preface:
When people have money, they all want to free their hands and time, even asking nannies to do housework, and the elderly and children are also taken care of by nannies. The increasing demand for nannies in families has also made the housekeeping industry more and more popular, because they earn more money, and some men have also put down their faces to become male nannies. A 59-year-old woman actually ordered her male nanny to help her beat her back, and the male nanny behind her was unhappy and said to the woman that I am not your husband. Let's take a look!
Aunt Zhang is a relatively strong woman, may also be related to her growing environment, Aunt Zhang was born in the countryside, she is the eldest child in the family, at that time because the family is poor, so it is always looked down upon by the people in the village, younger siblings are often bullied, Aunt Zhang in order to protect her younger siblings, so she became strong.
Later Aunt Zhang grew up, after growing up Aunt Zhang came out of the woods, at that time there were many people to come to kiss, but Aunt Zhang did not look at anyone, Aunt Zhang did not want to be a farmer, those who came to the door to say relatives, are nearby farmers, if you marry them, you have to continue to be a farmer. So Aunt Zhang went out to work, and Aunt Zhang felt that going out to work could meet the kind of rich man and then live the life of a rich man.
Aunt Zhang, who worked outside, knew her husband, her husband was the owner of a small factory, it was relatively rich, Aunt Zhang and her husband married and lived the life of a rich wife, at that time, Aunt Zhang's parents also felt particularly faceless, did not expect their daughter to be so powerful.
Aunt Zhang's husband is also a very careful man, although he married Aunt Zhang, but still all day outside the flowers and grass, because he can earn money, so Aunt Zhang did not dare to say him, if he said, he would lose his temper with Aunt Zhang, at that time Aunt Zhang's life was also very wronged, but there was no way, behind Aunt Zhang's husband because of drunk driving, and then there was a car accident, and then died, after Aunt Zhang's husband died, Aunt Zhang helped her husband run the factory, at the beginning Because Aunt Zhang does not know how to operate, so she is often bullied by some old employees, and then Aunt Zhang slowly groped for the doorway, and the factory is running better and better by her, and it can even be said that it is better than her husband.
After Aunt Zhang got rich, she took her parents over to live together, at that time, Aunt Zhang's parents were more than 70 years old, and then Aunt Zhang wanted to ask a nanny to take care of her parents, Aunt Zhang's parents did not remember very well, always forgot to take medicine, Aunt Zhang was very worried about this matter, felt that there was a nanny, she would be at ease a lot, so Aunt Zhang communicated with her parents, and then agreed that it was better to ask a nanny, and finally a male nanny, because the male nanny had greater strength and could carry her parents upstairs and the like Later, Aunt Zhang went to the home economics center to register the information, and successfully found a male nanny.
After the male nanny came to Aunt Zhang's house as a nanny, Aunt Zhang paid the nanny 8,000 yuan per month, and the nanny's job was to take care of their family. At the beginning, Aunt Zhang was very satisfied with the male nanny, and felt that the male nanny had a good temperament and was also diligent, letting the male nanny take care of her parents, and Aunt Zhang felt very relieved.
One day, Aunt Zhang came back from overtime, it was already 12 o'clock in the evening, Aunt Zhang let the nanny help herself to warm up the meal, after eating, Aunt Zhang also let the nanny help her beat her back, Aunt Zhang felt that this was a very normal thing, but the male nanny replied no, the male nanny also stressed that because he was not Aunt Zhang's husband, so he could not help Aunt Zhang beat his back, because of this matter, Aunt Zhang was very angry, felt that he had spent so much money, and finally the nanny was not willing to help him beat his back, So Aunt Zhang told the nanny that this is your responsibility, and the male nanny helped Aunt Zhang beat her back, but it was a very reluctant pat.
Author's Point of View:
Everyone has their own principles, and we can't impose our own ideas on others, and we can't force them if they don't want to do something. Employers and nannies also need to communicate well, don't feel that they can do whatever they want with money, and let others do what others do. Employers are people, nannies are also people, everyone has their own principles and dignity, learn to respect each other, this partnership can be more lasting. Aunt Zhang is because she does not respect the male employer, and her approach hurts the self-esteem of the male employer, so it leads to unpleasant consequences.