<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="37" > preface</h1>
The hardships of the nanny industry are unknown to outsiders, and only those who have actually worked in the nanny industry can understand the cost of becoming a nanny.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" >meme: Mr. Yan, 51 years old</h1>
I am 51 years old, I have a happy family, but now my family is facing a financial crisis, some time ago my son who graduated from college for two years came home with his daughter-in-law, my wife and I are very satisfied with the daughter-in-law, but the daughter-in-law has made a condition that we are difficult to agree to, she asked our family to pay a down payment in the city, and said very bluntly: if there is no house, she will not marry my son, but our ordinary working family does not have this money at all.
Of course, later the daughter-in-law made a step backwards under the persuasion of my son, the daughter-in-law finally gave us 3 years to make money, and told us that this is her family's request, she had no way to refuse, saw the daughter-in-law made a step back, our family of three also understood the importance of this matter, but also knew that the daughter-in-law really wanted to marry us, after all, this is her family to get the request, and we can also understand the reason for his family to make this request, so my wife and I also put down the farm work in the family. Choose to go to the city to work hard.
After we negotiated with the daughter-in-law, my wife and I also went to the city, thinking of finding a livelihood to earn some money to buy a house for my son to marry, although my wife's age is about the same age as me, but her body is relatively weak and can not do too heavy work, and then I and my wife found a job as a restaurant waiter, I can get 3,000 yuan a month, but after I worked as a waiter in a restaurant with her for a few months, my wife's body was a bit unbearable, and there was no way for me to send my wife home.
After sending my wife home, I can only carry the big responsibility of buying a house and marrying a wife on my own, I am a waiter in the restaurant, while entrusting relatives and friends outside to help me find a high-paying job without threshold, I know that such a job is difficult to find, but I still want to hold the last glimmer of hope, after all, if according to the current salary of 3,000 yuan, I can't save the down payment for the house in three years, but the emperor pays off on my persistence and efforts, and finally found a high-paying job without threshold.
This job is a nanny, I know that as a man to be a nanny to bear a lot of criticism, and may even be discussed behind the scenes of others, but for the sake of my son's marriage I have not been able to take care of so much, I got noticed, I resigned from the restaurant, after resigning from the restaurant I went to participate in the nanny's pre-job training, after a month of training, I became a formal nanny, with the help of the housekeeping company, I successfully found my first employer.
The nanny I did was not an ordinary nanny but a live-in nanny, so when I talked to my employer about wages, the employer directly gave me a monthly salary of 8500 yuan, I heard this number when I directly wanted to jump up, so my next negotiations with the employer were very smooth, after everything was discussed properly, I packed my bags and came to the employer's home, the employer's surname Li is an elderly single old man, Uncle Li lost his wife in his early years, and the children are difficult to come back to take care of him.
In addition, Uncle Li is still a disabled person, life is not able to take care of himself at all, if it were not for the fact that his children spent money to help him get a nanny, it is estimated that Uncle Li himself even had a problem eating; when I came to Uncle Li's house on the first day, I cleaned the house according to the knowledge and skills taught during the training period, and took care of Uncle Li's three meals a day, the rest is nothing, after all, Uncle Li's body is not convenient to travel, so basically staying at home is my own to take him out.
But there is a very important problem, Uncle Li lives in this house does not have an elevator, and Uncle Li lives on the highest 12th floor, every time I want to take Uncle Li out for a walk is a very difficult thing, I hold Uncle Li's wheelchair in one hand, the other hand tightly stabilizes Uncle Li on the back, although I am a rural hard worker, but such high-intensity exercise I still have some food, if only these are counted, after all, taking care of the employer is my job duty.
But Uncle Li this person does not know what is going on, every day let me move the fish tank in his house to the roof, but also said that this is his wife's life like goldfish, to let them see the sun more to be able to grow better, if it is a small fish tank, then I have no opinion at all, but the fish tank in Uncle Li's house I have two hands open to barely hold over, I can hold the fish tank has been very reluctant, not to mention That Uncle Li also let me move the fish tank to the roof by myself.
And he did not let me move every once in a while, but he got up in the morning and let me move up after breakfast, and let me move down at 6 o'clock in the afternoon, although it was said that when I moved, I would let go of some water, but this weight still made me very overwhelmed, for Uncle Li's behavior I chose to endure at the beginning, after all, I am now very short of money, but when I worked in Uncle Li's house for more than 1 year, Uncle Li became more and more excessive, and he lost his temper with me every day.
Every time I obviously didn't do anything, but Uncle Li scolded me for no reason, making me feel particularly wronged, and I was particularly hard every day, and I had to suffer from Uncle Li's blame, which made me have more than once have the idea of leaving, but I thought of my wife in my family, and my son who was waiting for money to buy a wedding house to get married, I gritted my teeth and persevered, although the salary in Uncle Li's family was very high, and I earned a lot of money, but I was very miserable every day.
Later, I endured humiliation and burden in Uncle Li's house for three years, plus the income of my son and wife over the years, and borrowed a little money from relatives and friends, we finally bought a marriage house to help my son get married, from then on, I immediately resigned from Uncle Li's family, and then I changed an employer to continue working, after all, I lost the down payment of the house, and I also needed to slowly change the loan, and I also had a certain proficiency in the job of nanny, so I continued to work.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="55" > Conclusion:</h1>
The nanny is also a person with basic human rights, regardless of the status of the position, and should also receive basic care and respect.