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Before seeing the question of the last netizen, saying that his girlfriend still lives in a room with his brother in junior high school, she has said to her girlfriend many times that she lets her girlfriend live separately from her brother, and the home is not a vacant room, but the girlfriend says that he is making a fuss, and he wonders if he is really making a fuss? Ask whether the brothers and sisters should avoid suspicion.
This problem has caused heated discussion, some people say that there is no need to avoid suspicion, it is indeed a matter of the questioner making a fuss, and some people say that they need to avoid suspicion, I think, this is also a problem that many heterosexual two-child families need to consider.
Before a sister said: "I have never treated my brother as a man, there is nothing to avoid." ”
Another brother said: "If my sister doesn't avoid suspicion, like when she was a child, I will beat her, if I don't beat her, her boyfriend may beat me to death." 」 ”
On the one hand, it is the feeling between brothers and sisters, and on the other hand, it is the feeling in the eyes of outsiders.
In fact, to avoid suspicion, some of the previous family conditions were not good, the housing area was small, and the brothers and sisters lived in a room before they became a family, and at that time, they did not say anything to avoid suspicion.
Because it was a very common phenomenon at that time, most families were in this situation, so it was not strange, many of them knew to avoid suspicion after becoming a family.
However, if there are conditions at home now, do you want to avoid suspicion?
The answer is yes! Even if brothers and sisters don't care about each other, when they grow up, others will find it difficult to understand.
Now we have been emphasizing physiological education, which is more beneficial than harmful to children.
Before a netizen said that his 6-year-old sister had educated him.
The sister wanted to take a bath, the brother was brushing his teeth, the sister asked the brother to brush out quickly, the brother said: "Oh, that's okay, you take off your clothes while I brush my teeth, when I finish brushing you can wash." ”
As a result, the sister said: "Mom said that boys can't watch girls undress!" "Then he kicked his brother out." My brother was blindfolded at that time, thinking in his heart, when he was a child, he helped his sister change so many diapers, took so many baths, and when he went to kindergarten, he pestered his brother to help him take a bath, but now it suddenly changed, when his brother inexplicably felt that he was old. Finally, netizens concluded that children in primary school know that they have avoided suspicion, let alone adult brothers and sisters?
However, this matter can be understood, when does the child avoid suspicion? When to know to avoid suspicion, the key lies in the time of sex education!
Knowing that netizens answered when the brothers and sisters avoided suspicion, they said:
There is no need to avoid suspicion between brothers and sisters, but when you consider avoiding suspicion, you need to avoid suspicion.
There is nothing between the brothers and sisters, just like the sister mentioned at the beginning, who has never treated her brother as a boy, so she does not pay attention to avoiding suspicion, but when you really realize that you need to avoid suspicion, then you really need to avoid suspicion.
For many of their own brothers and sisters in the past, avoiding suspicion is more to avoid the strange eyes of others.
Mom and Dad can go with the flow, but sex education still has to be popularized for children. If sex education is popularized early, the sooner children will know to avoid suspicion. After all, there are many unstable factors in the current society, and parents give their children universal knowledge of sex education as soon as possible, but also in order to let children better protect themselves.
Children from the age of three will be curious about their own body, four years old, you can popularize some knowledge for children, tell girls which parts of the body can not be seen by boys, but also tell boys which part of his body can not be seen by girls, after the formation of such a concept, children will avoid suspicion.
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