious, many young people are only children, a couple has to support four elderly people, the pressure of life is very large, and there is not so much energy to personally take care of the elderly.
In order to reduce the burden on their children, some elderly people will ask a nanny to take care of their lives. The profession of nanny is convenient for many families, and many elderly people have been well taken care of. Although there are more and more nannies today, it is not easy to find a suitable nanny. Let's take a look at Aunt Kim's experience!
Aunt Kim, 65, said of herself:
When it comes to asking for a babysitter, I feel very angry, some time ago I hired a male nanny for myself, but the male nanny did things that I couldn't accept, I think the male nanny is too selfish, there is only money in my eyes, so I dismissed him later, and I will tell you about the incident.
My wife and I used to work in state-owned enterprises, and we are both leaders, so our pension is very high, the pension of the two people is almost 20,000 yuan, our children are also very productive, they all have good jobs, but they are all working in the field, not with us, we are also very supportive of them, think that young people should work outside, we can take care of ourselves, big deal to ask for a nanny.
At the beginning, my wife and I can still take care of ourselves, and then I am getting older, I can't take care of myself, and my children also call us to live with them in the past, but we both don't want to go over, we don't like life in big cities, we think life in big cities is very depressing, so later we hired a babysitter for ourselves, we invited a 45-year-old man to be a babysitter for us, at the beginning, my wife and I liked the male nanny, because the male nanny's emotional intelligence is very high, it will coax the two of us to be very happy, And his hands and feet are very sharp, doing housework is very sharp, clean up the house, he will also make good meals, we think he is very good, think he is better than the female nanny, so I and my wife are also very good to her, at the beginning, we gave him a salary of 8000, and then felt that he did a good job, and added more than 1000 wages to him, he has a salary of 9000 a month, this salary is really very high, now the white-collar salary is only five or six thousand, his salary is already higher than the white-collar.
My wife and I are very kind people, we have always felt that people's hearts are long, think that we are good to others, others will be good to us, but later found wrong, although we have been very good to the nanny, but the nanny is insatiable, he actually secretly took our things, at the beginning, we did not find, after a period of time, I and my wife felt very strange, because those valuable things disappeared, so they secretly installed monitoring at home, and later found that it was the nanny who took it. When my wife and I learned about this, I felt very angry, we had been so good to the nanny, but the nanny did such a thing, so we fired the nanny, at that time the nanny kept begging us, hoping that we would keep him, but my wife and I's heart has been broken, there is no way to forgive him, so we can only let him leave.
Author's Point of View:
In fact, as a nanny, with a certain remuneration, work hard, abide by their duties on the line, do not worry about the employer's other property, do not have a crooked idea of things that do not belong to them, will only lift the stone to drop their feet.
As a human being, we must remember that everything is worthy of our conscience, and we must also remember that the human heart is not enough for the snake to swallow the elephant.